As a SC fan I am ashamed of some stans who ship M**/K****, post memes about hux***
I tried to point out what they are doing is disturbing and they told me 'It's just a joke', I replied them I don't see that as a joke and it's not funny, it's disgusting and creepy. But they responded by saying 'I am a weirdo and I should go out, touch some grass, should learn how biology works' trust me there are few more SC stans and Katie stans pointed that they should learn to separate fiction from reality. They aren't listening to anyone and only attack, bully who points out their weird behavior. Frankly they are having a blast by shipping them together and celebrate it is such some sort of achievement when your Fandom 'Posts their tweets in Tumblr'
I just want you to know that not all SCs encourage their behavior and some of them are afraid to call out their behavior because they don't want to be bullied. Cause trust me those who ship them together are none but group of bullies.
I mean, I know there are/were scs like you, I know the fandom is not made only by idiots like them. And yes, I know I generalize your fandom and put you all to one box and I'm not objective. It's just hard to see the difference when mostly I interact with the idiots and mostly see the negative stuff created by toxicorps (when I say toxicorps, I mean the idiots, not the whole sc fandom).
You know, I was thnking about it a lot - could we somehow stopped this shit before it escaled so much? That we are now in a fandom that is almost proud of sending death threats to actors and bullying them so much they left the social media?
I think we might have missed opportunity in the beginning, when the shit started to escalate. Maybe too little people called the shit out and were not supported by others? And ended bullied away. I remember some scs who were calling out the cross taggers in s2 - they lasted for a few days, because the idiots were that nasty and their typical method is coming after people as a crowd, to overhelm them. They still do that on twitter. And when you are alone with it, then yes, you end overhelmed by shit.
And then, there is the one important point aka people are in fandoms to enjoy the content. Basically, to ENJOY the good things, not drown in shit, negative posts, nasty stuff and butthurt of the others. Fandoms are and should be our escape. So I get that a lot of normal fans don't want to touch the shit, get bullied and just block and mute the idiots. I seriously fucking get it. After all, the person behind the screen deals with shit, anxiety, mental problems, horrible stuff or simply exhausted from real life problems. And just don't have enough strenght to deal with idiots online too. And I can't judge that.
Just in the ideal world, whole fandom would simply block and ban the so called ugly minorities, not carrying about who ships who. But well, for sure it's not ideal world and we have a fandom ruled by a horde of fucking idiots who don't see the differene between fiction and reality.
Anyway, it's just fucking annoying and sad and I'm glad there are only 12 eps left and we are going to be free from this nightmare.
And the last thing: thank you for sending your message, I really appreciate it and it means a lot. It's good to get a reminder that I don't see the entire picture. I know I may sound like I hate all of you, but it is generalization, I know, as I said it's hard to me to stay objective when mostly I talk to and I'm harassed by the toxicorps. The scs who just enjoy their ship are usually not on my horizon. Maybe because I have a really bad reputation among you xD What is my fault but damn, sometimes I would really want to talk with random sc shipper and just moan about the show.
Anyway, thanks again. Stay safe :)