#system feels

[cutiepieautistic]

How it feels when a girly alter get's triggered to co-front or front,when almost exclusively male or tomboy alters have been fronting:

[our-inspire-verse]

I've been super aware of switches and who's fronting lately. I can recognize who's voice is whos, various memories and feelings and body language. I can even almost pinpoint how people talk based on where in my throat or chest they're using my bodys voice

Its taken me probably about 2 years to get to this point and its taken documentation, constant asking myself questions and so much patience

These questions include

Who am i

What names do i resonate with

What do i look like inside

Where am i from

What do i remember

What is familiar about where im at, and have i fronted here yet(often asked at work or in my current home)

How do i know the people around me

Do i particularly like or dislike something

What are my base emotions (alters cant be boiled down to singular emotions necessarily but some tend to experience one more than others and it can help section them off)

How old are they

How many are there

Can they speak or are they semi-verbal, mute, or do they talk in ways that arent words(some use music or animal noises or just communicate telepathically)

There are loads of other questions and its not like i go through the entire list every time but things like this have helped me figure out a lot more about my system. It's about who affects what, what triggers who, and how everyone navigates the world and why.

This may not work for everyone but im hoping this resource may help someone

[toxxsystem]

being a system shows up in some of the most interesting and subtle ways

like some of our system members stammer

some of us don't

some of us have a lisp. some of us don't

some of us speak much deeper than others, and some of us will always be speaking with a sort of feminine rolling cadence and constantly telling jokes

if you didn't know we were a system, then it would seem like we were just someone who speaks in lots of different ways, but people who know we're a system notice these differences and it feels very validating

[nebulaicdust]

No gender, only alien

and also possibly system member?

[therunecollective]

No one:

The protector:

[legallyanxious]

*VIOLENTLY CLAPPING OUR HANDS* NO! MENTAL! BREAK! DOWNS! NO MENTAL! BREAKDOWNS! NO MENTAL BREAKDOWNS! NO MENTAL BREAKDOWNS WHEN WE’RE HYPERFIXATING! NO MENTAL BREAKDOWNS AFTER FALLING IN LOVE WITH NEW MEDIA! FOR THE LOVE OF GOD PLEASE DONT SPLIT! PLEASE! NO! INTROJECT! WE DONT! NEED! A NEW! FICTIVE! *Deep breathe* FUUUUUUUCK

[the-shipwreck]

when a new alter keeps showing up and ur not ready to deal with them yet