#wrong pronouns

[transmasc-armory]

i have a "friend" who's apparently she/her-ing all of us using they/them in the group and they/them-ing the he/him users. including she/her-ing me, and while i use all pronouns i dont like exclusively she/her and have expressed a preference for he/it. so one aquaintance is misgendering everyone in the friend group even after being corrected several times.

theyre a system like me so i can unerstand being forgetful of someones pronouns especially with a lot of us having a little more fem presentation in the friend group, but when you have been corrected so many times you'd think the alters would know by now what pronouns to use regardless of who's in front. and youd use the right pronouns after being corrected but no, he doesnt.

it isnt hard to use the correct pronouns. (most of the friend group is nonbinary, transmasc or genderqueer to some degree, only one actually uses she/her sometimes outside myself and as far as im aware this "friend" uses he/they or all pronouns as well)

safe to say hes doing it on purpose and none of us are happy about it.

[daffeine]

Having spent a considerable amount of time in the fandom online before watching more of the show (aka. season three), especially in the Grelle side of the fandom, I still find it jarring and off-putting when the characters, even Will and Ronald, refer to Grelle as “him”.

[ftm-radio]

if my dad could praise my work with the right fucking pronouns that'd be nice :))))))

[buff-muffin]

YES TRANS GRAY! I LOVE HIM SO MUCH

The thought just got better-

There are only three main differences in female and male skeleton, bone density, rib shape and pelvis shape. Most of those are very unnoticeable especially as a child. So just the mental image of gradient getting a health check up from a doctor in the omega timeline and they’re like-

Doc: Alright everything seems to be fine miss gradient

Gray: miss? Excuse me but... I’m a boy?

Doc: OH! Oh my stars I didn’t mean to assume I was just going of your bones since you never stated I just-

Gray: going off my bones?

Doc:... you don’t know? male and female skeletons have slightly different bones and shapes I just-

Gray * suddenly understanding* IM A FUCKING WHAT-

[gahdamnpunk]

HOW

[radically-bitter-coffee-moved]

Let me give some context for this. I’m the only person in this picture I haven’t cencored. The blue cencor is my ex. We’re still close friends and talk a lot but she’s FtM trans. She sent me the screenshot that I marked, and I, still trying to be kinda crypto, said that I don’t think it’s important. I would love to go off on her about how using someones preffered pronouns, although not hard, is absoloutely not a must. But ıdk, go off sis.

[slasherslittlehelper]

Sooo...I get misgendered all the time again.

I do allow my grandma to call me by my deadname and she/her bc she's 83 years old and very sensitive to changes. I don't want her to be uncomfortable and try to change a thing she did almost 30 years of her life. She's the only person allowed to do this, but the thing is that ppl in her environment (partly relatives of me but I've never been in contact with them) starts to do it as well! They met me as a male, I'm sitting here with a fucking beard and top surgery, but still they think it's ok to call me she/her/deadname. I'm really wondering that they don't feel stupid themselves while calling me like this. Sooner or later it'll escalate...

[queerdoctorofthe1600s]

So, I'm gonna tell y'all, I'm sorry if I'm texting you or talking to you, and use the wrong pronouns, I have a bad memory and live under a rock, please don't hold it against me.