Relationship questions *u*
1: Do you have a crush at the moment?
2: Have you ever been deeply in love?
3: Longest relationship you've ever been in?
4: Have you ever changed for someone?
no but I do have changed my standards for someone... Some guys have tried to change me though and I was on the fence because I felt I was lacking something but I guess we always change a bit when we're with someone. We learn new things for starters.
5: How is your relationship with your ex?
I tried for ages to stay friends but he used to do what I call the "pop up man" / "postcard man" act where I don't hear from him for months, not responding and such, and then reappears to get very intense all of a sudden. And then disappears / gives me the cold shoulder. He used to say it was because he still "liked" me in that sense and couldn't be friends with me. Well, I kinda put a stop to it back in September because it just didn't work.
6: Have you ever been cheated on?
7: Have you ever cheated?
8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?
Erm, I was in a sort of grey area with someone I consider my ex while he had a girlfriend. But he wasn't known for cheating. However, after I distanced myself from him because he wouldn't be clear on who he wanted to be with (nobody likes ultimatums but they always show up at some point), about 6 months later I found out he was having a similar relation with an acquaintance of an acquaintance (yes, the truth always comes out). So I guess, he has a pattern. Even though he hides behind the fact that it is not strictly cheating (mainly flirting and making you believe it will happen the two of you together), just being on a side relationship. Weird, yes.
9: What's the most important part of a relationship?
I have honestly no idea. I'd go for honesty and respect?
10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
I like both but I always turn out to be in one of those with the wrong person HA.
11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?
12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?
13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
I regret saying "we're done" and not upholding my position.
14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
Well, kids shouldn't have sex. Teenagers however can as long as they are mature enough to have it, properly educated about it, and I guess really in love.
15: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?
Mmm yes and no. I do believe now that we all go through some stages in our lives and that some of them are fairly rigid or at least work like doors where you can't really go back once you've gone through it - because you've been through that or you're at a different part of your life. I guess it all comes down to the intentions / feelings between two people vs the practicalities of a relationship that can become as hard as a gravity for some couples.
16: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?
I believe that you can have a very intense first encounter (which can be negative or neutrally impactful).
17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?
I honestly don't know. I'm always wondering about that one. What I don't believe in, however, is going shopping for someone on the Internet.
18: What do you consider a deal breaker?
Clash of fundamental values or someone too religious.
19: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?
When you think you'd rather be at home or doing any other activity on your own than being with your date / bf / gf. Or, even though you love them very much, when the other can't make up his / her mind or take a decision to be fully involved with you. And of course, there's when they're treating you badly (duh).
20: Are you currently in a relationship?
Yes, with my PhD thesis. (no)
21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
mm that's my wish for most of my former relationships but as I said earlier, sometimes it just doesn't work out.
22: Do you think people should date their friends?
Mm I think the person is either your lover (lovaa), your lover and best friend or just a friend. I don't believe in friends with benefits. You can date your friend if you have romantic feelings for them... Not because it's winter and you're looking for something warm. I basically believe in what doesn't harm a friendship.
23: How many relationships have you had?
24: Do you think love can last forever?
Yes. I'll love my mother forever :) As for 'romantic' love (or something that started as romantic), I hope so.
25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?
Yes. I think it can heal people. Mainly I think that love (real love that is, whatever its nature), is courage.
26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?
27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
Don't sleep with that person because people around you are telling you you should be having sex by now.
28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?
Yes. If you're with the right person and at the right moment of your life.
29: What do you notice first about another person?
Either their hair or their nose.
30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?
mm i don't even know what's pansexual. But straight and bi sexually speaking. But who knows, for now I don't see myself at all in a relationship with a woman.
31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
It really depends because if it's your partner than I'm guessing you're in a relationship yes? Then, I'd say I'd try to help him/her. But I'm completely aware and know from experience mental illness can suck the life out of a relationship until there's nothing else but that and two miserable people.
32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
Yes but not a romantic one.
33: Do you want to get married one day?
Tough one as my own parents are in the midst of a messy /ugly divorce and have never been happy together in the first place. I want to say yes. But I have big trust issues. I wouldn't get married before getting settled with someone though.
34: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?
Bad idea hahaha. Tattoo something about you (not your name because it'd be odd) or meaningful for you. That's your body, you don't need to label it after someone else.
35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?
Been there, done that, no.
36: Are you still a virgin?
37: What's more important: Looks or personality?
personnality. Looks end up wearing off after the second date. or they get more detailed and more beautiful if the person has a great personnality.
38: Do you enjoy love films?
oh yes, these days it's the only thing that remain romantic contrary to what I see around me. (which is sad; I see more and more a variation of people getting married for taxes or not splitting up because they bought their couch / have friends together or because they have a good 'image' together - and I'm in my 20s...).
39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
mm let's see. No I don't think so.
40: Have you ever had a valentine?
41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?
Being with the right person no matter what the configuration is :)
42: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?
43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends?
Depends at what stage of your life you're at.
44: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?
yes but I don't show it from the start.
45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
No but I used to for one of them and then we cleared the air :)
46: Have you ever been "friendzoned"?
47: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?
I like Emily Blunt and John Krasinski for example.
48: What's your favorite love song?
Emiliana Torrini's "Fisherman's Woman" will break your heart, in particular the experience is stems from.
49: Have you ever broken someone's heart?
I used to think no but I think I did and I will forever regret having behaved like an immature hurtful brat.
50: If you're single, why do you think you are?
I know that I'm single 80% because I'm focusing on getting my PhD done (halfway through, yoohoo!) and 20% because I've let my guard up a lot after bad to very bad relationships.
51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy?
Never date either of those because if he's a douchebag, he's an asshole actually and if you see him as a "nice guy", then that's probably not who you want to be in a relationship with. Maybe be friends with him.
52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?
53: Are you jealous of couples when you're single?
54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?
55: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?
56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?
57: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
No it's not but I think if you're heart's broken, it's because you've stopped loving yourself or lost sight of yourself.
58: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?
59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?
60: What's your opinion on open relationships?
I wouldn't go for it, it's already hard to get to know someone and be intimate and comfortable / trust someone. /my opinion/
61: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?
62: How do you define "cheating"?
Anything that makes you wander because you want out, and that goes on for some time. Or being flat out in love with someone else (but is it cheating or just unfortunate?).
63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?
65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?
Yes. Where are the cuddlers honestly??? They seem to have disappeared!..
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