Tethys

"Who in the world am I? Ah,that's a great puzzle."一Lewis Carroll 嘗試飛行

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2022.11.12 Seiko Prospex V129

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to Make the Most of Today

1. Choose not to feel too anxious or to fear what’s in the future. Often, things turn out much better than we thought they would do.

2. Allow yourself to dream about - and then plan for - the future. But still work hard today as that determines your tomorrow.

3. Don’t simply grit your teeth and try to make it through the day. Decide to find the positives, and good things on the way.

4. Don’t rest on your successes as that was yesterday. The past has gone forever but the future lies ahead.

5. Let go of hurts and grievances: they’ll only pull you down, consume your energy and leave you feeling sad and tired.

6. Be optimistic, smile and have a positive outlook. It brightens how you feel, and helps us get the most from life.

[heavyrain-dc]

“One day you will thank yourself for never giving up.”

— Unknown

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就猶如為了畢業體測拼命練習的我

[quotefeeling]

“This is not a goodbye, my darling, this is a thank you. Thank you for coming into my life and giving me joy, thank you for loving me and receiving my love in return. Thank you for the memories I will cherish forever. But most of all, thank you for showing me that there will come a time when I can eventually let you go.”

— Nicholas Sparks // Message in a Bottle

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To D.D. ,

I will always remember you.

[iifays]

我害怕努力而沒有結果，即使我並沒有開始。 要怎麼知道現在做的，是朝應該的方向，你能活得沒有錯誤，不讓自己失望嗎？

「如果你各作一支籤、隨便亂抽後就下了決定，我相信，你十年後也不會後悔現在的決定。因為會讓人後悔的從來也不是決定、而是過程。」 ── 溫為翔

[iifays]

我喜歡她，但她從來都不知道，不是因為我是女生，而是她還沒有喜歡過任何人

我也曾希望同一天可以過兩遍，一遍用來犯錯一遍用來修改。

後來才明白，我想預先知道的其實是題目，而不是答案。

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// 20210923-20210930 - USAFA International Week - 從小就一直想去美國走走 睽違了二十二年終於如願 雖然說只有短短一個星期 但是從中學到了很多經驗 也從中認識了很多新朋友 - 此次美國空軍軍官官校的參訪 最可惜的莫過於被迫脫掉制服 還有晚宴以字幕代替臺灣國旗 🇹🇼🇹🇼🇹🇼🇹🇼🇹🇼🇹🇼🇹🇼🇹🇼🇹🇼 現實中沒有擁有所謂的權與利 許多時候我們就顯得極其卑微 然後就會覺得自己好無能為力 這就是所謂的現實但這又如何 我們還不是現在活得好好的？ 一位臺灣公民也是一位軍校生 This is my identity and I am proud of it. - 另外，身為一位領導者，我想不應該是滿腦子想著度假和逛街。而是應該認清自己所需背負的責任並且有能力去解決問題。這次經驗讓我有很深的感觸。 - All in all, I had a great time in USAFA, Colorado. I am so glad and grateful that I got the opportunity to meet these marvelous people from all around the world. One day I will travel to all your countries and pay you guys a visit that is a promise. I miss you guys already🥺. Thx for giving me such a great memory during this trip. Special thanks to @m_manion for being my host even though you are super busy @0wayhow @c.s.shen2 @coward_0802 for being our local tour 24/7 and bringing me safely back to my dorm 😜 @z.dinosaur aka caption master for being my photographer - #中華民國生日快樂🇹🇼🎂🎉 #internationalweek #unitedstatesairforceacademy #denmark🇩🇰 #france🇫🇷 #約旦🇯🇴 #guatemala🇬🇹 #thailand🇹🇭 https://www.instagram.com/p/CU1RFkZFXbSs48uu5FM8OPxcrMt3Qtq4Jb_JVk0/?utm_medium=tumblr

[perfeqt]

“You realize that sometimes friends don’t need to be perfect, some are always there and that’s just more than enough.”

— Unknown (via meineluft)

[gloupblog]

I get to know myself better every day. I know what I like and don’t like. I know what makes me happy and what makes me cry. I am beginning to understand why. I am comfortable being alone because I know myself like family

[iifays]

機會成本

F:所以你平常和大家相處大概只有25%自己嗎？

C:對啊。

F:呃那在我面前時候也是嗎？

C:在你面前的時候有80%啦。

F:所以還是沒有100%欸，那──好吧，沒事。

C:怎麼了？

F:沒有，我本來想問你什麼時候會在我面前是100%，但後來覺得說不定這樣就好喔。

C:怎麼說？

F:說不定，有些人就是因為彼此沒有做自己，才變成要好的朋友的喔。在失去你和讓你做100%自己之間，我還不知道我比較希望怎麼樣呢。

[iifays]

藕

　 我曾經以為，所有事情都可以從現在開始。 但我錯了。所有事情都是從昨天開始的。 　

[iifays]

及

為什麼我們回想起無名小站時期用密碼鎖住文章的行為會忍不住嘲笑自己？除了因為那些荒謬地隱晦得只有自己才能拆穿的密碼提示之外，也因為現在根本沒有人在乎你擁有什麼祕密了。曾經以為自己的祕密很珍貴的自己，在如今的你眼中帶著一份無辜的可笑，那時候真心覺得有人要破解你拆穿你深入你。想像著有誰關心，彷彿那是生活的前提。但生活的前提其實是沒有人有義務要關心你，而那些關心你的人也早已不需要密碼來證明自己了。

如果可以更早一點知道就好了，有人在你還那麼幼稚的時候便等待著你的坦誠。那天的音樂是《Linus & Lucy》，即便十八歲之後不常聽了卻可能仍是我這輩子聽過最多次的專輯。某日不意在YouTube上找到同樣曲目卻是現場錄音的版本，幾個小節幾個變速那樣的疏離：你那麼像你，我卻知道不是你。多麽適合翻成法文：Tu es tellement comme toi, mais je sais que ce n'est pas toi. 可能是早上七點的緣故吧我竟想起了Ｊ，久違地哀愁：「這就是我還愛她，而她也還愛我的時候我在聽的音樂啊。」

總是只能找到一個個入口的時代。所有東西都隔著一道整理，隔著一個入口。上網搜尋時你鮮少直接找到那家你想知道是什麼的店，翻譯辭典，匯率換算，就連日期計算都隔著一個網頁。那就是你，和我。

我們之間沒有密碼了。但為什麼，我們之間的距離顯得更廉價了呢。

[iifays]

“說像雨，聽像杯子。 沒有杯子能接住所有雨滴。”

— 2019 Sep. 18

[thoughtkick]

“The worst part about being lied to is knowing that to that person, you weren’t worth the truth.”

— Unknown

[iifays]

“人們老是這樣，被微不足道的事物傷害，卻對沉重龐大的事物毫無知覺。”

— 2019 Sep.17

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