#send advice

[displeasedwolf]

really regretting restarting my island on animal crossing because I feel like progress is so slow :<

[darrencriss-is-superior]

Random but should I block a irl friend on here???

Not going into the details because it’s WAYYYYY too personal,

But she did some awful things to me and I think it might be better if I do…

What do I do???

[tumbleintomyheart]

hey how do i stop my eyes itching when i have contacts in plz help it hurts

[alyssat-t]

Ok so we need to have a discussion.

Nothing too serious!!

Just that i feel like my outsiders interest is slowly slipping away from me☹️

For some reason, being on a beach vacation made me miss my HUGE Outer Banks phase. I’m not sure if it’s going to last or not, or if my interest will slowly come back to me, but this has/likely will happen many times.

I want your opinion on what I should do, as The Outsiders was what I built this page on, and I’m so grateful for all of you. I just am unsure what to do, and don’t want you to feel as though I’ve discarded my followers and their interests.

It’s not that I no longer enjoy the outsiders, simply that I find my passion for writing the characters fading quickly.

I hope this doesn’t come off as me trying to disregard those who follow me, but I’d rather find something else I’m interested in rather than continue to put out works for something I have no passion for or that I’m not proud of.

With love, Alyssa

[dark-vader28]

to literally ANYONE on the face of the earth who has curly/wavy hair could yall PLEASE help me. i’m too scared to go to the tiktok curly hair police 😭 but i genuinely have NO idea what my hair type is. i need brutal honesty at this point. like if we think it’s straight and im delusional or if we think i could have some kind of wavy hair. ignore the horrid photos (below the cut)

btw this is fresh out the shower and second pic is partially dry, no products. i had wavy hair as a kid but enter middle school/high school era where i put a shit ton of heat on it and after that it hasn’t been the same. it’s always flat at the top and frizzy at the bottom with waves. i’ve been using not your mothers curl talk mousse and gel and it normally looks GREAT after putting the product in but whenever i try to let it dry (air dry or diffuse, ive tried both) it always falls flat at the top, weird frizzy waves at the bottom. if im using the wrong products and should be using something better suited for specifically wavy hair, please let me know! i’m genuinely so tired of using heat on my hair because it never lays right 😭

also, for reference, my dad’s side all had very curly hair and my mom’s side had wavy hair so idk if it’s delusional but i refuse to believe i got screwed over with some dormant straight hair gene

any advice would be SO SO appreciated ❤️

[paxthepuppycat]

Can I request a bug stimboard? (totez okay if not plz dont worry <3) would b cool if it had a focus on bug antennas. any bugs r fine.

I thought an Bee Stimboard might be cool :)

lmk if you want a more specific bug species!

[fawkesheart12]

Potentially urgent post

Chat, life is unpredictable so I could totally be delusional on this but cmon-

Who has helpful advice for moving out?

Hi, I'm Cassidy

I'm a trans 18 year old male with mental disabilities and anxiety that's so bad it keeps me from calling people just to make appointments.

I have a fear of my mom potentially kicking me out if she realizes I'm "truly" transitioning. I'm pre T, using minoxidil to grow facial hair because like I said, I can't call my doctors due to fear. It makes me feel sick to do so.

She's not accepting or supportive of my identity and I plan on saving up my first couple of paychecks for top surgery, as it would save my life. Obviously this is a bigger thing than growing something as small as a beard lol, so I'm expecting her to overreact if I end up getting the money within the year/next year.

Now, I'm looking for advice for moving out on my own with these conditions, as I'm unable to do most "adult things" on my own, esp since I'm only 18 and haven't had that much experience doing that genre of things on my own??

I know about those aids/assistants that can help with schedules, appointments, paying bills, etc. when someone can't but i forget the exact name for them. My teacher recommended them to me before I went to a psych ward.

I do have a place to stay, so that's not my worry if my mom lashes out. I've gotten to the point of almost moving out due to a back breaking fight me and my mom had after she figured out I had self harmed and got mad at me for it.

Anyone have advice on these kind of things? Im not sure how to exactly do all or this on my own, even with the bits of support I have here and there, but I want advice from people with similar/past experiences