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Are you aware there is a typo in your username?
Fixed it ^^" thank you
I think it's important to recognize that the concept of a "little" means different things to different systems.
- Some littles are less responsible and emotionally mature than adults, and some are equally responsible and emotionally mature.
- Some littles don't have access to adult memories and knowledge, and some do.
- Some littles formed in childhood, and some formed later in life.
- Some littles age or emotionally mature over time, and some don't.
- Some littles need to be sequestered away with other littles, and some can socialize with adults both in and out of the system.
- Some littles have childlike interests and enjoy media and hobbies associated with kids, and others have broader tastes in activities.
- Some littles need to be kept away from potentially mature content, and others are fine with seeing violence, swearing, sexuality, etc. in media.
- Some littles need to be kept off of social media for their own wellbeing, and some can safely use and enjoy social media.
- Some littles can't do certain tasks adult members can do (driving a car, cooking, managing money and doing taxes) and some can.
- Some littles need to be frequently supervised and have decisions made for them by older members of the system, and some don't need special supervision or guidance at all.
- Some littles are completely asexual and may find exposure to sexuality distressing, and some have sex drives and can consent to sexual activities.
Any discourse questioning "can littles do X?" should be answered with "it depends on the little". Individual systems should be trusted to make decisions that work for them. Judgment calls can be made by the little in question if they have that level of maturity, or by older members of the system if they need that kind of help. But I don't think those decisions should be enforced by people who aren't members of that system. (With the exception of the specific people involved in a sexual activity, who can give or rescind their own consent.)
In my opinion rules in online environments should accommodate littles, not make assumptions and box them in. For example, little-specific Discord channels - great! Littles are ONLY allowed to use little-specific Discord channels - not so great.
Ultimately we should keep in mind that while littles have their identified age in common, they may differ from one another in other ways. When it comes down to it, how things work for one system will not be how they work for everyone.
hey guys I can’t believe I have to say this but if you’re one of those “kill all men” people I want you to please leave me alone. I support feminism 100%. Your cause is understood, but your methods are not. I am a man. Me being trans doesn’t mean that I’m “woman lite”, just like being a man doesn’t make me a misogynistic predator. I am just living my life and I’d really like it if you could let me do that in peace. Thanks. Enjoy your afternoon. Btw the wording here is gonna be totally garbage because I’m exhausted and having a bad week w/ trauma stuff but I hope you understand. I really don’t want to start any discourse here I just want to set a boundary
“Kill all men” people inherently suck because the concept follows the belief that men cannot do better and are the way they are just “because they’re men”. I need you fucking idiots out there to understand this is just “boys will be boys” in different terms. If you don’t want “boys will be boys” to be used, then don’t use “kill all men”. Plain and simple, fuckface. I’m also going to fucking remind folks out there that “kill all men” isn’t feminism because feminism implies a goal of equity and equality, not goddamned homicide.
I’m going to kick you in the crotch if I hear you say “kill all men”. My friend is just being nicer than I will be.
Bitch.
(via meanboysclub)
The last one
Also good on these people for taking the aggressively petty route instead of falsely registering their pets as service animals
I love how everyone intentionally interpreted this not as “your dog must be small” but “your dog must be in a bag”
“aww cute!! big doggies in ba-”
*cry-laughing as i hit the reblog button*
I’m going to point out that this sounds like the system working as intended bc if your dog is actually currently in a bag its not going to like, run off and bother other passengers or piss/shit where is not supposed to.
Like, yep. This works. If your dog’s well behaved enough to stay in a bag, THAT’s when it’s allowed on the subway.
That last comment was my EXACT thought.
This is actually one of the most effective kinds of laws, because it tricks people into complying with the spirit of the law by making them think theyre rebelling against the letter of the law.
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sorry I’m late yeah this is a good post
this I like this
If even one person mentions April Fools day to us, I WILL just rage quit. I hate this fucking holiday. I hate this fucking day. I hate him. He ruined everything. I hate everything.
can you (pro/neu) endo 'systems' tag all your posts a pro endo? its not that fucking hard. if anti endos have to, so should you
Hello. Sorry this took a while to answer, we forgot about Tumblr for a brief moment. Now, I was going to get mad here, but then I realized, I can be above that, I'm not *that* reactionary. And you do make a point. I would like to point out though, the reason for my lack od tagging regarding Syscorse is because we really prefer to be left out of it, although I understand if you or anyone else felt tricked by the lack of stating our stance. So I will go through and re-tag our posts.
Let it be known, we are strictly a pro-endo traumagenic system, as it is supported by the DSM-5, and I believe as a golden rule, if someone tells you something about themselves, to believe it.
Also, we are fully traumagenic, so I don't understand why you would call us an endo. Unless I am fully misunderstanding that part.
Have a good day, and please be safe out there.
does your headspace have a bind¹?
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A Bind is an object- it could be anything- in headspace that thethers/binds the systems existence. If the bind is damaged in any way, it co
HELP IM LOSING IT- PEOPLE ARE CALLING TOMMY AND WHICHTIGER HORNYDUO- HELPPPP WTF HAHAHA
i love when ppl message me again if our convo kinda ends. like yes, please keep it going. you could never annoy me but sometimes i forget and don't know what to say or i was busy
Octocon is shuting down now too.. Fuck.
We didn't like that one as much anyways, but we're polyfrag, we don't have many options...
it’s the no notes blanket fort! climb on in
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Embedding myself in historyyyyy
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Okay but is anyone going to mention the weird human-ish thing in the background??? Why is it floating??? Where is the face???
So, I have a question
Why do some systems have doubles? Like duplicates of an alter? I just dont understand because shouldn't the first one be doing its job so you dont need more?
And also, why have multiple alters in one role? Like i just saw a post about someone having too many anger holders. Why do you need more than one?
I'm not trying to be rude, I just genuinely dont understand
Why do some systems have doubles?
Well, we can't speak for other systems, but for our system we have several different types of doubles.
Double type one: Different person, Same Source
Double type two: Same person, Different source
What does this mean? Well, Double type 1 is exclusive to Introjects, but introjects can also have double type 2's. I'll use an example to explain more about double type 1:
We have several Harry Potter fictives (fuck JKR) For this we're gonna look at Harry Potter and Harry Black.
Harry Potter: Was the first of the two that showed up. Is sourced from Harry Potter during his 5th year. He handles the depression and is very quiet and reserved for the most part. He stays in his room and rarely fronts unless to talk to his dad (Sirius, in another system)
Harry Black: Showed up several months after Harry Potter. Is sourced from Harry Potter during his 5th year. Changed his name to both better diffentant between him and Harry Potter, but also to match his dad's name (Sirius in another system) He holds a lot if anger, and is a lot more out going, he is quick to get angry, and fronts a lot more compared to his brother (Harry Potter).
Why is this is helpful for our system? Well it takes two aspects of the same character and uses that to help the system. They are both sourced from the same character, but often preform completely different roles.
Type 2 doubles are NOT exclusive to Introjects, these are "Same person, Different source" which is a slightly misleading name for it- let me explain. (For context most, if not all, of us have exomemories and exotrauma. Most of that parallels what the body has gone through because the brain believes it's easier to process when it's a "fictional scenario". And because it mostly parallels the body's trauma, most of these exomemories aren't canon)
Okay, so when a headmate is ignoring and pushing away exomemories/not processing exomemories, that the brain assigned to them, the brain will often make a duplicate of that headmate, except it'll be a younger version of them, often when they were actively experiencing that trauma. So that there is a version of them that will deal with or push that headmate to deal with that trauma.
So "Same person, different source" they are the same person just at different points in their life and the younger one is sourced from that headmate not the OG character is that makes sense?
Why have multiple alters in one role?
Again, we can only speak for our system, but we are Polyfragmented, so we always have multiple people in one role. This is because all of our headmates have more than one role. So they way the roles combine, work together, and how the headmate uses their role, is very different per headmate. For example:
Headmate 1 is both an anger holder and a depression holder: This headmate might isolate in anger, stew for several days or weeks ans then blow up when they are finally over it
Headmate 2 is both an anger holder and a trauma holder: This headmate is a lot more reactive, blows up at smaller things, and it is often trauma motivated
Headmate 3 is both an anger holder and a trauma holder: This headmate is a lot more quiet and reserved, but gets very angry, but instead of taking it out on others, they take it out on themself.
You see? Each headmate processes things differently and treats their role differently. Even if they have the same roles as another headmate, they'll act and treat their job completely differently.
I hope this helped ^^
Hey everyone!
We've received a lot of asks and replies where systems have said they don't want to say too much or give too much detail in their requests or ideas because they’re worried about sounding overbearing or annoying. Please don’t worry about that at all! The more detail you can give about your ideas, the better.
This is a community-driven project built in collaboration with the community. Our goal is to create something that genuinely reflects what people actually want and need, so hearing your thoughts is incredibly important to us.
Right now we are in the early research phase, where we are mapping out where we want to go with the application and what it should look like moving forward. Everything people send in helps massively with that process.
If you have ideas about anything — graphic design, UI design, app layout, features for the app, features for the website, foundation ideas, accessibility or inclusivity assistance, or literally anything else — we would love to hear them in as much detail as you’d like to share.
We’re also currently putting together a Google Form that will be released next week where people will be able to submit ideas, suggestions, and feedback in a more structured way. So if you’d prefer to send ideas through something like that, keep an eye out for it soon!
Thank you so much to everyone who has already sent things in. We care deeply about this community, and it's really encouraging to see people coming together to build something and help each other rather than turning to anger.
We appreciate you all a lot. 💙
How big is your system?
I'm very curious about other people's systems lol. Tell me your system size, and how often do you get new members? Info dump to me!
400+ members that are active- about 100 non-active members
We get new people very frequently- The average amount of newbies we get per month (from January of 2025, to Febuary of 2026) was 20.8 new people ber month-
We often times get multiple new people all at the same time- so 3-7 new people will show up at the same time-
Our splits are also very different than most people's splits. Our splits are called "Abiding split"
An abiding split is a type of split that happens over a long period of time, usually more than five hours. These splits are usually painful, or have fluctuating levels of pain over the course of the split.
Which is a term we coined on Pluralpedia.
When the split finally "lets go" and the new person/people show up and then they are usually locked up front and kept there for a few hours until the door unlocks. Usually this ends in dissipation which... sucks.. but now we've started shepherding our splits, this means the shepherd helps the newbies remember who they are and explains what's happening (since the newbies rarely remember their names, and usually have no clue as to whats happening and why they are here)
so, simply plural is being discontinued, and this is going to be my reminder that octocon is not a safe app in terms of their dev team.
the most common thing everyone knows: they’re sysmed as FUCK. they got a lot of backlash for it and changed the BOT’S stance on this, but the dev team themselves have not changed.
let me say it again:
sysmeds. do. not. protect. the. cdd. system. community.
they don’t. sysmed ideology hurts and shames ALL systems. you cannot win with a sysmed. they have a wall for a brain and nothing you say will make them understand.
cdd systems are not safe from sysmeds, no matter how pick-me you want to be with them.
2: they literally allow fucking pedophiles to use their services (which i’ll get to how fucked that is from another point) and talk in their discord server.
source (with screenshots)
honestly that whole blog (octocon-beware) is a reason to not use the app.
even IF they have now banned that pedo, they publicly stated that they would not do anything about it to begin with, and that’s fucking disgusting. they do not deserve any grace for banning them after they said that. it does not make it go away. they endorsed pedo behaviour and do not have the right to get away with it if they FINALLY banned them.
don’t fucking fall for it.
3: their TOS states they can terminate your account for any reason they want. if it disagrees with their stances (aka sysmed and pedo-loving) they’ll smash you with the ban hammer.
they can see ALL your data. while i seriously doubt they comb through every account, i would NOT be surprised if they have a little trigger cue that gives your account an alert on their end if you use words like “endogenic” or “mixed origins”.
anyways, they literally admit to banning people they don’t agree with IN THIS TOS CLAUSE. why else would they write it like that? they “exercise” the clause. if they hadn’t done it before, there would be no reason for them to say it like this.
they could say “we exercise this clause by terminating the accounts of people who break the “prohibited uses” clause” or some shit. they PURPOSELY say that it’s things they are “staunchly against” because that covers their being staunchly against anything other than traumagenic systems.
and because you signed up for octocon without reading the tos, and you got banned for “being what they’re staunchly against”, you can’t complain because you literally agreed to it by creating an account and accepting the tos
this is why you read the fucking tos
no matter how long it is
read the fine print
anyways, octocon-hating, fully traumagenic canis corps out
do with this what you will
oh also, if anyone has simply plural alternatives, drop em in the notes, i want to check some out
https://www.tumblr.com/thefoxcolletcive/810610682658701312?source=share
Link to a new system tracking app project ^
But also, does anyone know what us polyfrag systems are going to do about SP shutting down? There's no other realistic way for us to log our over 400 members in notion, or obsidian, or other note taking apps- so right now we're kinda forced to use Octocon if we don't want to loose everything, and we rely so heavily on logging- and advice is appreciated
Ampersand seems like a good option! It says it's on hiatus but we've been using the app and it works just fine!!
Like Octocon it has an import option from SP too :]
Unfortunately Ampersand stops working when we use it, given our high head count-