#transfuckyou

[rjalker]

it's so clear that when most people say "transmasculine" they mean all trans people assigned female at birth, and that when they say "transfeminine" they mean all trans people assigned male at birth, regardless of our actual gender or how we want to present ourselves. They literally use them as synonyms for what gender you were assigned at birth, but now UNO reversed.

And since they literally never bother to talk about any other kinds of trans people besides transfeminine and transmasculine ones, they are making it incredibly clear that if we don't misgender ourselves to jump into one of those binary boxes, then as far as they are concerned we aren't actually trans and have no issues worth talking about, because we don't exist.

They literally cannot even be assed to add "and nonbinary people" to their posts about the entire trans community. Because they think saying "transmascs and transfems" is inclusive of the whole community. Because they'd rather die than not force nonbinary people into another binary.

They're so hellbent on this transmasc / transfem binary they don't even include the trans men and trans women who specifically do Not identify as transmasc or transfem. Because they want to pretend The Gender Binary 2.1 is progressive this time.

You can say "nonbinary people". It won't fucking kill you. You can include nonbinary people in the conversation about the entire fucking trans community without misgendering us.

What part of the word "nonbinary" do you think means it's okay for force us all into yet another? fucking?? binary???

[rjalker]

Edit: Can't believe the irony of me having to say this, but I do apparently have to say this: Not wanting boobs and not wanting to be seen as feminine does not mean you are, or want to be seen as masculine. I'm not transmasculine just because I don't want boobs and don't want to be seen as feminine.

You cannot read a post where the point is having boobs does not equal being feminine and go oh! right. Because not wanting boobs equals being masculine! No!! I'm not transmasculine! I'm not trying to look masculine! Kill the gender binary that has a stranglehold on your views of gender!

Stop shoving nonbinary people into a new set of binary boxes!

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the idea that having boobs gets you automatically and inherently classified as being "female presenting" and "feminine presenting" in so-called progressive circles makes me want to maul people.

I've said this before and I'll just keep repeating it forever: I'm disabled. I can't wear a binder. If I tried I'd dislocate several ribs and that'd be the least of my worries. Like. you know why ribs not being where they're supposed to be is dangerous? Yeah. Yeah. Use your imagination. That's a real thing I have to worry about.

I can't even wear a sports bra that's several sizes """too large""" comfortably.

And yeah, I can use trans tape, but that takes concerted time and effort to put on and take off, and every time you put it on you get different results, and you might just mess it up entirely and waste it, and it can get itchy if you're sweating with it on (and it's 90 degrees almost all the time it's not actively winter here, so that's...literally unavoidable. Even sitting in the living room. Because the electric company charges an arm and a leg for AC during the summer AND won't even give you enough to actually cool your shitty tiny apartment even with all the doors shut and curtains drawn!!!!!), and it's expensive to buy more of.

And especially because this declaration of "feminine presenting" or "female presenting" that gets shoved onto you is not only misgendering you, but placing the blame on you for being misgendered for not looking not-female enough. It's no longer the speaker making incorrect assumptions, they're now literally declaring that this is a concious decision you make. You are choosing to "present" yourself this way...by having a body that you have no control over.

And even when it comes to clothes, the idea that the clothes you wear is another purposeful, conscious Presentation™ of your gender...

Even if we ignore for a moment the fact that being disabled and poor severely limits the clothes you can wear and even just have access to, what about people who literally don't get to choose what their clothes are? Kids whose parents buy their clothes for them, people whose carers choose their outfits for them?

My gender is not "sun-bleached tank top and shorts with a reflective sun hat". That's just what I wear so I don't die of heat stroke every time I set foot outside, and so that my joints are not being painfully constricted every time I move. I literally can't take my hat off outside during the day without developing a headache (or are they fucking migraines? fuck if I know!) within minutes from the sun trying to murder me from my light sensitivity. And it took me years to even realize that it was light sensitivity causing this. I remember in middle school the substitute gym teacher asked if I was a vampire because I moved to the closest shady spot every time we moved to a new area.

And like. Let's be honest. Even if I could safely wear a binder...They're fucking expensive.

It's just really fucking annoying that so many people equate binding with being trans and so many people who are supposed to be allies are just so comfortable labeling other people, who they haven't asked, as "feminine presenting" just because of the presence of boobs. Like we have any choice in the matter. Like having visible boobs just means you're asking to be misgendered.

[rjalker]

Disabled trans people: I would love to bind but I physically literally can't because I'm disabled. I would love to get top surgery but I can't because I'm poor and don't have health insurance because I'm unemployed because I'm disabled. It really fucking sucks that I can't do these things because I'm disabled. People need to understand that disabled trans people exist and that binding isn't an option for many of us.

Abled trans people every single time despite not being asked: Okay cool buy did you know you don't have to bind at all? You should accept the fact that you have boobs! It's great and sexy and fun to have boobs and you shouldn't want to bind because that's letting society tell you what to do! Get some better self esteem!! Binding isn't everything! You should just embrace how hot and sexy your boobs are as a power move. There are lots of trans people who don't bind, and they aren't disabled! Being disabled has nothing to do with whether you bind or not. Choosing not to bind because you enjoy having boobs is the exact same thing as being physically incapable of binding despite how much you hate having boobs! I know because I think having boobs is sexy and hot and clearly every trans person wants people to think their boobs are hot!!!! I don't think disability has anything to do with whether you bind or not.

Disabled trans people who do not want to have boobs and are openly aroace and do not want anyone to find them attractive in any way:

[ID: A gif of Mal from Firefly opening and closing his mouth, trying to find words to speak, gesturing with one hand, before giving up and staring in silent despair. End ID.]

[rjalker]

original post:

I think a "transno" flag would just be funny. "are you transfem or transmasc?" "no"

#like transvoid/transqueer/transfuckyou but funny

Here you go. The colorful version is from last night's sunset :)

[ID: Two flags. The first version is greyscale, with very dark grey, dark grey, light grey, white, light grey, dark grey, and very dark grey.

The second flag has six stripes of: pale orange, pale gold, very pale peach, desaturated teal, desaturated purple, and desaturated dark purple.

End ID.]

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And some more:

[ID: Three flags.

The first is the gradient from dark grey to white to dark grey from above, now with colors picked from the other flag, so that the stripes are desaturated dark purple, purple, teal, peach, teal, purple, and dark purple.

The next flag is the same as the first, but with the colors fully saturated.

The third flag is the orange, gold, peach, teal, purple, and dark purple flag from above, now with the colors fully saturated. End ID.]

feel free to use for anything you'd use a pride flag for, no credit needed, though please do include an image description like the one above whenever possible!

[rjalker]

Murderbot at a Pride parade walking in the "no touching" section using drone cameras to avoid eye contact.

No, I could not help referencing Jean Jacket.

Anyways someone should introduce Murderbot to hoodies, since you don't have to figure out what to do with your hands if you just keep them in the giant pocket.

[ID: A traditional drawing of Murderbot from The Murderbot Diaries book series, colored digitally using MS Paint. Murderbot is a nonbinary robot designed to look like a human, with dark brown skin visible on its lower arms, wearing a hoodie with the loose sleeves pushed up to its elbows, and the hood drawn up and the strings pulled to help obscure its face. The hoodie is made up of multiple pride flags, with each section a different flag. The torso is the trans pride flag with stripes of blue, pink, white, pink, and blue. The sleeve on the Left <- is the nonplatonic flag, with stripes of black, dark grey, light grey, white, light blue, and sky blue. The sleeve on the Right -> is the transqueer flag, with stripes of cyan, teal, white, purple, and cyan. The large pocket on the hoodie is the nonbinary flag, with stripes of yellow, white, purple, and black. The hood is s the Pride flag, with stripes of lavender, pink, red, orange, yellow, green, teal, dark blue, and purple. Murderbot is holding a medium sized pride flag in its Right -> hand, with the pole held up in front of its face so that as the flag waves to the right, only half of its face is visible. The flag is the nonhuman flag, with stripes of yellow, green, purple, berry red, and brown. What little of Murderbot's face can be seen is then covered by a pair of dark blue sunglasses, and a facemask in the stripes of the neopronouns flag: pastel green, cyan, white, light orange, and orange. A small green rectangle-shaped drone hovers on the Left <- side of Murderbot's face, with a small black square camera lens in the center, like an eye. Above the drone's four motors is a small dark xenogender flag, with stripes of dark purple, dark blue, teal, gold, burnt orange, red, and dark red. Pinned to the front of Murderbot's hoodie are multiple pins in different shapes: A circular touch-averse flag pin with stripes of orange, red, black, red, and orange, with white font that reads, "no touching allowed" in all caps. A circular it/its flag pin with stripes of yellow, green, light grey, dark grey, light grey, green, and blue, that reads "it/its" in black text. A diamond shaped ace pin with stripes of black, grey, white, and purple. A square shaped aplatonic pin with stripes of dark purple, blue, green, and cream. A circular agender flag pin, with stripes of black, grey, white, green, white, grey, and black. A star shaped aroace flag with stripes of orange, yellow, white, light blue, and navy blue. And a diamond shaped aro flag pin with stripes of dark green, light green, white, grey, and black. The background is blank white. End ID.]

[rjalker]

Not transfeminine, transmasculine, or transneutral, but a secret other thing. (Fuck you)

[rjalker]

[ID: Eight pride flags, in sets of two, which each set having matching colors.

The first flag in each set has five horizontal stripes, and the second flag in the set has nine horizontal stripes that are now symetrical, with the bottom stripe of the first flag in the center, and the other stripes progressing above and below it.

The first set’s five-striped flag is pale red, pale green, white, light grey, and dark grey.

The symmetrical version is pale red, pale green, white, light grey, dark grey, light grey, white, pale green, and pale red.

The second set is the same as the first, except that the light grey stripe has been replaced with pale blue.

The third set is the same as the second, but the dark grey stripe has been replaced with purple.

The fourth set has much darker colored stripes of dark magenta, medium sage-green, white, medium blue, and dark purple. The colors are slightly desaturated.

End ID.]

Updated with an alternate dark version by @technoxenoholic​! :)

another transvoid flag I made that I think looks cool, with light and dark versions. I couldn’t decide which one I liked best, so here’s a bunch. Feel free to change them up however you want, and feel free to use them for anything you’d use a pride flag for; icons, headers, designs to sell, ect, as long as you aren’t on my DNI in my pinned post.

Transvoid as in no I am not transmasc no I am not transfem no I am not gender-neutral. Transvoid as in fuck the gender binary and the gender trinary and fuck whatever new boxes people keep making to try and put people into when the other ones they tried finally get rightfully shot down.

Also known as the transfuckyou flag :)

[rjalker]

[ID: Hand-written black letters that read, “Be Queer, Strike Fear” overtop of the: Unattracted, Unlabeled-Gender, Voidpunk, Xenogender, You-are-looking-away, Alloace,Nebulous Attraction, transfuckyou, xiqyne, and wolf pride flags. End ID.]

well this is gonna take six posts for all the ones I’ve done so far.

For some flags with darker stripes, they’ve been lightened a bit so that you can still read the words.

Link to post 1

Link to post 2

Link to post 3

link to post 4

link to post 5

This is post 6

link to post 7

link to post 8

link to post 9

link to post 10

These can be used for icons, headers, moodboards, ect, as long as you aren’t on the DNI below!

Once they’re all posted to Redbubble, you will be able to find them here.

The price is set so that I get half of whatever you spend. If you buy a pin for $6, I get $3. I originally had these designs at 0% markup, but I’ve had to actually add prices because I’m disabled and no longer working. If you would like to tip, my cashapp and venmo are both “Rjalker”

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