#shifting struggles

[vampireprinceshifts]

I WAS IN MY MANS BED.

I shifted to my Academia DR (my s/o's home reality) last night.

"Élie, what did you do?"

AFFIRMED AND ASSUMED. WHAT ELSE. IT'S ALL LOA LOA PERSIST PERSIST. @cowboy-barbiana talked abt this on their blog a lot too (follow him if y'all resonate with my way of shifting).

I robotically affirmed. Assumed so hard. Slipped in and out of consciousness. Then I remembered how a lot of shifters said to not put shifting on a pedestal, and yk what I did? I MENTALLY VISUALIZE MYSELF PUTTING DOWN A GUN FROM MY HEAD. Then I relaxed. Deep breaths deep breaths.

Then I felt this 'click'. In an old comment, I asked @99oscaars how it felt / sounded when she shifted (it was on an auditory method post). She said it felt like a switch. Like. No dramatics no nothing. Just a switch. AND IT HAPPENED TO ME EXACTLY LIKE THAT.

I shifted to this point a lot (hearing sounds from my DR) but like. This one is so? Noticeable? I felt this 'SWOOP' feeling. Like I told the universe "yo I'm shifting alright" and they replied with "sure here ya go" with so much non-chalance.

It's deep winter in my DR. I shifted from a tropical country guys. The temperature change was so contrast.

With my eyes closed, I realize that I have a different body. Different sheets. I AM IN MY MANS HOUSE IN OXFORD. I also felt this peace... that I mentally scripted I would feel in this DR.

We have this huge window behind our bed, and the winter sun shines right onto my face. I could hear people walking by. PEOPLE WERE SPEAKING IN ENGLISH WITH A THICK ENGLISH ACCENT. I usually only heard birds. FOR THE FIRST TIME I COULD HEAR PEOPLE???? It's winter festival season you guys. Like. Oh my goshh it was a special day, a lot of people went out to visit the markets, including me and my man in our plan!

I panicked. I took a deep breath. I had shifted, but idk how to ground myself. I didn't open my eyes because I'm too scared that I'll see my cr wardrobe instead of seeing my shirtless semi-dilf of a bf </3 (HELP) Y'ALL I WAS SO SCARED.

I moved my hand. Didn't feel a body. He was supposed to be in front of me???? erm. Plot hole???? hello?

So I decided to calm tf down. I know damn well that I'm in my dr so no need to convince myself of anything anymore. Then to calm down, I let my mind wander... to Wicked. I thought to myself: "Hey, Shiz University DR would be fun!"

THEN I FELL ASLEEP. WHAT. WHAAAAT. I HAD VIVID DREAMS OF SHIZ. BUT WHAT THE HELL I WOKE UP HERE.

I NEVER FELT THIS DEVASTATED. LAST TIME I FELT THIS DEVASTATED WAS WHEN I WATCHED 'CALL ME BY YOUR NAME' WHEN I WAS A TEEN IN HIGH SCHOOL YEAARS AGO.

I cried. Of course I cried because I miss my bf????? I know I did nothing wrong. But I don't know what to blame either. I zoned out in the showers, realizing I had shifted. 0 doubt. I had shifted.

I don't know how much longing I could take. Pray for Clyde Harlow. Pray for me.

tagging my cuties @xenothyst , @autismermaid & @nottsim hehe

[avari80]

Everyone

SHOULD genuinely read this OMG I am literally out of words that's too real too real too much very very real I know it is so LONG it's very long but it's worth it at the end it is worth it trust me every single second you're reading this is a miracle if you are doubting shifting or anything you should read this and I am very thankful to the creator I didn't finish it but hopefully I will soon be able to finish it guys you definitely need to read this

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1zGMODLIJ7UUV2BMi1o7gPDj51qz5ele_-ngOK0SwwV8/mobilebasic

[77747]

Being friends with non shifters is actually so tiring even with them knowing I'm a shifter. Yes, I can tell you about my dr but you don't get ittttt. It just doesn't hit the same

[intrestrelatedusername]

SHIFTING SUCCESS STORIES IN REBLOGS AND COMMENTS PLEASE!!

[shifting success stories in reblogs and comments please]

I need motivation. So. Bad. I find myself questioning so much if it's real 😭

[senaenabear]

Don’t tell me what to do 🦋

One thing I can’t tolerate and hate seeing in the shifting community, is when one claims “this is wrong” or “you have to do it this way”. That’s in fact wrong. Wrong for thinking someone else does it wrong. Everyone has their own unique way of shifting- whether it be methods, scripting or affirming. So saying one way is not possible, doesn’t really make sense, does it? We know we are limitless and everything is possible when shifting. So that equals everyone having their own journeys.

I appreciate successful shifters helping us and telling us about their experiences, but in the end it’s YOURSELF who has to steer their boat. They help but they can’t tell you exactly what to do, figure it out for yourself- take your time to do so and stop being arrogant.

For the ones who insist on sth working tho, sth having to be done a certain way- NO. Please stop spreading misinformation, because one thing’s sure is that there’s at least one person who can prove you wrong. For some it works this way, for others that way, and for the rest not at all.

[rorororomuh]

question for my fellow shifters :

for my singer dr i had a really hard time composing a discography with a true theme and when i say that i mean my discography has songs from billie eilish, sabrina carpenter, clairo, grimes, poppy, beabadoobee, phoebe bridgers, lizzy mcalpine, ethel cain and doja cat.

and i thought what if thats my whole thing in my dr to be a genuine multi genre artist and it’s like apart of the reason im such a good artist yk ? i know i should just do what i want but im having doubts lol

is this cool or is it too extra??

[rorborealis]

𝑴𝒚 𝑵𝒊𝒄𝒉𝒆 𝑫𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒓𝒆𝒅 𝑹𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒊𝒆𝒔 ✶⋆.˚

Some of these are some I want to shift to and I don’t have scripts yet

The New Adventures of New Christine

The Breakfast Club

The Karate Kid 1 & 2

Better Call Saul

The Middle

Twisters

The Holiday

That 70s Show

Dirty Dancing

The Big Bang Theory

The OC

Will & Grace

Youtuber w garrett watts and andrew siwicki

Weird Science

Point Break

Gremlins

Hocus Pocus

The Crow

Superbad

Scream IV

Roadhouse 1989

Better Off Dead

The Lost Boys

Ten Inch Hero

The Goldbergs

[seriyass]

Good evening, do you know how to go beyond fear ?

When I shift, I feel a sudden panic of dying...and it turns into a mini-shift...I can't get past it...

Do you know how ?

How to overcome your fear of shifting

for all the shifters who are afraid of shifting fully, because of strong symptoms, as a fast heart race or feeling of dying- dw you are NOT alone

First things first: you cannot die. It’s impossible to die from a shifting attempt. You are safe, you are protected, you are in charge of yourself.

I already met some shifters with the same problem, and to solve it, you have to accept it. Affirm daily that your shifts are safe, fast and easy. It’s okay to feel fear at first. I mean shifting to a different reality, with different circumstances IS scary. But don’t let that stop you.

You can try listening to subliminals while you’re trying to shift, bring your crystals out or hug your plushie. There’s so many ways to make you feel comfortable while shifting- and yes changing positions is okay.

I can’t really tell you what will help or won’t, because you have to figure it out yourself. But I can surely help you with it: maybe you aren’t ready yet to shift, you have to work on your mindset, your negative thoughts and doubts. Now I’m not telling you that with doubts you can’t shift- yes you can be doubtful and shift, but that’s not the point. Try doing some digging, what is the real reason you are blocking yourself from shifting? Shadow work is definitely a very good way of finding out!

Do you know the quote “fake it till you make it” -well if you can’t do anything else, then just pretend (with affirmations like “I am safe when I shift” “I don’t have any fear of shifting” “I am ready to shift” etc.) because your mind forgets, and if you focus on the negative thought: “I can’t get out of my fear state” then you won’t. You’re basically telling your brain to not shift because of fear, even when it’s unintentionally. The more you focus on these affirmations that help reprogram your mindset, the more you’ll feel confident and even forget about the “fear” you once had. Because at first you just pretend, but at the end you really aligned with that idea and it’s in you now.

Now remember, shifting is not a hard or complicated process. Shifting is supposed to be fun! Be positive about it and make your 4D ideas into your 3D world. It may take time to build this new belief/ mindset, but it’s worth it.

Oh and one more thing: a mini shift IS A SHIFT too! So don’t make them look smaller than shifting for longer. When you have experienced mini shifts- you are bound to experience all kind of shifts! One way closer to the finish line darling :)

I believe in you, now you have to believe in yourself!! You got this ✨🫶🏻