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Guys. We cannot be equating any transfeminist post/blog with transandrophobia or any anti-transandrophobia post/blog to transmisogyny.

They quite literally don't work like that. It would only —and this "only" is very, very specific to the circumstances of this discourse— work if you're treating either transfeminism or anti-transandrophobia as having a meaning of being a special kind of discrimination, not because of its own kind of intersectionality (like Misogynoir, intertransexism, etc), but because it means it's the one that's "more oppressed".

For fuck sake, neither of the two is more oppressed than the other by itself. If there's an intersection of intersexuality/race/class/disabilities/etc, then that's another complete different story. But Trans Fems and Trans Mascs are quite literally just oppressed differently —the ones on the non-binary spectrum of those are going to go through another layer of oppression, the binary guys— but talking about the binary of it all, Trans Women have hypervisibility (which means almost everything will be published somewhere but it will all be very transmisogynistic, treating them as predators and danger to justify any kind of taking out their right) and Trans Men have invisibility (which means almost nothing will ever be reported, and any rights taken away from them will be done completely silently/already be done). And both are extremely oppressive in their own fucked up ways.

But you can only see one as inherently anti the other if you think yours is the most oppressed and that your term is used for that. Because if then the others say they make the same but for themselves, it will feel like a direct attack to yours. Because you won't see it as intersectionality and each specific oppression being expressed, but as yours existing to say it's the worst, therefore any other coinage similar will be seen as dangerous to you to be able to express your oppression.

And if when you make your own terminology to coin your oppression and some people start telling you that your oppression doesn't exist and even if it did it's not even close to theirs, it's normal to then feel like they are an oppressive force against you.

But this infighting? Is just TERF ideology behind a filter. Stop it for fuck sake. The actual enemy and oppressors are literally the cis TERFS.

Y'all are trying to win the oppression Olympics while we're being actively victims of genocide in a lot of countries worldwide.

So stop falling for this TERF ideologies and do something about it. Learn about the other side and what they live through, that isn't in any way taking what you live through out of existence.

Also, please for the love of god, remember non-binary/neogender/xenogender people. We are quite literally the majority of the trans community if you see studies that actually include us and don't have us forcefully put in binaries. Learn about our experiences, defend us, and learn about exorsexism please. The same way a lot of us do regarding transmisogyny and transandrophobia.

And you need to include intersex people. Not as a footnote, not as a gotcha, and not as a quick shout-out. Learn about the origin of AGAB and why intersex people are trying to stop how it's being used and abolishing it —and actually stop using it. Learn about intersexism, it's history, the slurs that should not be used,... Educate yourselves on people other than you and spread it like you're doing for yours.

And stop it with the fucking TMA/TME bullshit please, it's intersexist, exorsexist, transandrophobic, and isn't doing anything good.

Wow.

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