A small addition to this post about japanese fandom tags
Japanese fandom is very strict about seperating stuff. And there's been plenty of angry posts about mixing Plus and Yume tags (some japanese fans do it too).
Plus (プラス) basically used as "x reader" meaning the viewer of this content can insert themselves in this content. There's either blank character as "you" or some plain design which is easy to project yourself on. It is frowned upon to use non-canon characters in this tag, especially in romantic setting.
Yume (夢) is more personal. Here you can show your original character or sona, which has distinctive features, design, face, character etc. This is just safe space for yumes to share their content.
It doesn't mean that a stranger can't enjoy someone's yume works. But it's not everyone' cup of tea and some strongly dislike or just avoid it (e.g. non-sharing yumes). Sometimes creators even mention if their Yuu has "voice" or "character" or "backstory" because it makes it harder for other people to self-insert in this case.
And many fans ask to respect this and tag appropriately.
Some other details or which words you can mute/use in search
As mentioned above, sometimes seeing another character with your fave can be triggering. So to warn that there's "prefect with face" many people add this note to their post:
※顔有り監督生
※監督生顔あり
※監顔あり
etc. Which are translated as "Prefect with face"
Many people prefer specifically fem or male Prefect when paired with certain characters. To indicate this creators usually add ♀️ if it's a girl or ♂️ if it's a boy
For example: セベ監♀️ - Sebek x fem.Prefect
Or add kanji for woman/man: 女監、女監督生
It's important sometimes to mark your posts as "headcanon" in order not to cause confusion, that this is your "delusion" and not canon information.
In this case such worsa are used:
※妄想 (mōsō) - dellusion, fantasy or imagination. Personal headcanons or romantic delusions. Silly and lighthearted.
※捏造 (netsuzō) - fabrication, something made up. Invented details which do not exist in canon. Like made up lore or events, childhood memories not shown in canon, family relationships, etc. Basically anything not covered in canon. Very important tag.
I’ve noticed that some users who are newer to the platform may not understand proper tagging etiquette so here’s my psa:
Please do not treat your tag section the same as you would on other social media. Only add tags that are actually relevant to your post, do not add extra tags for “reach”.
DO:
Tag your reblogs with relevant tags to the content you’re reblogging. This helps people filter out content they don’t want to see, and helps you filter the content within your own blog! Win-win!
Tag any content/trigger warnings you think might apply (“CW: [content]” or “TW: [content]” are the most common version of this tag I see). Also helps people filter out things they don’t want to see!
Tag your own posts with relevant tags! Some people prefer not to post in the “main” tags, which is fine, but alternative tags also work.
DON’T:
Include irrelevant tags in your posts. If your post your post isn’t about a certain fandom or character, DO NOT tag that fandom or character. (I’ve seen a lot of RP blogs tag main character tags that aren’t even relevant to their post or the character they’re RP-ing. Please stop.)
Include tags if the post is being nasty about the character/ship/media . Criticism and analysis is fine, but if you’re posting “haha I hate [character]” in that character’s tag it’s just straight up rude. The people following that tag don’t want to see that.
If I’ve missed anything feel free to RB with other tagging etiquette!
repulsed aroace culture is having to block a bunch of tags that are basically variations of the same thing cuz no one the internet can agree how to tag ships apparently
The Digital Eco-System: A Deep Dive into Tumblr Etiquette, Mental Health, and the Art of the Curated Feed
he internet, by its very design, is a chaotic neutral space. We enter it hoping for community, inspiration, or a brief dopamine hit, only to find ourselves navigating a minefield of discourse, unintended spoilers, and content that clashes violently with our current vibe. On Tumblr, a platform built on the bedrock of highly specific subcultures and chronological dashboards, this chaos is amplified. It is a place where a profound analysis of classical literature can sit directly above a chaotic shitpost, which sits directly above explicit fan art.
Managing this stream of consciousness requires tools, boundaries, and a fundamental shift in how we view our digital responsibilities. We often talk about internet etiquette as a set of rules imposed on others, but true digital peace comes from an internal paradigm shift. It is about understanding that while we cannot control the ocean of the dashboard, we are entirely in control of how we build our ship.
The Utopian Tagging System vs. The Reality of the Feed
In a perfect world, the Tumblr ecosystem would function like a flawlessly indexed library. Every post would be meticulously categorized. Trigger warnings would be uniform, comprehensive, and applied with surgical precision. If you wanted to avoid a specific character, a certain pairing, a distressing news topic, or even just a specific trope, you could type a single word into your filtered tags and live in blissful ignorance.
But we do not live in a perfect world; we live in a world populated by human beings who post while sleep-deprived, emotional, or simply distracted.
For me, extensive tagging isn't just an act of courtesy; it is a necessity driven by a highly systemizing brain. My mind naturally seeks patterns, order, and rigorous organization. When I tag a post, I am categorizing it into a broader mental archive. I tag the fandom, the characters, the themes, the meta-commentary, and the specific nuances of the discussion. To a systemizing mind, an untagged post feels like a book left out of place on a library shelf—a minor friction point in a world that craves order.
However, expecting every user to share this exact cognitive framework is a recipe for perpetual frustration. People tag ironically. People forget to tag. People use shorthand that bypasses standard filters. Because the utopian, perfectly tagged dash is a myth, the burden of curation must ultimately shift from the content creator to the content consumer.
The Right to Block: Protecting Your Own Peace
There is a strange, lingering stigma on the internet that blocking someone is an act of aggression, a declaration of war, or an admission of defeat. We need to dismantle this idea entirely. Blocking is everyone’s fundamental right on the internet. It is not a disciplinary action; it is a boundary.
When we stumble across content that upsets, triggers, or simply annoys us, our immediate impulse can sometimes be to lash out at the poster—to demand they change their behavior or accommodate our specific psychological needs. But the internet is too vast, and human trauma is too varied, for any single creator to anticipate every potential trigger.
it is up to the person who gets triggered to take the necessary steps to protect their own peace. Expecting the world to walk on eggshells around your specific sensitivities is an exercise in futility. Taking accountability for your own digital well-being is incredibly empowering. You do not need a grand justification to remove someone from your feed. You do not need to wait for them to violate a rule. If their presence on your dashboard compromises your mental peace, the block button is your shield.
Equally important is the flip side of this coin: we must learn not to take it personally when the block button is turned against us. In the hyper-connected ecosystem of Tumblr, discovering you have been blocked or unfollowed can trigger an immediate pang of rejection or defensiveness. It is easy to spiral into wondering what you did wrong, or to view the other person's boundary as a direct insult to your character. But just as your blocks are about protecting your own peace, their blocks are entirely about protecting theirs. It rarely means you are a bad person. It simply means your digital output didn't align with their current mental or environmental needs.
Extending this courtesy to others means granting them the same radical autonomy over their dashboard that you claim for yourself. If someone soft-blocks you to clear their feed of your fandom rants, or hard-blocks you because your casual humor hits a personal trigger of theirs, let them. You do not need to demand an explanation, circumvent their boundaries via side-blogs, or send anonymous asks demanding to know what happened. Respecting the block means recognizing that you are not entitled to a space on a stranger's screen, and that their curation choices are not a referendum on your worth.
Ultimately, normalizing the block button as a neutral utility—rather than an act of hostility—fosters a healthier internet for everyone. When we stop viewing digital boundaries as personal attacks, we strip the drama out of curation. We can coexist in the same broader digital landscape without needing to force ourselves into the exact same corners of it. By giving others the grace to curate you out of their timeline without taking it to heart, you contribute to a mature, low-friction environment where everyone is free to build the precise internet experience they need.
The Power of Username Filters
Tumblr provides us with a robust toolkit for a reason, and utilizing it creatively can solve a lot of interpersonal friction. One of the most underutilized features is the ability to filter specific usernames or keywords, a tool that allows for nuanced boundary-setting without the finality of a hard block.
My a practical, real-world scenario.
The Living Room Dilemma: Many of us use Tumblr throughout the day in shared spaces. I often find myself writing or scrolling on my laptop in the living room, right in the middle of the day. Now, I have mutuals—people I genuinely like, respect, and consider friends—who post incredibly pervy, NSFW, or highly explicit content.
The Solution: I don’t want that explicit content flashing across my screen while my family is walking by at 2:00 PM. But I also don't want to sever ties with these mutuals. By utilizing username and content filters during the day, I can effectively mute their explicit output when I am vulnerable to public embarrassment. Later, when I am in a private space and in the right headspace, I can actively go back to their blogs, catch up on their posts, and engage with their content on my own terms.
Filtering isn't a punishment; it’s a logistics strategy for your dashboard. It allows you to love your friends while managing your environment.
The Soft Block: Managing Chronic Negativity
Then there are the users who aren't necessarily doing anything "wrong," but whose digital aura is a constant drain. We all know the type: the chronic complainers, the anti-fans who spend twenty-four hours a day hate-posting about a piece of media, or the people who inject cynicism into every wholesome thread.
When faced with chronic negativity, the soft block (blocking and immediately unblocking someone so that you unfollow each other and break the mutual link) is an elegant, quiet solution. It removes them from your feed and removes you from theirs. It resets the counter without the drama of a permanent wall. Life is too short, and our mental energy is too finite, to willingly subject ourselves to a daily drip-feed of someone else's unmitigated bitterness. You are allowed to quietly slip out the back door of a digital relationship.
Fandom Burnout: Knowing When to Walk Away
This brings us to the broader relationship between fandom culture and mental health. Fandom is supposed to be a playground—a space for joy, creativity, analysis, and community. Yet, all too often, it morphs into a toxic pressure cooker. Discussions turn into ideological battlegrounds, ship wars consume entire tags, and the sheer volume of outrage becomes exhausting.
If a fandom is actively weighing on your mental health, hear this clearly: it is 100% okay to walk away and just enjoy the media by yourself.
You do not owe a community your presence. You do not need to defend your favorite character in the trenches of the discourse tags to prove you are a "real" fan. There is immense peace in becoming a silent consumer—watching the show, reading the book, or playing the game in the quiet comfort of your own mind, completely insulated from the opinions of strangers.
The Evolution of Media: It’s Okay to Say "This is Not for Me"
This digital exhaustion often peaks when a beloved franchise changes direction. A prime example of this is the ongoing discourse surrounding the Final Fantasy VII remake trilogy.
For decades, the original FF7 stood as a sacred text of the RPG world. When the remakes arrived, they didn't just update the graphics; they fundamentally altered the gameplay mechanics, expanded the narrative lore, and introduced meta-fictional elements that changed the very nature of the story. For some fans, this was a thrilling evolution. For others, it felt like a betrayal of the atmosphere and mechanics they loved.
When a game or media direction isn't your cup of tea, you have two healthy options.
Wait for the next installment: Media franchises cyclical. Tastes change, directors rotate, and mechanics evolve. If the current iteration doesn't resonate with you, you can step back, let others enjoy it, and see what the next project brings.
Say "This is not for me" and move on: There is absolutely no shame in reaching a point where you look at a franchise you used to love and realize you have grown apart. You don't need to spend years raging in the tags about how the creators "ruined" your childhood. You can simply cherish the memories of the original, acknowledge that the new direction is intended for a different audience, and walk away with your dignity intact.
Nothing puts the triviality of the internet into sharper focus than standing in the raw reality of human mortality. When you lose someone you love, attend a funeral, and sit in a room filled with crying relatives you haven't seen in decades, the illusion of digital urgency completely shatters. In the grand scheme of life, the arguments we have online are utterly meaningless. We spend so much finite energy worrying about problematic ships, anti discourse, and pro-ship debates, yet none of it matters when you are confronted with the fragile, fleeting nature of existence. If the legacy we leave behind in this world doesn't make it a better, kinder place, we need to stop and ask ourselves why we are wasting our breath on things that won't matter in five years, let alone fifty.
This radical shift in perspective becomes even clearer when we unearth the heavy, complicated truths of our own lives and family histories. Discovering that the foundational stories of your upbringing were built on hidden trauma—like learning a parent's abuse was fueled by the untreated PTSD of a terrifying survival event—doesn't excuse the pain they caused, but it contextualizes it. It shows you the sheer scale of real-world suffering, survival, and human brokenness. Confronting these massive, generational ghosts makes it impossible to care about the petty tribalism of an online fandom. Real life is vast, painful, beautiful, and incredibly short; it is far too short to let strangers on the internet dictate your emotional state or to spend your days policing how others enjoy fiction.
Ultimately, the wisest path forward is a philosophy of "live and let live." We must let go of the need to fight every battle, correct every stranger, and win every piece of discourse. Fandom should only ever be a microscopic, joyful footnote in our lives, not a source of genuine distress. When we ground ourselves in what truly matters—healing our own wounds, honoring our grief, and navigating the complex realities of the people right in front of us—the noise of the dashboard fades into absolute insignificance.
At the end of the day, your Tumblr dashboard is your digital living room. You have the right to choose who sits on the couch, what music is playing, and what topics are up for debate. By embracing extensive tagging for your own peace of mind, respecting the sovereign right to block, utilizing filters to manage your daily environment, and knowing when to step away from toxic fandom spaces, you reclaim agency over your internet experience.
But tagging “Dead Dove Do Not Eat” and nothing else ISN’T HOW THAT TAG WORKS
‘Dead Dove Do Not Eat is basically “as said on the label” but if you put nothing on the label the Dead Dove means nothing
Dead Dove Could mean it covers child abuse, which some viewers might be okay with, it could also mean graphic Sexual Assault which those very same viewers aren’t okay with reading, and if you don’t clarify they will have no what of knowing what is what, there’s a very important discretion when it comes to ao3 tags
TLDR: You need to label the Death of the Dove itself before warning people Not to Eat
Making this post rn because the shit I'm seeing is pissing me off.
Stop tagging things on here if they don't relate to those things!
I have seen SO MANY posts in the past few days that are tagged with things that are not related to the contents of the post whatsoever.
I'm specifically talking to everyone in the Percy Jackson fandom. Because why tf are we tagging something "Clarisse la Rue" and it's a Luke Castellan x reader fic that doesn't even mention her?!?!(Absolutely no hate to x reader fics and people who create them, but please use the correct tags for the love of all that's good.) (This may seem like an edge case scenario but I have seen four (4) instances of this specific scenario in the past four days). I have blocked an innumerable number of people for this.
I know that I, and many other people, like to use tags to search through things/sort through content, and people doing this crap is making it harder for everyone else.
Another common thing I've seen is people tagging a post with as many different popular tags that don't even relate to the post to "boost" the popularity. Like wtf, the only interaction this is getting from me is a block.
Like if I'm surfing the tag for my niche side character, I should be seeing stuff related to said character, not having the tag flooded by unrelated posts about Percabeth or other shit.
Sorry for the rant, this has been happening for a while and it's been making me more and more angry. Everything mentioned in the post is something I have seen while scrolling through my blorbos (Clarisse) tag in the past two weeks. None of this is hyperbole. Please do better.
