The Indomitable Woman

A self-help and support resource designed to empower women through the power of unconditional love though faith in God and awakening to our spiritual nature.

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Spiritual awakening struggles are amplified when we continue to hold on to the trauma-reinforcing, barbed-wire, loved-ones.



The ones whom God has left blind and deaf to your needs (no matter how loud you get) because of THEIR hurtful (sinful) choices that blocks ALL THEIR EFFORTS. It disconnected them from God and therefore disconnected from you.

If they don’t know and cannot appreciate God within, they will NOT appreciate the standards you’ve worked SO HARD to cultivate God within you and reprogram your mind through integration with the Holy Spirit within yourself, through self control and discipline, through honing your intuition and integrity and harkening obedience to your Creator.

Through understanding your worth to your Creator.

Through learning what TRUE Unconditional love IS and what it means.

You come to realize there are two things REAL LOVE will always be: Safe and Healthy. If it’s not that, it’s barbed wire. And you don’t want to become barbed wire…TRUST ME!!!! Let God deal with barb wire people. They are completely outside your control and power anyways. Care and support and love from a distance only.

Keep your distance OR expect a lot more suffering in hopes that they see your value enough to stop hurting you.

Keep growing as God is leading you, honing your own character, integrity, values, self control and discipline…reinforcing your own value.

Embrace faith in your moments of doubt. Stay in your lane (within your realm of control. YOU!).

Keep your high standards! Standards are for you. Standards come with Grace and consistent unyielding effort. Unyielding correction. Unyielding education and seeking. It’s an extremely intimate and personal experience to increase one standards with whole heart. Not for others, but for yourself! YOU SEE THE VALUE IN THE LESSONS. THE PURPOSE IN THE PAIN.

Standards are not expectations. Standards are actions that you take and accept. Expectations are desires without the action that follows through to make it happen. Expectations involve variables outside of your control. Standards is setting the bar in how you make your choices….How you think…How you move…What influences you allow…How healthy and safe you are…How deeply you love…How much Peace and Joy you experience…How present and connected you are…I could go on and on.

Have the courage not to quit on yourself, nor the dreams God placed on your heart, just because barb wire wants to stay barb wire. We all have free will and each person must choose for himself/herself. In every choice. Are you feeding Peace or are you feeding Chaos? Love or Fear? Faith or Doubt?

When you start feeding peace and love and faith, don’t expect your loved ones to stop feeding chaos and fear and doubt. Learn how to protect yourself against the Barb wire at the start.

How? Until you understand, thoroughly spiritual protection, and your existing solely in the material world, Learn BOUNDARIES!!! Start there. And become an expert at them. You are worthy of Safety and Health/Well Being. If there’s one thing I would’ve done differently, it’s would’ve had enough faith in myself to stay in firm in my boundaries.

But in that season, I was a baby in faith in God, I definitely did not yet have faith in myself. I always felt like boundaries were unjust, but it’s because I wasn’t ever allowed to have any so it was unjust.

When you start having boundaries, you will learn who your Barbwire people are! Take note and trust your inner peace or chaos to guide you.

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What IS a Demon?

Demon = De + mon

“De” (Negative) + “Mon” (Moon)

What does the Moon rule?….our Emotions!

So when I say, I am battling my own or other people‘s “demons”, I don’t mean a figurative spiritual deity possessing another human, though I’m confident that can happen and has been my conditioned belief for a long time, but I mean it as a metaphor for their negative emotions that keep them oppressed and stuck.

If you reflect on your life experience, you will resonate with how your negative emotions cannot only affect, but consume (possess) your mind, body, and spirit.

What you FEED (give energy to)…GROWS! What you WATER (rumination), GROWS. Choose to LEARN better so you can sustainably DO better. Awareness is step 1…so let this be your consciousness check.

How do we counter negative emotions caused through sin? By aligning our emotions/thoughts/energy/choices/actions with Truth/Faith/Values. Sin begets sin. Willfully stop sinning (first learn what Sin is) and watch your world do a paradigm shift.

Let’s dive into them to see which one your demons are holding onto…

Core categories of Biblical Sin (7 deadly sins):

1. Lust 2 Tim 2:22

2. Gluttony 1Cor 10:31

3. Greed Heb 13:5

4. Sloth Prov 6:6

5. Wrath Rom 12:19

6. Envy Prov 14:30

7. Pride Jer 9:23-24

Comprehensive List of Biblical Sins:

Abominable – Rev 21:8

Addiction – Eph 5:18

Adultery – Gal 5:19-21, Matt 19:18-19

Anxiety – Phil 14:6

Apathy – Rev 3:15-16

Argumentative – Rom 16:17

Bigotry – 1Tim 5:21

Backbiters – Rom 1:26-32

Bitterness – Eph 4:31

Blasphemy – Mark 7:21-22

Boasters – Rom 1:26-32

Calling people a fool – Matt 5:22

Cheating – Prov 11:1, 12:22

Chronic lateness – Gal 5:14, 1Cor 13:5

Coarse joking – Eph 5:4

Covenant breakers – Rom 1:26-32

Covetousness – Rom 1:26-32

Criticism – Heb 10:24

Debate – Rom 1:26-32

Deceit – Rom 1:26-32

Depression – Gal 5:22

Despiteful – Rom 1:26-32

Defilers – 1Tim 1:9-10

Disobedient – 1Tim 1:9-10, to parents – Rom 1:26-32

Dissension – Rom 16:17

Divorce (except for sexual immorality)– Matt 5:32

Drunkenness - Gal 5:19-21, Eph 5:18

Emulations (ambition or endeavor to equal or excel others) – Gal 5:19-21

Envy – Gal 5:19-21, Prov 14:30

Evil Thoughts – Mark 7:21-22

Fearful – Rev 21:8

Foolish Talk – Eph 5:4

Fornication – Gal 5:19-21

Greed – Eph 5:3, Luke 12:15

Gluttony – 1Cor 10:31, 2Peter 1:2-7

Haters of God - Rom 1:26-32

Hatred – Gal 5:19-21

Heresies - Gal 5:19-21

Homosexuality – Rom 1:26-32, 1Tim 1:9-10

Hypocrisy – Matt 7:5

Idolatry – Gal 5:19-21, Col 3:5

Immorality – Eph 5:5, 1Cor5:1

Implacable (cannot be calmed)– Rom 1:26-32

Inventors of evil things – Rom 1:26-32

Jealousy - James 3:13

Lasciviousness (unbridled lust, shamelessness) – Gal 5:19-21

Lawless – 1Tim 1:9-10

Lust - Rom 1:26-32, Matt 5:28

Lying – Bear False witness – Matt 19:18-19, 1Tim 1:9-10

Maliciousness - Rom 1:26-32

Ungodly – 1Tim 1:9-10

Malignity (disposition to do evil, malice) – Rom 1:26-32

Materialism – Col 3:5

Murder – Gal 5:19-21, Matt 19:18-19

Negativism – Col 3:10

Neglect God’s Word – Ps 1:2, 119:11

Neglect Prayer – 1Thes 5:17

No Concern for the Lost – 2Tim 3:1-4

No Faith – Luke 12:28

No trust in God – Ps 37:5

Non-repentance – Luke 13:3; Prov 28:13

Not honoring your father and mother – Matt 19:18-19

Not loving your neighbor as yourself – Matt 19:18-19

Occult involvement – Gal 5:20

Passivity – James 4:17

Pornography – Matt 5:28

Prejudice – 1Tim 5:21

Pride – Rom 1:26-32, Jer 9:23-24, Prov 8:13

Perjuring (willfully making a false statement) – 1Tim 1:9-10

Procrastination – Prov 13:4, 15:19

Profanity – 1Tim 1:9-10, Eph 4:29

Quenching the Holy Spirit – Eph 4:30

Rebellion to authority – 1Sam 15:23

Resentment – Eph 4:31

Revellings (to revel in luxury, wild party) - Gal 5:19-21

Seditions (violence against lawful civil authority)– Gal 5:19-21

Selfishness – Gal 2:20

Slander – Eph 4:31

Sloth – Prov 6:6

Speaking Obscenities – Eph 5:4

Stealing – Matt 19:18-19

Strife – Gal 5:19-21

Unbelieving – Rev 21:8

Uncleanness - Gal 5:19-21, Eph 5:3-7

Unforgiving – Matt 6:12

Unmerciful – Rom 1:26-32

Unrighteousness – Rom 1:26-32

Unholy – 1Tim 1:9-10

Vanity – Mark 7:22, 2Cor 5:12

Variance – Gal 5:19-21

Whisperers/Gossipy – Rom 1:26-32, 2Cor 7:20

Wickedness – Rom 1:26-32

Witchcraft – Gal 5:19-21

Without natural affection – Rom 1:26-32

Without understanding – Rom 1:26-32

Whoremongers (Greek - sexual immorality) – 1Tim 1:9-10

Worry – Matt 10:19; 13:21

Workaholic – Matt 6:31-33, 6:19-21

Wrath – Gal 5:19-21, Rom 12:19

Amen! 🙏🏼 God is SO GOOD!

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“I forgive people but that doesn’t mean I accept their behavior or trust them again. I forgive them for me, so I can let go and move on with my life.”

— Unknown

[theindomitablewoman]

While we don’t accept the behavior, we accept the truth behind what behavior means, we accept what is and that it is outside of our control and therefore adapt accordingly. We adapt in a way that keeps our human safe and protected, so it can continue to grow and thrive through self love even if nobody else can.

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[theindomitablewoman]

Remember this! The present is such a gift…be sure to take full advantage of your gifts by being “radically present” in full appreciation and gratitude. You won’t regret it. Fall in love with yourself again!

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“You don’t have to be NEEDED to be LOVED.” -Colette Baron-Reid

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“Stay in your lane and make it a great time…

Do your best in all things…

In full authenticity/alignment…

Stop attaching negative perceptions and meanings…

Just observe and adapt in a way that isn’t attaching.

That…is Internal Freedom and Existing in Love”

-Jordan Douglas

Amen! My Lord always Provides even when I can’t see through the fog and chaos and darkness of my Free Will choices of self deception and self betrayal and self abandonment and self rejection. I serve a mighty God and he taught me how to love in a way no human ever could. He is worthy of ALL our praise! Thank you, God! Nothing compares to you.

[theindomitablewoman]

Amidst the storms, she find the peace, and the joy, and beauty. She is Indomitable.

A neurodivergent woman, called by God to help other women through the self-help and support she had to learn, cultivate, protect, nurture and grow within herself, through the power of unconditional love through faith in the truth, light, and love she only learned from God.

She. Is me.

She. Is enough.

She. Is worthy.

She. Is balanced.

She. Honors her truth.

She. Has boundaries.

She. Loves herself.

She. Honors herself.

She. Protects herself.

She. Brings value everywhere she chooses to be.

She. Has faith and trusts in divine timing.

She. Follows her inner peace and joy.

She. Is aligned with her Faith.

She. Is always doing her Best.

She. Is whole. All on her own.

She. Is creating a life worth living.

She. Is making the world a better place.

She. Is a daughter of the Most High God.

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Note to Self: I can't control how other people receive my energy. Anything, and everything, I say will get filtered through the lens of what is happening in their life and their beliefs. Just keep doing what feels in alignment with your purpose and values with as much integrity and love as possible.

[theindomitablewoman]

Amen 🙌🏼❤️

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[theindomitablewoman]

Anything deep…nothing in the shallows of small talk or inconsequential topics that add no greater value or depth than where you already are.

Flow with the current and accept the resistance through surrender to truth. The truth is, humans simultaneously crave…and are scared of…DEPTH!

Choose to go swimming deeper as you feel safe enough to explore and do so with an open heart and an open mind. Amen!

[perfectfeelings]

“Your naked body should only belong to those who fall in love with your naked soul.”

— Charlie Chaplin in a letter to his daughter, Geraldine

[theindomitablewoman]

The Indomitable Woman & The Most High God: A Dialogue on Faith, Pain, and Divine Alignment

TIW: Father, why is doubt so prevalent when I try to love through pain the way You love me? Why does my heart tremble when I stand in faith, yet suffering remains?

God: Daughter, pain is either for you to learn a lesson or to endure in faith, hope, joy, and love. But suffering? Suffering comes when you choose to doubt instead of learning, to hold on instead of letting go of what does not align with My will.

TIW: So, my discernment is off? Am I failing to hear You clearly?

God: Beloved, free will belongs to every human. You cannot control another’s choices. You are choosing to suffer by holding on to what I have already revealed as misaligned. The truth is before you, yet you hesitate.

TIW: How do I know that this isn’t a test of my faith? What if I am meant to endure longer?

God: "For I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, to give you a future and a hope." — Jeremiah 29:11

Faith is not about clinging to what is breaking you. It is about trusting in My direction, even when the road ahead is uncertain. You already sense the truth, yet you fear releasing what I have not required you to hold.

TIW: I understand now. I think of Job…

God: Yes, remember Job—not for his suffering, but for his faith. He kept Me first. He lost everything—his possessions, his children, his health, and the support of those around him—but he never lost his loyalty to Me. Though he grieved deeply, he remained steadfast, trusting that I, the Most High, would restore all things in My divine timing.

You have no control over My will, but you do have control over your alignment. Faith is not attachment—it is trusting that all will work out for the Highest and Greatest Good. Nothing happens without My allowance.

TIW: So I must choose… loyalty to You, or attachment to a human’s actions?

God: Yes, My child. Will you be loyal to My direction, or a human’s approval?

You can only choose to honor or betray the truths you KNOW.

"Love and fear cannot exist in the same space. Faith and doubt cannot exist in the same space."

Which will you align with?

TIW: Thank You for Your endless grace and patience as I learn. Lord, I find myself struggling between two seemingly righteous paths:

Martyrdom in the name of unconditional love, as Jesus modeled by bearing suffering for others.

Following my spirit-led Highest and Best self—discerning through intuition, conviction, experience, and even the wisdom of my body (nervous system).

Which is most honorable to You?

God: My Daughter, My Son was sent to carry that cross for humanity. Do not let His sacrifice be in vain.

You were not meant to carry the weight of the world—He already did. Your calling is not to suffer endlessly in the name of love, but to live abundantly, shining My light so that others may see and follow Me.

No more sacrifices are required unless I call you to them by conviction, not by obligation.

"You are way more useful to Me ALIVE! THRIVING! LIVING ABUNDANTLY!"

Be the lighthouse, not the lifeboat. You are not here to save people, but to illuminate the way back to Me.

Trust My lead. Let your:

Inner light

Peace

Joy

Presence

Gratitude

Fulfillment

Convictions

Intuition

Knowing

Guide you through the darkness.

Align with the LIGHT, not the suffering.

TIW: Father, my soul cries out in gratitude. Thank You for clarity!

God: "Be still, and know that I am God." — Psalm 46:10

It is always in the present stillness that you will hear Me clearly. When life feels overwhelming, quiet the noise. Seek Me in the silence.

You are worthy. You are enough. You are SO loved.

Now, love yourself with your free will as I love you—so that you may love others from a place of wholeness. Expand.

TIW: Amen! Thank you, Lord. ❤️

Reflection on This Conversation:

Faith is trust, not attachment.

Holding on to what no longer serves is not faith—it is resistance to divine alignment.

Free will is real.

You cannot force another person’s growth or choices. Accept what God has shown you.

Jesus bore the suffering.

We are called to shine, not to suffer indefinitely for others.

True surrender is obedience, not passivity.

It is active trust in God’s plan, not clinging to fear-based suffering.

Silence is where divine answers arise.

Be still and listen.

"You were created for joy, love, and abundance. Stop carrying burdens I never gave you. Align with the Light."

Will you choose faith, or will you choose fear?

[theindomitablewoman]

It's NOT selfish to live in LOVE and to allow GOD to direct my Life! Only those WEAK in FAITH would ignorantly call it SELFISH. It is both Honorable & Loving to GOD to blindly navigate the unknown/unseen/unprovable through FAITH. FAITH is GOD'S PROOF OF LOVE. -The Indomitable Woman

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STRENGTH & SUCCESS: -Truth/Transparency -Faith/Integrity -Awareness/Consciousness -Ownership/Accountability -Responsibility/Improvement -Equity/Oneness -Harmony/Inner Peace -Self Control/Discipline -Courage/Conviction -Discernment/Alignment -Commitment/Devotion -Consistency/Stability/Sustainability -Acceptance/Adaptation -Inner Authority/Autonomy -Sovereignty/In(Inter)dependence -Joy/Fulfillment

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Nikita Gill, from Your Heart is the Sea: Poems; "The Difference Between Alone and Lonely,"

[theindomitablewoman]

Amen! 🙌🏼

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[theindomitablewoman]

Sometimes we have to learn this lesson more times to honor that we have no control over OTHERS. Honoring that humans have "FREE WILL" and if God can't make them want to change their ways, the audacity we have to Think OUR LOVE can change their will. LOL. Wise people understand that honoring truth and needs trumps trying to get others to...others who are, and will always be, outside our control.