My, My

Tab, 30, she/her---I'm a walking cringe compilation and love it

[cnc-pet]

i know gender and sexuality arent exactly the same but “i could survive being with a man” is comphet. “i could survive living as a man” sounds much the same. you’re not meant to live in survival mode. it sounds like you do *need* to transition

That’s… fair

[cnc-pet]

with 2+ years of hindsight (and almost 10 months of HRT), I want to thank this anon, because I think genuinely this played a significant role in helping me to start transitioning.

I've been so much happier since then, and especially since starting HRT. Yeah, there are new struggles and anxieties and problems to adapt to, but I'm also learning how to enjoy life and find myself and love myself, and it's definitely worth it.

Over the past year I've laughed and cried and been able to look at myself in the mirror and selfies and enjoy what I look like. I've felt more comfortable with my body, and worn outfits and accessories that I've been daydreaming about for over a decade. I've felt pretty, which was not something that I thought was possible.

If you're on the fence about transitioning, please know that it's enough to chase joy. If you think you'd be happier, that's enough. You don't have to have known since you were a toddler. You don't have to be so depressed that you can't bear another day as your AGAB. You don't have to "earn" or "deserve" to transition. It's enough to want it.

[astralibrary]

It's warm.

hi @nlg734, i'm your @natsume-ss secret santa this year!

my goal was to incorporate your likes of found family and natsume + youkai interactions into a short comic featuring little fox bc i thought they'd be a great fit for those themes! it's a simple narrative with very little context but i hope its meaning comes across all the same ❤️

i hope you like it, and have a wonderful holiday season/new year!

[baterpillars]

secret santa for @tamahoshio ! hope you like it!!

thanks to the mods @natsume-ss for hosting this ^w^

[tamahoshio]

OMG I LOVE IT THANKU SO MUCH!!!!

[ghostlament]

I still like the idea of a devout religious vampire praying with a rosary and burning it's hands in some kind of masochistic penance for it's sins against nature...

[gumptioncretaceous]

smoking a bowl of who-hash

[gumptioncretaceous]

the grinch even smoked the last bowl of who-hash

[vendetta06]

merry yaoimas and happy new yuri

[raens-art]

This is my present for @kinosternon for @natsume-ss' winter exchange! Happy Holidays! I hope the remainder of this year treats you kindly, while the New Year brings an abundance of blessings 🙏

[tamahoshio]

my tablet aged out of functionality last night i wanna cry so bad

[tamahoshio]

little gift for @daykeeping for the natsuyuu secret santa this year!! @natsume-ss hope this isnt too early fhdjn

[nomifae]

Sleeping soundly~✨

[punkitt-is-here]

in a funny spot where i would like to be perceived as a woman but not in a "oh thats a cis woman" way. like i don't want to hide that im trans at all. if you see me looking cunted up like crazy and then a deep ass Had a Beard In High School voice comes out of my mouth you are fuckin welcome. you should be so thankful to be graced by the presence of the hottest bitch on the planet

[punkitt-is-here]

when you see a big girl with broad shoulders and unshaved legs and shittily applied makeup like she just started doing it for the first time three months ago and a voice like the faggiest bitch on the planet you should be doing this

[shigarakisdumbwhore]

It's absolutely devastating how Shigaraki had to find out his entire life was planned for tragedy before he even existed. But I think the ONE thing AFO couldn't manufacture was the LOV's true feelings for him. Sure, he said he made sure the LOV members were introduced to him but he couldn't force the real solid family bond that Shigaraki had with them. It was the one thing that was truly Shigaraki's and I bet he didn't even realize how much they loved him until he was dead. All of them fought so hard for Shigaraki's dream world. Spinner didn't even like AFO, he immediately noticed when he possessed Shigaraki's body and said straight up, "I'm here for him, not whoever you are."

[v02qe]

kurapika 2024

[hollowedskin]

So the funniest difference between me and kiddo's previous foster mother is that she was telling me I've gotta call ahead and make sure all the staff at the hairdressers know kiddo is trans so they don't misgender him, and make sure they know he's a foster kid so they understand why it's me taking him and not his real mum and all that, and I've just said nah that's not how you do it.

I go to the barber, I say "my son would like a haircut", they do not question me about whether he is my son on either point. This has worked perfectly so far. You just don't give anyone a reason to question you? If I say he is my son it is so unbelievably rude for someone else to go "um are you sure?".

But yesterday the barbers apprentice looked at him and asked if he is getting a woman's cut, and instead of arcing up and explaining trans theory and respect for kiddos gender to someone who I knew heard me the first time and had clocked him, I just channeled the spirit of a Christian Mother In The Toy Aisle and said "well, he is a boy so no, he will have a boys cut".

Shuts down bullshit immediately! Nobody wants to be yelled at by someone's Karen mother! Kiddo does not hear this little pricks opinion on trans people or get humiliated by being outed in the barbers. You do not have to tell people all your intimate details! You certainly do not have to tell people all your kids intimate details either, especially if you think they'll be a target.

[color-palettes]

I Only Came to This Party to Spend a Lifetime With You - Submitted by SeesawSiya

#dd7d6f #b54e4f #b5040c #291e26 

[fruitysalamander1398]

i just don't think that people should have to disclose their deepest and most life-ruining traumas as a requirement to write about sensitive topics

[fleetwood-mac-andcheese]

I know that when people complain about the Folgers commercial, they’re usually pointing out the weird incest vibes, but I don’t think we give enough hate to the fact that this man came home from generic Africa, his sister put on a pot of Folgers, and he swooned over it saying “ooh! Real coffee!” You were in Africa, my guy! Africa has several countries that are known as having the best coffee in the world! Saying you didn’t have any real coffee in Africa is like saying you didn’t see any Black people in Africa! The fuck is wrong with these people?!

[mugwomps]

They're White