You are plural.
You are a system.
Yes, you are polyfrag. Why are you asking? Did you forget about it again?
Yes, those things did happen to you.

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You are plural.
You are a system.
Yes, you are polyfrag. Why are you asking? Did you forget about it again?
Yes, those things did happen to you.
TRANSDID TRANSITION GUIDE
Except no bullshit and easy to follow.
(the transdid doc is still a wip and will be made, I just wanted to get something out for everyone to use until then)
INDEX
1 — what is DID
2 — terminology
3 — how to form alters
4 — how to become polyconscious
5 — how to dissosicate
6 — how to create amnesia barriers
7 — tools that may help
8 — how to create a headspace
transplural tips from a cisplural
-> the biggest one is faking it until you make it. seriously. in my experience of helping transplurals, this has been the biggest part. but a question i often receive is: what does that look like?
"fake it until you make it" is very vague. so here are some things you could do:
1. use simply plural. Of course, it helps you keep track of your alters, but the chat feature is often underutilized. spend some time chatting with your alters. even if they're not conscious yet. even if you're basically just roleplaying for them. this helps you develop relationships with them and helps them develop a voice. let your alters talk to each other too.
2. give them differences. if you love sweet foods, make one of your alters hate them. if you have a specific music genre you like, make them like a different one. and stick with these differences. if you taste something thats just a little too sweet, oh suddenly you've switched and now you're this alter. if you hear the music your alter likes, suddenly youve switched.
3. you dont have to feel like youve switched. if you're still at the stage where you're roleplaying a switch, that's fine. go ahead, it doesn't hurt anyone. if you have to pretend to be an alter after encountering one of their triggers, do it.
4. make them their own internet presence. whether it be a blog or a social media account or even just a pinterest board, let them curate their own internet experience. and if you have to pretend to be them to curate that experience, go ahead.
5. just pretend. switches? pretend. likes? pretend. how they feel about someone? pretend. pretend long enough and itll come true.
-> think about them as if they're a real person. one of my system's most commonly used phrases is "oh x would like this." we buy things for each other, save images/posts for each other, and even make things for each other.
-> allow different alters to have different friends. this is a big thing for separating you from your alters. let them make their own friends. you can still be friends with them too but make sure its primarily the alter talking to the.
-> review your alters' info religiously. this is mostly for when you're first making an alter but constantly look over their info. try to utilize it in real situations. ex. "x likes this. x wouldnt like this. this would make x front. x hates this person but loves this other person.
hii, could we get a level 2 religious obsessor and guilt holder alter with cisids, transids and paras please? thank you
𝜗𝜚 PACK # 024 – religious obsessor + guilt holder alter
+ level 2 ( + cisIDs , transIDs , paras )
^_^
things i do as a transitioning transplural person that helps me ✨
୨୧ ㆍ LEARN TO WRITE IN DIFFERENT WAYS!!! as someone who's around cisplural people, a lot of them have different handwriting!! if that's too hard, learn to write script first!! you can write script as one of the ways!! "oh, kanade writes in script. idk, that's just how she writes. but i write in print! and ao writes in italics! and kyo writes in all capitals, and lee writes with very stiff letters!" like that!! except like dont actually say that, but i was just giving an example!!◝
♡︶︶ ⟢ change how i act on certain days!! yeah im friends with you, ill be friendly to you but uhh WHO ARE YOU? even just looking at people differently works!! (did it and my friend asked if i needed help, needed a rundown of the class, drama, our friendship, ect. AAAHDHF/POS) AND ill be extremely social and friendly with my friend who i normally dont really talk to much (because we're not in any classes), and take different ways!! if you walk on the right, walk on the left. you go around from the south to the north?? go east to west.
﹒ obviously make your head mates!! role play as them in certain situations!! for me whenever something bad happens (trauma) I'd always default to acting like a certain chr as a coping mechanism (idk in my head im like, if im js playing a bit, then i can defend myself or smth. esp against family), and with practice im sure you can too!!! ੭ ꒰ ୨୧ ꒱ ⸝⸝
ꕀ if you have a cis/transplural friend irl you can be out to, DO IT!! just mentioning sys stuff or the occasional "who are you?" helps SO MUCH with transitioning! it makes you remember you're plural (which is good if you forget! because you can be a different alter!!) ⌑ ﹒
꒰ఎ ~ ໒꒱ ㆍ this one's way personal, but as someone with HORRIBLE memory issues, derealization + depersonalisation, i use it to my advantage!! i dont feel like me? yeah its because im not. im dissociating. i dont look like myself? yeah. its cus i dont identify with my body, i identify with how my source looks. i don't remember? yeah i don't. i really dont (genuinely) lmaoㆍ
⸝⸝ㆍ ♩ are you a cosplayer? or do you have clothes of different fashions? or, hell, do you even have different colored shirts?? you can use those to differentiate which alter got you dressed that morning, which alter is currently fronting, ect! you can also do your makeup (if you do makeup) a bit differently depending on the alter! bracelets (are more common) and also help too!! ˃˂
﹒ ﹐ if you have a bunch of favorite foods, perfect!! give one specific favorite food to each of your alters!! hell you can even take a screenshot of the tomodachi life mii food likes screen and fill that in as a template ﹒♡
︵︵ i hope this post can help!! this is just what i personally do﹐♡
"transDID systems will never be real" my ass.
I just got diagnosed with DID clinically today. it was genuinely the best, most euphoric experience I've ever had in my entire life. I'm transDID and I genuinely pass so well that I got professionally diagnosed. it's on my medical records and my medical professionals genuinely 100% we are cisDID.
please never give up, transplural/transDID/etc systems, transID or radqueer systems in general. it does get better, and even though the world is in trying times currently, I think what is best right now (especially in the US) for everyone, including antis too, is to try and get along for the meantime until everything is in a better state.. then we can go back to arguing
(actually, let's not go back to arguing. let's all just hold hands and frolic in a field of tulips!)
hii :3 im kinda new here, and wanna try some transids out, but first, can you give me some transplural / transdid tips? thank you.
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TRANSPLURAL TIPS!!!! (VERY EXCITED TO DO THESE AS A TRANSITIONED TRANSPLURAL!!!):
Speak to yourself as different people! Assign roles and names to each, then speak aloud as both of them! This can help the brain begin to separate the consciousness and identities!
Be consistent with alters! Make sure not to change too much about them while acting as them.
Fake in public / online! We used VRChat back when we started out trying to gain it! It helps stress the brain using punishments for slipping up (embarrassment and confrontation) and rewards for doing good! (Pity, alters being called by name, being treated as plural, etc..)
Make a Simply Plural to log alters! Fake fronting and log it in the app while acting as the alters!
Don't just stop when people aren't looking, keep doing it even while alone! Train your brain to make it a constant.
Try to imagine a headspace, imagine yourself walking in it, looking at/talking to all the alters wandering in headspace and/or near front.
Draw/generate/edit pictures for appearances that your alters have! Are they the exact same looking as their source? Use that as their picture in Simply plural! This will help your brain associate them with a separate being more.
When fronting as an alter, picture yourself in their body. Picture your body as their own and try to act how they'd act. Think "what would [alter] do?" Before doing anything.
It took us around 3 years, but you can do it with consistency!!
Transplural tips? Both 4 me and a moot who would probably appreciate it :D
Alright! Finally getting to these, sorry for the wait! I, Dame, shall assist you.