hey can everyone do me a favor and put in the tags why they chose their name? even if you don't go by a chosen name irl, you can put why you chose your online name.
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hey can everyone do me a favor and put in the tags why they chose their name? even if you don't go by a chosen name irl, you can put why you chose your online name.
2026 half year report 🐎
yippee! 🍀
all in all, not bad 🦩
hoping for better... 🧍♀️
only a miracle can save 2026 now
despair and misery
i'm sure hamnet is good and i'll get around to watching it eventually but to ME jessie buckley's oscar is for the bride!
THE BRIDE! (2026) JESSIE BUCKLEY
forever thinking about that girl at my uni orientation who, after being told to pour out her water bottle before entering an event, looked at me and said "they tell us to stay hydrated and then make us pour out our water, this is like totally kafkaesque" and then poured out what was very obviously an entire water bottle full of whiskey. hope she's doing well.
The hopeless dream of being. Not seeming to be, but being. Conscious and awake at every moment. At the same time, the chasm between what you are to others and what you are to yourself. The feeling of vertigo, and the constant hunger to be unmasked once and for all. To be seen through, cut down… perhaps even annihilated. Every tone of voice a lie, every gesture a falsehood, every smile a grimace. Commit suicide? No, too nasty. One doesn’t do things like that. But you can refuse to move or talk. Then at least you’re not lying. You can cut yourself off, close yourself in. Then you needn’t play any roles, wear any masks, make any false gestures. So you might think… but reality plays nasty tricks on you. Your hiding place isn’t watertight enough. Life oozes in from all sides. You’re forced to react.
Persona (1966) dir. Ingmar Bergman
i said “it’s a smoke couch, a couch for smoking” and it was
“can’t believe women fought to work!! i don’t wanna work!!” women have Been Working they fought to get Paid you know that right ?
Letting everyone down would be my greatest unhappiness.
MARIE ANTOINETTE (2006) dir. Sofia Coppola
Brokeback Mountain 2005, dir. Ang Lee
i love shipping magazines and i especially love them when they sound like they were written by a mildly aggravated cargo ship
idk i always kind of roll my eyes at all those posts that are like “people used to be ugly in movies” like….. well☝️i don’t think that’s true. i think male actors have always had more leeway to look a bit imperfect. we’ve had average/weird looking male actors in every generation, including this one. but people have always needed to be “hot” for movies. and they did crazy shit for it!! marlene dietrich getting teeth extracted to hollow out her cheeks, carole lombard undergoing her (non-cosmetic) facial reconstruction without anesthesia because they thought it would look better, etc ad infinitum. do you know the kinds of diets they had women on to keep them skinny…. not to mention beauty standards for women of color tryna be in movies. like there’s a reason the three biggest black actresses of classic hollywood decades were josephine baker, lena horne, and dorothy dandridge: all pretty lightskinned with smaller mouths and noses -> approximating whiteness (no shade i love these women sm). i think the difference Today is that there are simply way more procedures you can get done since cosmetic medicine has evolved so much. so people can change more of their face with better and more reliable results than they could in the 1930s. point being that people have definitely always needed to be conventionally attractive to be in movies but given the physical scope of what could be conceivably changed about your appearance there was simply more diversity in like facial structure and features
would you still be alive without modern medicine? looking back at your life, would you survive without any to the moment where you are now?
yes
no
barely
yes but it would affect me for the rest of my life
results
I'd have my knee fucked up forever alive but yeahhhhh
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The Swan (1915)
— by Hilma Af Klint
mal do you have any tips for starting over if the first three decades of your life weren’t so great?
So a lot of what I'm going to say is things that people said to me that I didn't really believe. I felt very doomed for much of my twenties and like it was too late for me and anything to the contrary felt really, really difficult to believe. But thirty is younger than you think and sometimes your twenties suck. There's been a way out of so many places I thought I'd never escape.
I think the thing that helped me most was realizing that starting over after the first three decades is genuinely super normal. Most of my social circle is late twenties to early thirties and almost no one's life is what they thought it would or should look like at this age. I know so many people who are going back to school or changing careers or otherwise starting over. Life so rarely works out the way anyone expects it to.
I felt wildly insecure about going back to school in my late twenties and graduating at thirty, but as it turned out I was far from the oldest person in my cohort, and it was way way easier than I expected to make friends, both with people around my age and older and the younger students. I expected doubt and judgment and to regularly be the oldest person in the room and instead I was largely met with support and enthusiasm from the people in my life and at my college. My partner changed her entire life at around the same age, left her ex and her city and her job and she is SO much happier at 34 than she ever was in her twenties.
(Side note: if you're interested in similarly upending your entire life, places like resort towns and ski hills often offer staff accommodations and have a pretty low barrier to entry which can make relocating a lot easier but it's usually service industry work and depending on where you are the culture in staff accom can be pretty intense, so if that's a path that might appeal to you do some research.)
This has been kinda career focused but also a job is just one part of some people's lives, and it's very much not too late to pick up a new hobby or skill or sport or musical instrument or reinvent yourself in any number of ways. You can get really into birding or knitting or classic film or all of the above.
I thought my life was functionally over at 26 and I ended up being very wrong. It was impossible for me to see a path towards a life I wanted - the fog of grief and depression and everything else that made my twenties suck was just too thick to see through - but the path was there. I think my twenties will very likely be the worst decade of my life. I think the same is true for a lot more people than most realize. Give yourself grace, mourn the difficult years, and keep moving through the fog.
Good luck, I believe in you. <3
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"Vanderhorst had been under the influence of MDMA and three litres of vodka she had consumed on the night of the offence last September, her lawyer Michael Hill told the court."
three. liters.
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