Daring is caring
Why is it so hard for us to admit to something, to someone? To be binding. It’s the feeling of committing to someone new. Having trust to a different person. Reset. New game. New love. Why is that so hard? Being caught in the uncertain. Why is that so much distress for us? It feels so good to return to the familiar surroundings and people. But there is a reason for why it didn’t go well. If there isn’t one, ask yourself why it doesn’t work out now. Habits make us feel safe. Comfortable. But it doesn’t bring change. It’s kind of being stuck in your own comfort zone with someone. Maybe he doesn’t dare to challenge you anymore. He knows your needs, your anxieties. Why should he remind you of this? The main thing is, that those fears are the key to your dreams. By solving or overcoming them, you get closer to what really attracts your heart. But here we are. In the present. In practice. And that’s the part that hits you hard from the back. It’s unexpected, so your choice relies on the old habits. That’s what habits do: You repeat the old manner, because your impulses remember them. The point is, that you have to act differently in those moments. In a way, that you really want and not what’s trained because that’s the way you always did it. It doesn’t bring you forward. But that’s theory. In practice we always rely on the familiar. That’s human. The question is: What does make us dare something? In this moment. Here and now. What does makes us break the comfort zone daring to try something new that will possibly make us happy?
