things i do as a transitioning transplural person that helps me ✨
୨୧ ㆍ LEARN TO WRITE IN DIFFERENT WAYS!!! as someone who's around cisplural people, a lot of them have different handwriting!! if that's too hard, learn to write script first!! you can write script as one of the ways!! "oh, kanade writes in script. idk, that's just how she writes. but i write in print! and ao writes in italics! and kyo writes in all capitals, and lee writes with very stiff letters!" like that!! except like dont actually say that, but i was just giving an example!!◝
♡︶︶ ⟢ change how i act on certain days!! yeah im friends with you, ill be friendly to you but uhh WHO ARE YOU? even just looking at people differently works!! (did it and my friend asked if i needed help, needed a rundown of the class, drama, our friendship, ect. AAAHDHF/POS) AND ill be extremely social and friendly with my friend who i normally dont really talk to much (because we're not in any classes), and take different ways!! if you walk on the right, walk on the left. you go around from the south to the north?? go east to west.
﹒ obviously make your head mates!! role play as them in certain situations!! for me whenever something bad happens (trauma) I'd always default to acting like a certain chr as a coping mechanism (idk in my head im like, if im js playing a bit, then i can defend myself or smth. esp against family), and with practice im sure you can too!!! ੭ ꒰ ୨୧ ꒱ ⸝⸝
ꕀ if you have a cis/transplural friend irl you can be out to, DO IT!! just mentioning sys stuff or the occasional "who are you?" helps SO MUCH with transitioning! it makes you remember you're plural (which is good if you forget! because you can be a different alter!!) ⌑ ﹒
꒰ఎ ~ ໒꒱ ㆍ this one's way personal, but as someone with HORRIBLE memory issues, derealization + depersonalisation, i use it to my advantage!! i dont feel like me? yeah its because im not. im dissociating. i dont look like myself? yeah. its cus i dont identify with my body, i identify with how my source looks. i don't remember? yeah i don't. i really dont (genuinely) lmaoㆍ
⸝⸝ㆍ ♩ are you a cosplayer? or do you have clothes of different fashions? or, hell, do you even have different colored shirts?? you can use those to differentiate which alter got you dressed that morning, which alter is currently fronting, ect! you can also do your makeup (if you do makeup) a bit differently depending on the alter! bracelets (are more common) and also help too!! ˃˂
﹒ ﹐ if you have a bunch of favorite foods, perfect!! give one specific favorite food to each of your alters!! hell you can even take a screenshot of the tomodachi life mii food likes screen and fill that in as a template ﹒♡
︵︵ i hope this post can help!! this is just what i personally do﹐♡