#weird anon

[camera-face]

is ink’s belly button stinky

....

no????

he's a skeleton, and even with an ectobody, he has no real reason to have a belly button.

so uh.

No.

weird ask.

tempted to grab the freak alarm.

I'm getting freak vibes from this.

but uh

I do imagine that ink forgets to shower

Bro just forgets

so his clothes are in need of a wash

[meeisemm]

Haters better leave my moots alone. You got a problem with me? Fine. Bombard me with hate mail idc. But STOP SENDING THAT SHIT to my friends. They are the kindest, sweetest people on here and they are literally one of the only reasons I'm still on this app. So stop it. You're embarrassing yourself in front of everyone. And I know who you are.

[the-uncanny-dag]

Comes out of the parasocial relationship covered in blood & filth saying "you should see the other guy ;)", meanwhile the other guy is posting my weird ass anon messages to their followers, exhausted with my shit & perplexed as to why someone would say that to strangers

[silcocertifiedhusband]

Retard asshole freak

[coconameow]

you just need a husband. all the stuff the democrats are feeding young children is harmful.

You mean a butch husband..? And what? If I remember correctly the democrats are the left right? Idk who you are anon but you seem not cool at all get out pls

[ramonag-if]

You should really rethink some of your writing choices, it has a lot of orientalism.

Okay? Considering I am an Indian woman with an interest in ancient history, I don't see your point unless you find my writing choices very offensive which in that case, there are plenty of other games you can play beside mine.

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

Wow, that's how you respond to pretty clear aroallophobia? Just wow...

Yeah that says a lot more about you than it does about aroallos wanting something for them goddamn selves for once.

Safe space "for all" my ass, I'm ashamed to share a space with such blinded aroallophobic people. You don't get to have a opinion on aroallo centred spaces, it's. Not. For. You.

But I'm not surprised, the aroace demographic overshadowing and demeaning a aroallo centred thing is common practice for y'all anyway acting like it's some attack on your aroace identity just because it ain't about you, and it's no wonder I feel unsafe and demoralised in aro spaces.

I recommend to any aroace that allies with aroallos, and to any morally sane aro, to call out this bs and to also practice blocking shit and people fuelling itm this blog included.

Have a great life being bitchy about something not made for you.

I definitely think some wires got crossed on both ends here! Let me just run through everything, I implore everyone to at least give me a chance to explain that I am not arophobic.

Let me preface this by saying a quick TLDR

I'm not arophobic, I've never been arophobic, I've never said to an aroallo they're not allowed their own space, I personally have rarely even entered the aroallo tag besides from aro week, and when an anon is aroallo and needs advice from other aroallos. I do, however, believe that aroaces should be allowed to tag their posts as asexual/aromantic as long as it pertains to that. More in-depth explanation below.

LONG POST

1 — The timeline

I reblogged this post, which I believed represented the same feelings I had about aromantics and asexuals being upset about tagging issues. I believed this post was about how some aroallos/alloaces get upset when aroaces tag posts are aromantic / asexual. Which I believe they have the right to do so.

I received this ask, which, as stated in said ask reply, I was unable to fully read. At the time, I did not know what the ask was pertaining to, and after answering, I quickly scooped through my posts. I could discuss this ask more and the above ask, if asked for, but I do think that is kicking a hornets nest in terms of post length.

I then reblogged the original post with this statement. I do apologise that it is rushed and unedited, as I was in a car park at the time. I then received this ask.

2 — My beliefs on tagging

I believe this is where things get twisted, and I think that is my fault for no clarifying my text, as well as rushing.

I did not at any time state that aroaces should be allowed to post in the aroallo/alloace tags. I do not think they should be tagging their posts as such unless the post is “My friend who is aroallo/alloace” or a question for aroallos/alloaces.

I personally, if you check my post history, do not frequent those tags. In fact, I believe the only times I post in either the aroallo/alloace tags are on aro week, ace week, and when an anon needs help from the aroallo/alloace community.

I believe that aroaces should freely be allowed to tag their posts as aromantic or asexual as long as it pertains to the post.

The following is in my opinion.

Such as “aroace and proud out two years!” can be tagged as aroace, aromantic and asexual. BUT NOT aroallo or alloace.

A post stating “as an aroace I hate sex so much it just sucks no one should ever have sex” can be tagged as aroace and asexual, BUT NOT aromantic (unless the hatred of sex is connected to that identity which is unlikely as aromantic is the lack/little of romantic attraction) or aroallo or alloace.

A post stating “fuck romance so much it sucks, romantic feelings are the worst — signed an aroace” can be tagged as aroace and aromantic, BUT NOT asexual (unless the hatred of romance is connected to that identity which is unlikely as asexual is the lack/little of sexual attraction) or aroallo or alloace.

I hope this clear it up!

I genuinely have no ill will to anyone in any part of the aspec community, and I do encourage people to reach out if they feel unsafe here. I aim, as the name suggests, to be a safe place for all.

I do try to fix any beliefs that are harmful, as many old-timers here have seen before in the past. And I am genuinely open to criticism, I just hope next time, for everyone's sakes, that we can all breathe before we push enter.

[theconvictfoundacomputer]

Who hurted you computer?. That is not nice. I am so sorry. I wish I was there to help you. I can try fix thou

*your wound is patched up shoddily, but it seems like it got the job done*

I hope you feel better. I have to go now. More test.

-@subject00027

*still very much in pain, simon tries to give a little smile.*

thank.. you..