Connect With Fellow Non Binaries!

This is a blog network where non binary people can connect and start friendships and more! This is a gender positive, safe environment for non binaries. We accept submissions, inquiries, and any resources that could help our fellow non binary people. Any negative asks will be ignored.

[mildpartypuppys]

ive seen the phrase “guys, gals, and nonbinary pals” twice this year and it makes me so happy it’s rhyme and cheery and Good

[thenon-binarynetwork]

Hey all! I finally decided to take the plunge and come out to my family and friends as agender. I wrote this spoken word poem and made this video to accompany it, and sent it to them. The response has been overwhelmingly and surprisingly great! I'm so happy, and just want to share good vibes with anyone who is thinking of coming out, or who knows they definitely can't come out yet, there's a community online and offline and we've got your back!

-Britta

they/them/theirs or she/her/hers

[thenon-binarynetwork]

Name: Katryna

Age: 17

Looking for: Platonic relationship

I am genderqueer looking for any type of nombinary gender

Favourite show(s): steven universe, gravity falls, various anime, orange is the new black, 

Favourite food(s): pasta, most things with cheese, any pastry, japanese or thai food

Favourite band(s): //this question is HARD// arctic monkeys, chevelle, daft punk, fall out boy, panic! At the disco, i like a ton of bands ok i cant list all my favs

Favourite school subject(s): Im really good in english but i cant say i particularly like any school

Hobbies: drawing, cosplay, looking at stuff online to buy that i probably wont buy, tumblr, metaphysical practice

Pet peeves: //im gunna write more things i hate then just little pet peeves// bigotry (including acephobia), republicans, people who talk to loud, phone calls (TEXT ME OK), people being over intrusivr after being told to back off, being misgendered

Other interests: paganism, webcomics, dragons

Things you would like to do with your friend/date mate: (cant bold on mobile so ill just delete the ones i dont like)

watch movies together/hold hands/cuddle/talk about interests /become pen pals / 

[thenon-binarynetwork]

Name: Drew Age: 17 Birthday (Month/Day): October 31 Sexual orientation: Pansexual Gender identity (bold those that apply): non binary / agender / demiboy / demigirl / genderfluid / androgyne / bigender / other (please specify) / Preferred pronouns: They/Them or He/Him Country you’re from: USA URL: Parkinglotviolence.tumblr.com Favourite food: Soup Favourite movie: Scott Pilgrim vs. The World Favourite colour: Green Languages you speak: English Other notes: my blog is a side blog, but i dont have any nb or trans friends to talk about gender and stuff with

[tseoxx-blog]

All of my current PRIDE “doodles” for pride month because no one should be ashamed of who they are. Fuck what anyone else says.

 If there are any I missed feel free to message me or you can message me just for the hell of it I like taking to people. 

also I do commissions email me at [email protected] and we can talk it out.

[silversunpick-me-ups-deactivate]

Umm…

Is everyone clear on what’s going on in Russia with LGBTQ peoples. CAUSE YOU SHOULD BE. What’s going on is absolutely horrifically disgusting and it turns my stomach. Russia is home to people just like you and me except their government is telling them how they can and cannot live and who they can and cannot LOVE. This is heartbreaking. Ask yourself how you can help our Russian brothers and sisters. Lets not be quiet about this. We can all help.

Ways you can help:

REBLOG THIS POST.

VISIT allout.org This website will inform you of the chaos in Russia and other areas of the world where being gay is a crime. Help allout.org by donations and/or signing they’re demands to governments across the world for EQUALITY and PEACE.

BOYCOTT STOLI VODKA!!

LETS DO THIS BY THE MILLIONS.

[felicefawn]

For Russia. Full support LGBTQ.

[orzechowski]

when you say u support fem trans boys I hope you mean boys who wears bras or don’t bind or boys who have hair longer then their ears or shoulders or boys who wear fem clothing almost every day or boys who aren’t on t and/or don’t have top surgery or boys that never get called a boy by strangers ever. boys who have tiny figures or boys who have high pitched voices or boys who have no facial hair or boys who shave or boys who are told constantly they aren’t valid bc of how they look

I hope you mean boys who hadn’t made any transition. I hope you mean boys that are told my literally everyone they’re not valid. I hope that u mean boys that check every box on this list

[sidneypagget]

normalize using gender neutral pronouns and language with people who haven’t explicitly told u their gender. do it for the kids

[pardonmewhileipanic]

In other news, water is wet

Let the children be themselves

[aliearth-blog]

no fucking shit

[stancest-sucks]

‘trans kids feel better if they can be themselves’

‘dogs feel good when you don’t hit them’

‘you don’t feel hungry if you eat’

[bogleech]

People are making fun but we all know a horrifying number of parents actually do need to be told this and seeing it for probably the first time in their entire lives in an ordinary news outlet can get them thinking.

Considering how many people ONLY believe something once a scientific study demonstrates it, no matter how self-evident or common-sense it may seem, yes, someone did need to do this research and publish it.

Every time a study like this comes out people have this attitude like it’s a bunch of clueless, stuffy old scientists wastefully demonstrating something everyone “already knew” but the truth is studies like these are by people who passionately want to make the world better by systematically debunking common foundations of prejudice.

[stilesisbiles]

A lot of parents refuse to accept their children are trans because they think, ‘statistics show trans people are completely miserable, I can’t let my kid be trans!’, not realizing their kid is trans whether they ‘let’ them or not, and that it’s a lack of acceptance that’s the problem, not being trans itself. So, yes, studies like this very much matter, even though it should be common sense.

[basiliskhallward]

fun tip for cis people: instead of saying “back when she was a he” or “back before [birthname] became [preferred name]”, try not being a pile of shit by saying something like “before she came out” or “before she began her transition”!

[secretsofaginger]

Pls friends and thanks.

[chokkilissa-nahollos]

“before she came out” is so easy and preserves so much dignity, PLEASE

[iamthedukeofurl]

I’ve been wondering the best way to say this. Thank you. 

[sj-waluigi]

Support bi kids in same gender relationships. Support bi kids in other gender relationships. Support bi kids who are out. Support bi kids who are in the closet. Support bi kids who have a stronger preference for one gender.

Support bi kids.

[doodlelust]

In solidarity, I made some Pride crystals. I tried to cover some of the major ones I’ve seen. You’re totally welcome to save the ones I made to your computer for your own personal use, or if you’d like to make your own with your preferred colors and your flag you can download the file from my Gumroad. Just enter a “0″ and you can download it for free and personalize it as much as you like- and feel free to reblog this with your own image + added modifications to anyone else who may want to use them: https://gumroad.com/l/XIuXf

I’m proud to be Bisexual, though it’s only been a handful of years since I came into acceptance of that, and even more recent since I’ve become more open about it. Know that through all the hardship and hopelessness, you matter. You are not broken, you are valued, and you are wonderful.

I reblogged a post of helpful links and sources if you want to help or need support just below this one, and you can always send me an ask if you need. Keep fighting the good fight ❤

EDIT:: Someone informed me that the Intersex flag I made before is not the accepted flag, so I read up and made a new one ❤ I apologize for not doing extensive research and realizing this mistake sooner, I hope the new one is an improvement. I was going to take the first one I made down, but I also read that there are some members of the Intersex community who feel most comfortable using it. So for now, unless requested otherwise, I’ll leave it up.

[silvershears]

I modified for ace & nonbinary for myself! These are so nice, thank you for all your efforts, @kirstendoodles. Stay strong.

[doodlelust]

Ace/Nonbinary combo, courtesy of @silvershears ❤   I’m glad I caught it! Again if you guys have modifications or flags you want me to share feel free to message me! I may have missed them ;u;

[thenon-binarynetwork]

Cis boy: *wears a dress and lipstick*

Y'all: yeSS GET IT!!! BREAK THEM GENDER ROLES

Trans boy: *wears a dress and lipstick*

Y'all: Soo…??? Are you a boy or were you lyin' to us?? :////

[anothergaystoner]

To all the guys binding this summer

-Jean vests are your best friend they keep you cool and cover your chest.

-Drink large amounts of water. Layers means heat and dehydration.

-If your binder is showing under your tank top, nobody cares. They’ll probably assume its an undershirt or none of their business.

-This wont be forever. One day you will never have to bind again and you’ll be able to swim, run, and wear what ever you want. Keep on keeping on.

[ftmconfessions]

Please stay safe in the summer, be careful of over heating. Know your body enough to know when you can and can’t bind.

[lukeewarm]

Signal boosting this now as guys in the Southern Hemisphere are in the midst of a very hot summer. Take care people!

[mamamidnight]

Just a general note; Please practice safe binding! Ace bandages are not your friends with binding and you should never use them for such.

[jii-chan]

And just in case y’all don’t know already, when you wash your sweaty binder (cuz it will get sweaty in the summer), do NOT put that shit in the dryer, just hang it up somewhere to dry.

[yourheroserene]

And if you you’re a transguy with no intention of getting top surgery, don’t SWEAT it, huehuehue. If you see binding as an indefinite solution, more power to you, dudes. Also, @pitifulmerthurobsession are nude binders an option for those who may just want to wear the binder as a “bare chest”? (I get nude is a privileged term for white people.)

[anothergaystoner]

@flavntstreetwear is coming out with their bareskin binder as well which comes in a varity of skin tones!

[yourheroserene]

Oh that’s good to hear! It’s a great way to get the flat chest effect and also be “legal” since taping the nipples doesn’t really hold the breasts in. It’s also cool for me, though I’m not trans, to see if going topless is comfortable for me or not, since I’m androgynous.

[anothergaystoner]

For sure. Though I would like to point out you should avoid taping as you could do some serious damage to yourself. Also nipples of every kind are completely legal in some places, like here in Canada.

[justanotherkidinspace-blog]

Just be aware that the ‘nude binders’ aren’t for wearing topless. It’s good for swimming and thin shirts or tanks, so that it’s not as apparent. But it’s not something you would probably like to wear as open chest or no shirt.

[anothergaystoner]

You can wear them without a shirt if you want though….

[pir8core]

@gc2b-apparel has nude binders as well!

[yourethebestjake-deactivated201]

here is your friendly reminder that

you don’t need to come out

that doesn’t make you ‘less’ LGBTQIA+

coming out doesn’t make you more valid

it’s not safe for everyone (most people, let’s be real here) to come out

‘coming out’ isn’t a single action, it’s a daily process

heteronormativity sucks but you don’t need to feel forced into challenging it with your sexual orientation

queer existence is difficult regardless

don’t out other people??????????

[aphobiclesbian]

friendly reminder for aces and aros

you do not ever have to understand your experiences with attraction

you do not have to label your attraction if it isn’t helpful for you

you do not have to use the split attraction model if it isn’t helpful for you

it’s okay if multiple orientations fit your experience

ex: demiromantic, quoiromantic, and biromantic

it’s okay if there’s no named orientation that describes your experience

you’re still valid

it’s okay to have a complex identity or mix and match terms to fit your experience

you are not obligated to come out if you don’t want to.

it’s not dishonest, and you are perfectly justified in doing so, whatever your reason(s) may be

it’s okay if there comes a day where you no longer identify as ace and/or aro

it doesn’t have to mean it was a phase or that you grew out of it

it doesn’t mean that what you felt at the time wasn’t valid

[fuckyeahfeminist]

Masculinity is not gender neutrality. Gender neutrality is not anti-femme. Androgyny is not reserved for people without curves.