I know I'm failing in my New Years Resolution to stop commenting upon the opinions of people beneath me but I saw Discourse on Twit because some anonymous lesbian was like "I have a d*ke-breaking kink, and I feel so guilty, am I a bad person" and people were overwhelmingly like "Yes you are, you probably aren't even a real lesbian, no real lesbian would want that" and the few outliers I could find were still like "Hey, leave her alone! She is obviously traumatized and was probably SA'd and this is her coping mechanism! Yes, she still needs to go to therapy to get rid of it, but ultimately she's a victim!" I need you people to get jobs as youth pastors like you clearly crave and stop posting
The thing people miss about kinks that drives me crazy is that it doesn't MEAN anything. Yes there can be causes. Yes if it's hurting you that's worth looking into. But a kink itself is just there. It's texture. It's a skin tag. Its value is entirely derived from what you assign it, what you do with it, what you think of it, but it's just THERE. It's fucking nothing. You can be embarrassed by it or flaunt it and other people might comment on it but it has no meaning in and of itself. It drives me crazy how people who have the approximate imaginative capacities of creatures from the Benthic zone feel they can opine on this at all
