My favorite queer ships for every day of pride month in order of least to most important!
Day 3: Xiaoven ♡
Xiaoven is a slash ship between Xiao and Venti two playable characters in the hit game Genshin Impact.
Xiaoven made the list because 1. I have a Genshin addiction please forgive me and 2. I feel like they encapsulate what shipping as a tool for exploring and analyzing canon looks like. So that's why they rest at a very comfortable 28.
A lot of Xiaoven shippers (from what I've seen in the past) have gotten a lot of flak from casual fans not getting why people ship them. So I'm very excited to give my own little explanation!
Which I will begin doing now ↓
Warning for minor Genshin Impact lore spoilers.
Xiao is one of the 5 Yaksha and has lived for over 2000 years despite his young appearance.
I'll probably make a proper Xiao rundown post at some point but for you to understand them as a whole we're going to skip around his lore a bit.
Before he was a Yaksha Xiao was enslaved by an ancient and cruel god forced to do cruel things against his will before being freed by Rex Lapis.
Xiao joins a new contract with Rex Lapis this time of his own free will and joins the Yaksha who battle and help cleanse the karmic debt marring Liyue.
Due to how much of a toll this takes on a person (or illuminated beast) all of the other Yaksha's have succumbed to madness, died, or went missing presumed dead.
Xiao, being the lone survivor isn't free from the effects of karmic debt either, cause his pressure is slightly corrosive to normal mortals and for him to always be suffering, in pain, and near the brink of losing himself to madness as well.
Despite his contract having long been fulfilled Xiao still chose to keep watching over Liyue and to protect her people from afar. Wearing the mask of the Yaksha, the silent but ever-present warrior.
Venti is one of the 7 Archons and is over 2500+ years old despite his also shockingly young aperance.
He is know as the god of music and songs, of festivals, and of freedom.
Venti having suffered the great loss of his close friend due to them participating in the overthrowing of a cruel dictator. After gaining a proper form he takes the aperance of this lost friend to hold onto and honor their memory.
Fast forwarding a bit (If you're unfamiliar with Venti's lore I ask you do go look into it it's fascinating)
Throughout the year venti takes the mask of a carefree bard intermingling with his people and taking a backseat to let his people rule themselves.
Despite this he is shown to still take his job as Archon pretty seriously going out of his way to visit other nations to collect souls of his citizens and guide them back to Mondstadt.
He is also shown to not be as carefree (we see him very serious on multiple occasions always stepping up to the plate when needed) still bearing his responsibility and grief despite his happy-go-lucky demeanor.
Now to Xiaoven's interactions in lore and canon! (So weird they have interacted in canon now and not just through lore. Man I feel old.)
Xiao nearly lost himself to his karmic debt in Dihua Marsh during the middle of the dark night, collapsing to the ground in agony, but was miraculously saved by the sound of a flute.
The song gives him a desperately needed reprieve from the pain and quiets his mind. The beautiful flute song lasts all the way to the morning light where it leaves Xiao in a much better state than when it started.
Xiao having already been saved by one of the seven, rightfully assumes that the stranger who saved him the second time must also be an Archon.
The character story implies it's Venti with wording like "carried by the wind" but it is fully confirmed to be him in Xiao's story teaser.
Xiao is a character who takes life debts and being saved very seriously, but Venti would accept a service contract like Rex Lapis, so the way this moment affects him is quite different than how him being freed did.
So not being able to repay him, this moment lingers with Xiao and develops into a "sweet dream" of a gentler life where he can finally put down his blade and wear his mask for a proper dance instead of the "Nuo Dance of Evil Conquering". Accompanied by the sound of that lovely flute being played for him once more in Dihua Marsh.
Because karmic debt likes to erupt during human celebrations and very specifically on Lantern Rite. In one of the collectable books, it's implied that either Venti comes to visit Xiao every Lantern Rite to help ease the extra burden the holiday brings him, or that Xiao plays the melody for himself to remember that serene moment. Both may also be true: Venti coming to visit some years and Xiao playing when he doesn't.
Lantern rite become the main pillar of their interaction in canon.
During a lantern rite a few years back, we see on screen that Venti came to visit Xiao (he is clearly doing better because of this and even the traveler points this out and Xiao said it was because he met up with an "old friend") this lantern right his entire reason for being in Liyue clearly a cover up for him coming to visit Xiao and help him.
During this dinner Xiao is is seen to be uncharacteristically shy and demur stumbling over himself whenever something with Venti comes up. Which is adorable considering his normal personality.
Last but not least is the Endless Suffering teaser! In this Venti is drinking on the roof of Wangshu Inn (Xiao's base of operations honestly) and in typical Venti fashion offers him a drink (and sniffs him heh) and while Xiao declines wanting to rest he does so implying that they have potentially drunk together before and/or will do so in the future, just not tonight.
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For so long these two had 0 on screen interactions and trying to explain that there was actually a deep connection between them was such a losing battle.
Now on to the appeal of Xiaoven from a shipper's viewpoint.
Other than that very obvious things like opposite attract and grumpy gap moe x cutie who experienced the horrors.
These two have such a deep connection not only as savior and saved, but as two people who have been through so much but both want a happy life full of song and dance. And what they have been through mirrors each other's trauma and pain to the point they are both uniquely suited to understand the other.
What is romance if not understanding and the desire for a softer life within each other's worlds? What is more romantic than understanding each other in a way impossible for anyone else to understand?
And despite the distance of their homes the effort they go through (especially on Venti's side for a moment together is so touching.
Xiaoven is one of those ships I truly think you have to dig through canon with and understand both characters beyond a superficial level to really love and appreciate.
Anyways I'm getting to the ramblings stage so I'll leave this off here.
Live love laugh xiaoven.
