LESBIFRIENDS

astrology, lesbian feminism, romani issues, complaints about my life gender isn't real but if you're rude and antagonistic towards trans people we will not work sylvie // 17 // granola dyke //

[taurusdyke]

I love your super gay tarot cards! Is the lovers card gay too? I want to buy a deck, but only with a lesbian lovers card :/

it's not :( the deck wasn't specifically lesbian I just picked the gayest ones I could

[taurusdyke]

leaving it at this - making unwanted derogatory comments about people’s perceived sexual behaviors is absolutely sexual harassment and we should never tolerate that in our community.

[taurusdyke]

i HARDCORE support radical bi women

[exclusionaryhomosexual-deactiva]

please give this a read. it’s a bit long (5-10 minutes) but it’s worth it.

[taurusdyke]

read it and still don’t agree. sorry!

[taurusdyke]

i HARDCORE support radical bi women

[fullmetalradfem-deactivated2017]

Me: Literally a lesbian WOC living in a red state who constantly fears for her and her fiance’s lives, can’t even hold hands in public, worries constantly about not being “too public” bc it could threaten fiance’s job and chances of getting a better job, etc.

Some Rando Bi Woman: Someone called me a nuthugger once THIS IS OPPRESSION!!! BIPHOBIA IS REAL!!!!

[lovcare-deactivated20170326]

try to vague post about me better tho lmao, i never cried about being oppressed for being called a nuthugger. i do face real oppression, as in fearing for my life but okay, act like bi women are all whiny and it’s fine to insult us and if we point it out, we are all just whiny Rando Bi Women

[fullmetalradfem-deactivated2017]

they call us nuthuggers, bihets, dick worshippers, demons etc and say that not trustin us is smth good, all nongays should die or fuck off and they spread the wonderful stigma that all of us become less attracted to women after a while… as if this isnt the shit that hets say too lol etc and then say that biphobia does not exist

– you

[lovcare-deactivated20170326]

and? if i called lesbians demons ya all would yell lesbophobia too? oh god, you honestly do not make sense and i am sick of repeating the same things over and over again, so i am going to stop answering, have a nice day.

[flowerlygirls]

personally i think terms like nuthugger, dicksucker, dick worshipper or the likewise are also p misogynistic while being just so fucking disrespectful??? like wtf?? fuck this, and fuck anyone who tries to degrade bi women for their opposite sex attraction or implies our attraction to women isnt real enough or will “get lesser” over time

i understand gay people not trusting any non gays as theyre oftentimes just as homophobic as hets, but srsly, demons? lmao fuck everyone who says such stupid shit.

[toppdyke]

Do you not understand that name calling is not systematic oppression especially when it comes from someone who deals with more oppression systematic then you especially if you are stealing their language or promoting rape on them. 

Yeah bisexuals don’t like being called names (I don’t call bisexuals as a whole anything), but lesbians don’t like a bisexual calling herselves gay & promotes the idea lesbians want sex with those with penises.

So which is more VIOLENT & hold more power over someone.

Let me tell you it’s not being called a nut hugger/dick sucker by a lesbian. 

That’s not even remotely high there on the list of bad name to be called. That’s like calling me a pussy eater. Well it’s a fact I am & there really is no big deal in calling me that or carpet muncher or all the other things are called for our sexual preference.

Yes if a bisexual calls herself a lesbian & makes a video about sucking dick damn right I’m going to call her out for being a dicksucking hetbi homophobe.

Now i hope you understand & stop pretending bisexuals are just innocently getting bullied by lesbians just for existing like as if that has any real impact on your fucking lives. Unlike me who has to deal with men who had bisexuals tell them that lesbians love the dick & other shyt bisexuals do that builds distrust like erasing the meaning of lesbian by using it while they really have 1000 ways to express being attracted to both sexes.  

[flowerlygirls]

i did not say namecalling is all that counts as biphobia, nor did i say lesbians dont have a right to be mad at or distrust bisexuals. i said such names are deeply disrespectful to all of the bisexual women, and misogynistic. @rageclit worded it really good. its also specifically for bi women as calling a bi man nuthugger would p much be homophobia.

[taurusdyke]

^^^^^^^

[homo-normative]

yall i have pretty controversial opinions about lesbianism apparently but if u think lesbians need to be welcoming to penis in their sex lives please unfollow me

[rainymeadows]

hi this is really unfair to trans women

[straightgirls]

omg the original post didn’t even say that transwomen are male or that lesbians can’t like penis or can’t have penises. it literally just said “they don’t HAVE to fuck dicks if they don’t want to” and apparently that was enough to make you weirdos mad….

[exclusionaryhomosexual-deactiva]

“it’s unfair to penis-havers to not welcome penis in your sex life if you are a lesbian”

this is what liberal feminism and the queer community say about lesbians. this is the “progressives” side. 

[exasperated-24-7]

It didn’t even specify trans women or men and the statement applies to both.

[woahdudenode]

[bananarolls-deactivated20170307]

don’t let terfs into pride parades, don’t let them into safe spaces, don’t help if they’re getting hurt, deny them hospital stays, don’t let them into stores, don’t let them keep pets, don’t let them adopt children, don’t let them have access to medication, don’t let them have gynecologist help, don’t let them use the bathroom, don’t let them into the changing room, ban them from dating sites, don’t treat them with basic respect, treat terfs with their own rhetoric and maybe they’ll see how “not violent” they are.

[m8riarchy-deactivated20170922]

apparently, ackowledging biology means you’re trying to deny trans people basic human rights

[dykebeast]

go ahead and treat me with my own rhetoric. point out that I’m biologically female. ouch, it hurts so much… to acknowledge… sex-based oppression… access to healthcare for my mental illness is the worst!!

[spencer-shayy-archive]

Since when have “TERFs” denied trans people any of these things?

Hint: We haven’t.

[toppdyke]

Thats paper in the 80s didn’t take away anything from anyone as one feminist who wrote common sense report didn’t stop any man from cutting off & inverting any other man’s penises.

The transcult just loves making up bs victim stories that never happened.

[sapphic-matriarchy]

Wow, violent threats against women’s health and safety. Good job transcult youre fucking bastards 

[destroymales-deactivated2023032]

‘wlw blog NO TERFS ALLOWED’ really means ‘only bisexuals welcome’

[bad-post-pikachu]

Actually, it means they don’t want transphobes spreading their hateful rhetoric to impressionable trans wlw who could be affected by transphobia. 

[destroymales-deactivated2023032]

Being a lesbian isn’t transphobic. Transwomen can’t be ‘wlw’ by definition since they’re male. So yeah, the people defending that bullshit ‘wlw but no terfs’ stuff are generally either bisexual women or straight males.

[taurusdyke]

please keep in mind that the gender cult has run so deep that even some girls and women who are genuinely lesbians are being coerced into expressing attraction towards males. since lesbians are crucified for expressing gender critical or female-centric sentiment, it makes sense why the 15-18 y/o girls who run these blogs might want to avoid being lumped in with us "terfs", even if they are lesbians as well. no one likes getting rape threats.

[earthlyemily]

the pop top on our van is awesome for drying clothes

[doe-bii]

*shows up at your house with no clothes on, covered in honey* YOU WONT BELIEVE WHAT THE GENDERISTS DID TODAY AT WORK

[terfmilk]

They didn’t pour feathers on you? :^( bc they did to me. The gendershits are the worst

[doe-bii]

This male violence against us womynehfn is the worst……. THESE damn gendershitfucks are on my last terf nerve

[terfmilk]

The gendershits literally killed me last week :^( with a 1000 degree knife true violence for us real womyn is everywhere

[doe-bii]

Omg same…. one actually asked me to fight me in the pit and I was viciously attacked…. these memes need to stop????

[terfmilk]

WHATS NEXT? 1000 DEGREE KNIFE PITS????? Us real WOMYN need to protect each other uwu

[doe-bii]

soon the genderists will make us fight in the meme pits and I will not stand for THIS we have to stop them immediately…

[straightgirls]

anybody in this thread smoke weed ?

[taurusdyke]

where did you get your tarot cards?

i bought them online! i just looked up “art noveau tarot cards”, and thats how i found both decks i have ^^ 

[misanthrpologie]

Saving Face (2012), acid attacks on women in Pakistan

[catsagainstfeminism]

Meanwhile, in America, feminists are complaining about how dress codes are oppressive.

You idiots have never experienced oppression, and pray you never do, because this is what it looks like.

[earthlydreams-deactivated201709]

As a South Asian American feminist, let me remind everyone that oppression is not a competition.

Just because we fight one type of sexism doesn’t mean we don’t care about other instances of sexism that don’t affect us directly in our day to day lives.

My heart goes out to this woman and the hundreds of other victims like her. I want to educate people about these kinds of incidents. I support organizations that help women like this.

You may think that dress code issues are trivial, but they are related to a larger issue of women’s bodily autonomy, which affects women’s health and safety.

So please, let’s try to bring awareness and bring about change instead of insulting entire groups of people because they are facing issues that are less scary than the one presented.

[thecuckoohaslanded]

“oppression is not a competition”

thank you so much for this wording

[project-radfem-deactivated20160]

Every time someone, usually a guy, complains about feminists not experiencing oppression, I can’t help but see what they are really trying to say.

“This is how men could be treating you, be grateful it’s only as bad as it is now.”

And that’s actually an attribute of abusers, I believe I read somewhere. To compare you to someone being treated worse and tell you you should be grateful you have it so good. It convinces the victim they should be silent in the face of their abuse.

It’s literally an abuse tactic. 

Every time someone says something like, “You […] have never experienced oppression, and pray you never do, because this is what it looks like.” What they are saying is, “shut up, we could treat you worse if we wanted to.”

[periegesisvoid-deactivated]

^^^^^^^^^^^

[burntoutcat]

Boom.

[antiporn-activist]

Analogy: let’s stop trying to find a cure for cancer because people also die of heart disease.

[extremeirrelevancy-deactivated2]

So let me get this straight, now we’re saying that females calling themselves women might be appropriative and an abuse of privilege because female bodied people don’t WORK enough to earn the label “woman” like some male bodied people do?

Wow. Jesus Christ.

[redressalert]

+/-6000 years of patriarchal domination to construct your female self into “woman” as we know it, but You Just Haven’t Earned It Yet, Baby.

[mypowerourpower]

What just happened?

[getoffmyastroturf]

Hopefully someone’s peak trans moment

[rotfem]

Pray for whoever wrote this honestly this is Goddess-awful and makes me want to eat my own teeth

[witwitch-deactivated20160508]

I respect porn stars, prostitutes, strippers, the trafficked, cam girls, and other sex workers of all stripes.

I do not respect men who watch porn or consume women as objects.

[fadprince]

Ok, I’m seeing a lot of Barbs on Twitter defending Nicki Minaj and her bailing her brother out… and I’m struggling trying to comprehend WHY!

If you didn’t already know Jelani Maraj, Nicki’s brother, used Nicki’s name to lure a 12 year old girl into his truck, drove her around the corner and raped her. The girl was thankfully able to get away and call the cops only for Jelani to drive away and pass a surveillance camera. She was treated at Queens General Hospital. The girl was immediately able to ID Jelani, and as well as evidence from the SUV, license plate, etc. Jelani was arrested and charged. He was also posted for 100k bail.

and heres what’s fucked up: Nicki actually payed for his bail! Nicki identifies as a feminist and has actively spoken about women’s rights and issues so I’m having trouble understanding how she can think this is okay. AND Yes, I know this doesn’t mean that the charges are gonna be dropped and he’s gonna get away with rape, but currently at the moment he isn’t in a jail cell, he isn’t in legal custody, he’s literally chillin awaiting trial. AND since we are talking about Trials, Nicki is very much so capable of providing him with the best lawyers in the country, seeing that she’s been supportive of him enough to post bail, and those lawyers could very well minimize his sentencing or by some miracle help him get away with this. But let’s for a moment think about the girl who was actually raped. She’s going to sleep tonight knowing that her rapist is free. Her parents are going to sleep tonight knowing that their daughter’s rapist is free. The 12 year old girl is probably going through severe trauma and anxiety right now. but what’s really awful is the fact that she was obviously a Nicki fan, enough of a fan to get in the car with a stranger because he was Nicki’s brother, so imagine how she feels to know that the person responsible for making her rapist free is her very own idol. So I’m fed up with people trying to defend either of the two, I’m tired of barbs trying to make her seem like she can do no wrong, because this whole thing is seriously fucked up and I’m gonna be real fucking pissed if it all gets swapped underneath the rug. 

[be-blackstar]

Oh god, I didn’t even think of that last part. It’s so hard for girls to report rape. She does so and the rapist is freed by the woman she admires. Goddamnit, Nicki!

[uglyuglytruths]

don’t be afraid to create female only spaces for yourself. whether it’s a group chat, a facebook group, or a forum, female only spaces will help you process everything in a place where you don’t have to pander to males or be afraid of their judgement. surround yourself with your sisters, start today