#trans fetishization

[fieryfoxboy]

it’s fucking disgusting how so many “allies” AND fellow queer people will only ever mention transmascs when it has to do with how much they like “boypussy” but then when it comes to the oppression we face for being transmasc it’s dead silence

[intersexcat-tboy]

Noticing a very strange trend of women wanting to use trans men's bodies the same way they talk about men wanting to use them

Trans men do not exist to be your sex toy. They do not exist to get you off. They do not exist to get the job done. They do not exist to be flesh shields for you to use. They do not exist to put themselves at risk. They are not your maids that you sneeringly call butlers. They aren't lab grown meat for your pleasure. They're fucking humans with their own desires.

They do not exist for you. They do not owe you anything. They exist for their damn selves.

[bookyred]

lmfao. Sure mate.

I was about to add in "they'll be saying this about sissy and trap next", but lets be honest they already do.

Any man calling himself 'femboy' is either a raging transmisogynist who defends himself by expressing his bigotry as an "UWU softboy its my birfdayyyy 🥺" or a closeted transfem who has been forced into this role by society because she believes it's the closest she can ever get to a 'not-man' status.

The term is a slur that can be reclaimed by transfems and transfems only. TME people can keep it out of their fucking mouths.

Look at any depiction of a "femboy". Literally any. They are just transfems, moreover they are everything society wants from transfems.

Almost exclusively skinny and white. When they aren't it's seen as an aspect to eroticize and alienate them further rather than just part of who they are.

They uphold the sex-gender binary without giving any cissies icky feelings. They make themselves sexually avaliable to anyone and everyone whilst simultaneously being completely innocent and unaware of what sex is (occasionally they will acknowledge it's existence, but in a "pathetic" or needy way, often begging for an of screen partner to 'do something' to them).

They embody the complete fantasy of "tranny you can do whatever you want to".

Maybe this is an overreaction but I genuinely think that the reason a lot of TME people who are otherwise fine with "femboys" now oppose the "futa" and "trap" is because transfeminists brought attention to what was otherwise a semi obscure fetish, it was known of of course but the details of it were only really known by the people who dehumaized and objectified transfems were into it and they were disgusted by the idea of a man submitting or being "tricked" by a tranny.

And they're fine with femboys because that sepcifically is the type which submits to other (almost exculsively men, exclusively white[unless the person in particular is pulling some BBC shit, kill kill kill], typically cis but not quite as certain as the others, and exclusively perisex. Oh of course able bodied too, always able bodied).

Anyway, if you're TME this is not a word for you. There're plenty of other terms but this one can only be reclaimed by transfems.

[status-quo-hater]

Futanari is a direct translation of hermaphrodite - a slur which conflates intersex people with cosexual animal species (in that it's used to refer to both of these things; though it originally referred to intersex people)

Futanari is specifically used primarily as a drawn porn term for fetishized depictions of trans women and "intersex" (bigenital) characters. I have been called that word on a number of occasions for being intersex. People often base their expectations of my body on "futa"/"herm" porn. This wouldn't happen if we just used a word for bigenital characters that y'know, hasn't been used to refer to intersex people for centuries? Continued use ot these terms directly perpetuates intersexist stereotypes & disinformation, not to mention the whole can of transmisogyny worms of the widespread viewing of transfem bodies as fetish material in the case of non-bigenital "futa" porn.

Why exactly is it insane to call this word, futanari, what it is? It is a fetishistic & derogatory term for a group of queer people.

[greenlanternnerd]

I absolutely ABHORE fics who fetishize trans men so much and you’ll never believe how common they are. Please tell me someone else knows what I’m talking about, the fics where it’s usually m/m and they make the bottom a trans man but it never actually gets bought up or discussed in the story and is only in the tags and only exists so that the bottom can have a vagina when there’s a smut scene and sometimes so they can have boobs. Like OH MY GOD SHUT UPPPP!!! It’s blatant fetishization and it has no purpose! If you need a male character with a vagina/boobs but don’t want to actually write about the character being trans just tag it as that character has a vagina/boobs! Or if your an extreme Fujo who feminizes the bottom to the extreme of making them a pre hrt/surgery trans man to give them the physical features you fetishize and then continue invalidating the character by feminizing them, at that point just make it straight and genderbend the bottom character.

Obviously for me as a cis person I am an outsider looking in and I’m not sure if it’s my place to speak on it but still, it feels like fetishization and disrespectful to me, especially with how they keep feminizing the character. I’ve even seen fics where the bottom character is tagged as ftm but they get referred to as a girl the whole fic. Sometimes I just want to see some cool ACTUAL fanfic abt a character being trans instead of fetish slop…cough cough…Tim Drake…Tim Drake has a huge problem with this…cough cough…

[wtchgrrl]

if you refer to someone as an “irl futa(nari)” just know that i hate you personally

[1nky-quill]

Cis perisex people try not to be weird as hell about intersex people and trans women challenge (failed every time)