it’s fucking disgusting how so many “allies” AND fellow queer people will only ever mention transmascs when it has to do with how much they like “boypussy” but then when it comes to the oppression we face for being transmasc it’s dead silence
begging people to realize that bigots also see transmascs as a threat to womanhood. When the language of recent executive orders talks about “protecting women and girls” they want to forcibly detransition transmascs to “cure the poor impressionable teenage girls of their delusions” and keep them from “mutilating and sterilizing themselves” just as much as they want to enact violence against trans women
(And when transmascs refuse to be detransitioned quietly, don’t think for one second violence isn’t done against us too)
My name is Forest, I'm an intersex nonbinary trans man and my pronouns are he/they/bun.
I'm not the guy who originally made this blog (Husk or 🪼) I just inherited it fairly early on. It was originally inspired by the original and now deleted this-is-exorsexism and this-is-intersexism blogs, the replacements for which are tagged below.
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I cannot believe this needs to be clarified but I have never supported harrassment.
Queue: 816
Pt under the cut:
Welcome to this-is-transandrophobia!
My name is Forest and my pronouns are he/they/bun.
Im not the guy who originally made this blog (Husk or 🪼) i just inherited it fairly esrly on. It was originally inspired by the original and now deleted this-is-exorsexism and this-is-intersexism blogs, the replacement/archives for which are tagged below.
Please let me know if I mess up somehow, I will rectify it immediately!! I'm autistic and will sometimes make the wrong call as to which asks should be answered.
Main is @yourfriendlyfayeking
FAQ
Polls
Rules:
This blog talks about heavy and sometimes upsetting subjects, as well as 18+/kink topics occasionally. Things are tagged as needed.
This blog handles a lot of nuanced topics. Poor pissers will be blocked.
If you send in a screenshot, please crop out usernames. Screenshots in queue before this rule was implemented will be tagged but not censored bc I'm not sorting through 800 asks for that tbh.
While I occasionally respond to assholes, this blog is primarily an archive, not a debate blog.
This blog is:
Pro Palestine
Pro kink
Anti censorship
Anti AI
Recommend blogs:
@thisisexorsexism
@this-is-intersexism
@this-is-ableism
@comprehensive-sex-ed
@isuggestcompassion
@poc-transmasc-culture
@former-incel
@this-is-trans-solidarity
@questionable-ftm-passing-advice
@questionable-mtf-passing-advice
@questionable-enby-passing-advice
@vinterfeminism
@trans-masc-culture-is
@this-is-poly-phobia
@thisisantisemitism
And most importantly, @this-is-trans-joy and @this-is-masculine-joy
Common tags:
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"#no id" or "#id" depending on whether there is an alternative text available and/or:
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TRANSMEDS AND RADQUEERS ARE NOT WELCOME HERE
I cannot believe this needs to be clarified but I have never supported harrassment.
People often acknowledge the damaging effects of negative framing and demonization in discussions about transgender egg cracking, where poor representation can perpetuate stigma and internalized transphobia. Take, for example, the pervasive notion that anyone who wants to be, aspires, desires to be, or "acts like"—or is otherwise associated with "being like"—a woman is framed as inferior, disgusting, wrong, or inherently harmful; a belief that many correctly recognize as damaging in itself.
However, it's baffling how this awareness seemingly evaporates when the conversation shifts to how this same concept may affect trans men, where such demonization somehow becomes acceptable. Suddenly, the harmful consequences of demonization are conveniently overlooked, even when it directly impacts marginalized groups like, but not limited to, trans men.
Why is it that when it comes to transandrophobia—when trans men raise concerns about how this affects them—there's often an expectation for individuals to simply brush it off, not take it seriously, dismissed as "too sensitive," told to "grow up," and how if they weren't causing issues, they wouldn't feel targeted. Not in the sense of "hit dogs holler", but in the sense of others getting pissed that they can't fantasize about hitting dogs when the dogs point out that "maybe we shouldn't hit dogs"
at this point we oughta start reclaiming transandrobro the way we used to reclaim transtrender. like if they're gonna start making fun of the stereotypical transmasc again we should just fucking own that shit.
"aiden the 19 y/o he/they theyfab tme transmasc" is just the new "skye the 15 y/o they/xe/fae/bun stargender tucute" and just like we reclaimed skye to pave the way for a world where they didn't have to be afraid of being themself we can reclaim aiden. they didn't change their tune so why should we.
edit: radqueers this post isn't for you get off my shit
“Transmasc people benefit from male privilege.” If that were true, it would only be true for transmascs who pass as cis. The closest I ever got to a stranger gendering me correctly was in college when an exchange student asked me if I was a boy or a girl. Second closest was video game voice chats where I frequently got asked if I was a girl or a young boy. I benefitted in neither of those situations, because I don’t pass, and probably never will. Instead I get “miss” and “ma’am” and if I’m really lucky I get “bitch”.
But then again, I thought we as a trans community were past “passing is a requirement if you’re trans”.
saying “when i was a little girl” partially because it’s true but also because so many people are only comfortable with TRANS masculinity if it operates the same way a cis man’s would and expect me to talk about my life as if i was always a boy and was treated that way as well.
