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Jerma: no chat.. *laughs* I’m not gonna, I’m NOT gonna disavow StarClan and break the warrior code! I would never do that, who does that?

Jerma, a mere week later: Dark Forest Training Stream

castigatedcast

soon I will be euthanized due to my various behavioral issues and also they just don’t like me

nedlittle

1920s guy driving a model t with a "i bought this before ford went crazy" bumper sticker

#history

avpdvoidspace

Having a traumatic childhood means you cannot talk even objectively about your basic foundational experiences without it being "venting", even if you're not actually venting. You just straight up have a huge chunk of your life you can't talk about, full stop, without it being trauma dumping.

And it not being socially acceptable to talk about your own childhood is super alienating. Sometimes people want to know why, and any answer you can give them is going to be off putting.

It's to the point I get irritated when something I said is framed as venting when I'm literally just talking about my life experiences, doing my best to keep emotion out of it.

savouryduck

when I was in high school, I overheard two older students talking about a friend of theirs.

One of them said something like, "it doesn't bother me that [Friend] was in residential mental health treatment, I just wish they wouldn't talk about it ALL the time".

The other replied, "Well, that was all of last year for them. So when they say 'when I was in treatment,' it's like when you say 'last year'."

I try to remember that any time someone says something that sounds Shocking to me. sometimes one person's scary special crisis is another person's last year.

wherethewildcatsare

If you want to be accepting of mental illness, you need to accept the fact that some people's everyday lives are going to be terrifying to you. That doesn't mean they don't get to talk about it. Stop forcing hurt, isolated people to become even MORE hurt and isolated because you can't fathom toughening up a bit.

dogpuppy

deadnotsleeping413

( ͡~ ͜ʖ ͡° )?

There is something about choice

And the lack of choice

Being a part of something

And being blocked away from it

There is something about an experience you’re asked to partake in

And cannot broach

There is

Something

Voting ended onFeb 14, 2023

notvoid

vamptits

let's play doctor and patient I'll go first 🥰 you're faking.

edenogenesis

heavensenthousepet

you learn something new everyday. unless you're a historian. then you learn something old

melonisopod

lesbiangiratina

Youre always so kind and gentle with me olive garden

lokaror

They used idiot ore to forge u bro

theballmighty

It’s too late. Books have fallen out of fashion among the general public, so writing the next Great American Novel isn’t a possibility any more. Now, writing the next Great American Ironic Dating Sim VN, however-