I am very happy to have found your tumblr! I've been watching your tiktoks, so I'm soooo glad to have found you elsewhere. I've been resonating with the word butch for a while, but it took me a while to figure out whether to use it or not as a trans guy. But seeing your stuff was my final push to stop worrying about it and going with my heart and you make me feel very seen and happy as a young butch. Much love, have a great day and take care <33
I , of course, can only speak from my circles of friends and experience. I have never much been one to read a ton of studies or academic papers about gender studies or specifically lesbians. I find the stories of my own elders and the sharing of experiences with other lesbians yields way more nuance and, dare I say, Common Sense.
The reality is often way more complex than social media discourse but in the same sense more simple and without taking too much too seriously or personal as others figure out where they fit and what resonates or does not. Figuring out anything in the modern world as we are inundated with information, good and bad, can be a difficult task.
Separating what is within and what is without, what feels right and what is just TOLD to us that we are supposed to feel is a full time job in these times.
I share my stories and allow people to take what they need and leave the rest. Real life experience is more suited to the human experience than a one size fits all declaration.
I hope you saw my tiktok where I stitched Roman. We are vastly different in our approach to embracing our butchness and yet so similar in the way we move and are perceived in the world. The world is too vast to cast all trans men or otherwise in one giant mold.
I am glad you found me and and I hope you find friends and a social circle that says "yep" and you all get on with living and loving life.