Sometimes you have to do the hard thing and cut off/distance yourself from your family. You try your hardest to make things work, to communicate, to keep certain people happy so that you can "keeps the peace". Sometimes people refuse to change, they refuse to take accountability and listen to understand and would rather listen so they can respond. It may be cliche but in my opinion that one saying is true. "You will always be the villain in someone else's story". I had to take accountability, self-reflect, and apologize for my actions and try to make amends. I thought I did good and everything would get better, but it didn't work and now for the sake of my mental health I must give some distance to certain people in my life. Will I always be the bad guy to that person? Yep. Is there anything I can do about it? Not really. I did my part and tried my best to communicate with love and honest and forgave them. Theres nothing left for me to do now but to use this situation as a lesson and learn from it.