#stop romanticising

[unspoken-unheard-unknown]

Hating “Love”

I’m so sick of love. 

Not the feeling, but the concept; The hype, the demand, and the obsession.

The definition of love is as unique as our DNA, 

and it varies just as much.

Some claim to have it, others struggle to find it, and the worst ones of all are those who abuse it. 

Romanticizing love is like dipping candy in sugar; pointless and bad for the body. 

The heart is the center of it all, the factory of feelings, at least in our heads. 

Whereas in reality, it just moves blood around.

Why waste time trying to define love? Why spend hours pining over it, or making it more of yourself than anything else?

Because we need it?

Love is fundamental to humanity. We are social creatures. We crave others.

But we have ruined love. We made it superficial, stupid, and sometimes straight up toxic.

Stop fucking around with love. 

Stop trying to make it unnecessarily extravagant or something it is not.

Love is one of the few gems we get to experience in this life. It is a rare treasure that should be appreciated...

not snatched, grabbed, or exaggerated.

Stop commercializing love and just live it.

Let yourself love, not “love” or “love” love.

Please.

[heathcliffitsmecathy]

People who believe that Rhaegar and Lyanna are a beautiful, true love and Elia doesn't matter, have you ever thought how Rhaegar humiliated his wife giving the flowers to Lyanna in the Harrenhal's tournament? Do you think that Rhaegar's romance is more important than his children? (because with the annulment they became bastards). Have you ever seen in real life children abandoned by their father because he found a new women? Remind that Rhaegar Targaryen not only cheated Elia, he humiliated her in front everyone. He left his children alone. I will never see a "beautiful, true, pure love" in a situation where a women is humiliated, where children are left alone, because this also happens in real life and it's sad.

[ooozoomaki]

Ew. Don't follow me if you blog about school shooters and shit. Don't.

[farabees]

Kylo Ren: *knocks Rey out, kidnaps, & tortures her*

R*ylos: True love😍😍

[lunadelrio]

Stop romanticising mental illness.

[versaceonbruno]

stop romanticizing

I hate how people in the outsiders fandom romanticize the 60s.

like yeah, milkshakes and greaser outfits are cool but you know what isn’t cool? The racism and sexism that happened 24/7 

[nimbuschaser]

If i see a cute lion or animal pic i cant even reblog it because mt start writing 'goals 😍' smh im joining peta because of yall

[borrowedfromanothergalaxy]

stop romantizing

about when you're in the middle of an argument with your significant other and they kiss you in the middle of your sentence/ rant/ microsoft slideshow presentation with bullet points/ chant to summon a demon to handle their ass.

it is not cute. it is not healthy. it is not relationship goals. it is rude. it is disrespectful. [insert pronoun] is just trying to shut you up.