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We need to remember what's important in life: friends, waffles, work. Or waffles, friends, work. Doesn't matter, but work is third.
Claude Monet by Thomas Bossard
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This interview with Ncuti Gatwa crossed my dash again, and I was reminded of how much I like it. Because it makes the rare Third Argument for representation in fiction, the argument I think is the best, and I'm always happy to see it. I quote:
At times, Gatwa’s casting in those projects has been dismissed as an exercise in ‘box-ticking’. Gatwa scoffs. ‘First of all, you don’t know anything about me. Secondly, tick fcking boxes! People need to be fcking seen. What are you going to do, tell the same stories? Have the same people fronting things for all of eternity? Representation and inclusivity and branching out… it enriches us all. How embarrassing. You people with your tiny mindsets – open a book, look out the window and then f*ck off.’ (source)
What do I mean by the Third Argument? Well, I'm not sure I've ever made a post about this directly, but as far as I can see it, there are three main arguments for greater diversity in popular media. The first two are the most common, and they go like this:
It is good for media to be diverse because it is good for people to see people like them on screen. That is, the beneficiaries are marginalized people.
It is good for media to be diverse because it is good for people to see and learn about people who are not like them through art. That is, the beneficiaries are non-marginalized people, who then (hopefully) pass on the benefit by treating marginalized people better.
These two arguments are the source of a lot of debate here on ye olde tumblr. Despite both being arguments for representation, they pull in different directions. What counts as 'good' representation for the purposes of Argument 1 often would not be good for the purposes of Argument 2, and vice versa. Authentic versus sympathetic. Ugly or over-sanitized. You see this debate play out constantly. It's really hard for a piece of - say - queer media to do both at once.
But these debates tend to leave out Argument 3, the one that Gatwa is making above. And that argument cuts through a lot of this debate.
3. It is good for media to be diverse because art needs variety. The beneficiary of representation is art itself, absent any social effects that may or may not be present.
For this argument, diverse stories are intrinsically good. It is good to make art that's not just the same thing you've seen a hundred times before. Putting the kinds of people who don't often make it into mainstream media into your art is an extremely efficient way to make that happen. It's not the only method, but it's a really good method.
For representation to be 'good representation' according to Argument 3, all it needs to be is interesting. A story you haven't heard before, at least not in that medium. That which counts as 'bad representation' by the lights of this argument are stock characters, like the Eternally Patient Mother, the Gay Best Friend, the Wise Black Advisor. Perhaps there was a time in which these characters were new, but that time has long passed. There's no art in pulling a bog-standard character trope off the shelf. Show us a new kind of guy. The world is infinitely diverse. You're not going to run out. Telling the same stories with the same voices for all eternity, as Gatwa says, is boring. Even if there was nothing else wrong with it, this would be. Art isn't supposed to be boring.
And that's why Argument 3 is my favourite. I do want the world to be a better place, of course, and I think art is a part of that. But the main job of art is to be good as art. And diversity in all aspects of the production of art makes art better.
"It's not about adding diversity for the sake of diversity, it's about subtracting homogeneity for the sake of realism." --Mary Robinette Kowal
“I saw that the camera could be a weapon against poverty, against racism, against all sorts of social wrongs. I knew at that point I had to have a camera.” – Gordon Parks
Segregation history, Gordon parks. 1956
Vivien Leigh in Romeo and Juliet, 1940
Eric Idle, Mark Hamill and Harrison Ford
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“In 1979, a memorable party took place when Carrie Fisher had rented Eric’s place while she was filming *The Empire Strikes Back*, but at the time, Eric was in Tunisia filming *The Life of Brian*. The fun began when Eric returned to London to catch a football match, only to drop by his place and find a lively gathering.
At the party, the energy was electric, with some iconic faces in attendance. Mark Hamill and Harrison Ford were already there, mixing with other Hollywood stars, and the scene took on an even more legendary air when it was revealed that The Rolling Stones were recording just two blocks away. Naturally, they made their way to the party, adding a touch of rock-and-roll royalty to the already star-studded gathering.” - History Pictures
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this site gets accused of being way too usamerican a lot but i wonder what the actual proportion is
are you usamerican
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no
some other nuanced answer (pls elaborate in the tags i’m nosy)
mikey madison for 98th oscars at dolby theatre, hollywood CA - march 15, 2026.
fanfic writers who type their works directly onto ao3 instead of copy-and-pasting from elsewhere have no fear. fear fears them.
people...actually write on seperate apps?? that's so extra bro just write it onto ao3 and save as a draft occasionally so as not to lose any writing
respectfully, it’s not “extra” (all you have to do is copy and paste).
ao3 literally advises that people copy-and-paste their works from elsewhere and to NOT write directly onto the site.
because unless and until it’s posted, ao3 does NOT back up works for you. meaning if your screen crashes, if the site glitches, if your wifi stops working, or if you lose power — anything — you risk losing the whole thing you’ve written.
sure, you can technically save drafts on ao3 (up to 30 days, if memory serves me right), but it’s still not something most writers do. most writers copy and paste their own works from elsewhere onto ao3 prior to posting (I say this with respect, this is a common sense).
store your works elsewhere, keep them safe, then copy-and-paste them onto ao3 once they’re ready.
THE DRAMA (2026) dir. Kristoffer Borgli
You have got to stop peddling the idea that you're brain isn't developed until you're 25 or in your 30s, which is what I'm seeing now. You have got to stop supporting bogus and debunked scientific claims that are used to deny people their rights and autonomy by constantly raising the threshold for who's considered an adult and capable of making important decisions.
Not only is it stunting our youth by taking away vital milestones that help them actually develop their brains and grow as people and adults, it's also being used to do things that restrict what medical procedures someone can consent to, like denying HRT and other gender affirming care to people under 25.
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20 somethings are not toddlers. Even late teenagers are not toddlers. It’s insulting and infantilising to treat them like they are, it teaches them helplessness and dependency.
Yard work, Michael McGrath
Harrison Ford as Linus Larrabee Sabrina (1995) dir. Sidney Pollack