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mavortis

inktober '21 prompt list

freakxwannaxbe

Oh, Cassandra, cursed by the hand of Apollo...

2000yr

Everyone has a shirt that we like wearing too much

mousemilf-deactivated20250508

i like to go in the bathroom and splash water on my face and pretend im a male protagonist under a lot of stress

hidingoutbackstage

I am so untrusting of minors on discord as well as feeling bad for them and I think both feelings can coexist

hidingoutbackstage

I have been in public discord communities where the majority of fans are minors and honestly the behavior they exhibit is both inappropriate and shows a lack of caution

There have been kids I've seen who immediately post pictures of their face in photo-sharing channels, but it gets worse than that. They've posted baby pictures, pictures of them with friends and family members (mentioning those people by name as well) pictures at locations with captions relating that location to where they live ("me at the park by my house!") pictures of them at school.

If you are on semi-decent terms with these kids, and you ask, they'll often tell you what state they live in. Plenty of kids outside the U.S. will straight up tell you what country they live in as if to brag. If you ask someone what time it is for them out of concern that they're staying up to late, they'll tell you what time zone they live in and often end up talking about sleep schedule, home life, etc.

Kids will turn on their cameras in a public vc if someone else has theirs on too. Kids will feel embarrassed that they're on mute in a vc and always explain it with "my mic isn't working," never, "I'm not comfortable sharing my voice"

They'll share personal information like interpersonal relationships those in the server aren't a part of. They'll link their other social medias, even private ones. They'll introduce themselves in introduction channel with real name, age, and often their neurodivergency or even their triggers. And if you have a vent channel, they'll use it like a substitute therapist.

If you're a minor in a public Discord server, I get that you want to make friends, I really do. But you have GOT to be so careful in these situations. You CANNOT trust people, no matter how nice they are to you. You should ALWAYS exercise caution when operating and being part of a discord server. Please, this is not me being a wet blanket, this is me trying to help you be safe.

(P.S. Imo, minors should never be mods if 18+ people who know what they're doing are on the server)

zaptap

its so funny how they decided to announce the mario cast during a nintendo direct. like, the only people watching those are nintendo fans, which is exactly the opposite of who they were thinking about when casting those people

like they just went and decided to break the news first to the people who would be the least likely to be supportive of it. nintendo really knows how to celebrate out of touch thursday

steponmepinkjun

I am literally begging. BEGGING. Yall to just actually Google what the word "fetishize" means, even just one time. I know that nuance and context is a concept a lot of people on the internet don't understand, but here's the gist. Finding something attractive is not fetishization. Being turned on by something is not fetishization. Having kinks is not necessarily fetishization. Having a preference is not necessarily fetishization. Appreciating certain features, aesthetics, or behaviors is not necessarily fetishization. Reducing a human being from a complex person with their own thoughts, feelings, wants, and needs, down to one singular aspect of their character that you find sexually or otherwise gratifying is fetishization. Saying, "I really enjoy that my boyfriend, whom I love and enjoy sharing a life with, is well-endowed" isn't fetishization, saying "I don't care about who he is or what his life is like, he has a big dick and I use him for that" is fetishization. Men who only date Asian women because they believe the stereotype that Asian women are all submissive, childlike, and docile are fetishizing them. Embracing your partner's cultural background because you love them and want to appreciate all parts of their life is not fetishizing. Fetishization is the act of reducing someone to a single characteristic, whether true or perceived, and disregarding their other attributes as a human being. Not every fucking aspect of attraction or kink or sex is fetishization, you fucking walnuts.

femgirlfriend-moved

dalniente

mango-pickle

because americans are a self centred population who don’t think anyone outside their borders matters. they only care about themselves. they prove that over and over again by making a big hoo haa about their issues and getting the rest of the world to rally behind them but then couldn’t give a shit when we need them to rally behind the rest of the world

i love my american friends on here but the countries culture as a whole is so draining and one sided, its hilarious and pathetic at the same time

i hate to say it but i kind of agree with what you said. but then again, tumblr is an american centred site. it's difficult to get news about your OWN country out there when you're here. i still very vivdly remember when we were here during the second wave blogging left right and centre trying to raise awareness and share resources and trying to get it trending because people were dying every minute. finally we managed to get it trending on #5 and we started getting some traction on our resource posts.

and then i remember someone sent an anonymous ask to @ginazmemeoir saying that they supported us for covid and all but we shouldn't be stealing the spotlight from the blm movement (which was trending at #1). like...i totally get your issues but you don't have to be so insensitive???? nobody is stealing the spotlight from you. we all have our issues and we should support each other instead of making this a competition. it is not a competition because actual people are dying. that was a time of extreme crisis for us.

people were dying on the streets. i lost so many of my relatives, including my grandfather, because of the bed and oxygen shortage. i stayed up nights calling every single oxygen company i could find from resources on tumblr, twitter and instagram. we were all on here trying our FUCKING BEST to get resources out there for people who were dying and needing them. that is not 'stealing the spotlight'. i fully support the blm movement and i do try to signal boost any posts about it i see but i wish we would get the kind of support for our causes that americans expect from everyone on this site for theirs (not to say that the racism faced by black people isn't a global issue. but you get what i mean. it's a cause backed very largely by americans).

i've observed this a lot with other countries' issues, too. whenever serious problems crop up in other countries and people make posts about them, they never gain the same traction as american news or movements. again, you could say that that's because most of the user base is american. but i'm just venting here.

you can't generalise the entire population of a country and call them selfish or self-centred, because i'm sure that there are many who aren't selfish or self-centred. but i get what you mean and i get where you're coming from.

ginazmemeoir

when i got that ask, saying we shouldn't "distract people from the blm movement"

i wanted to burn that anon alive. i've lost so many from my extended family, my grandfather almost died, the doctors we know personally are all in deep depression from being surrounded with constant death, and this fucker has the audacity to even think of this while we were turned into a country of graves and crematoriums?

the thing is : americans expect almost everybody else to know about their problems and movements, and also support them - yet us expecting the same of them is "unrealistic" because "they can't know what happens in each county can they"

i absolutely support blm. but if you expect me to keep up to date with american politics and movements, i expect the same of you with respect to my country. so yes, i would love it if you supported the farmers protests (going on for a year now), or the dalit movement, or really just any other movement.

the next time i get an ask comparing something us desis or indians are advocating/campaigning for here with an american movement, and stating the american movement is just as important, i might just turn savage..

wiirdo

i was going through wikipedia and other archives while i was bored at work the other day and found out chuck e cheese used to be a cigar smoking smartass back in the day