The Sins of Sai

These are the thoughts that come to mind....from time to time...Its just the way that I feel...Watch me as I Sin away...Welcome to the Sins of Sai

[samuelernesto]

Afeni Shakur & baby Tupac after Panther 21 trial. Photography by Barbara Caress.

[jenroses]

Have I told y’all about my husband’s Fork Theory?  If I did already, pretend I didn’t, I’m an old.

So the Spoon Theory is a fundamental metaphor used often in the chronic pain/chronic illness communities to explain to non-spoonies why life is harder for them. It’s super useful and we use that all the time. But it has a corollary.  You know the phrase, “Stick a fork in me, I’m done,” right? Well, Fork Theory is that one has a Fork Limit, that is, you can probably cope okay with one fork stuck in you, maybe two or three, but at some point you will lose your shit if one more fork happens.  A fork could range from being hungry or having to pee to getting a new bill or a new diagnosis of illness. There are lots of different sizes of forks, and volume vs. quantity means that the fork limit is not absolute. I might be able to deal with 20 tiny little escargot fork annoyances, such as a hangnail or slightly suboptimal pants, but not even one “you poked my trigger on purpose because you think it’s fun to see me melt down” pitchfork.

This is super relevant for neurodivergent folk. Like, you might be able to deal with your feet being cold or a tag, but not both. Hubby describes the situation as “It may seem weird that I just get up and leave the conversation to go to the bathroom, but you just dumped a new financial burden on me and I already had to pee, and going to the bathroom is the fork I can get rid of the fastest.”

[cipheramnesia]

I like this and also I like the low key point that you may be able to cope with bigger forks by finding little ones you can remove quickly. A combination of time, focus, and reduction to small stressors that can allow you to focus on the larger stressor in a constructive way.

[aro-leo]

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[thesinsofsai]

The Hunger For More 🦍🦾🥷🏾 Just because the door 🚪 is closed… doesn’t mean it’s locked 🔒…And if your destiny is behind that door… are you really gonna act scared?? KICK THAT B**** IN!! #BANGLIFE #TheRiseOfTheApexPredators #InWuWeTrust #MoneyOnTheRoad #Miami #NYC #OHIO #IG #instagood #instagram (at On The Road Again) https://www.instagram.com/p/CoVV9zZPgvN/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[thesinsofsai]

DAMN RIGHT…We earned the right 2️⃣ do WHATEVER WE WANT- @bigooh 😤😤😤😤‼️ A LUTA CONTINUA🛥🍾🥂🥂🦍🦾🥷🏾🤞🏾🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼#BANGLIFE #TheRiseOfTheApexPredators #InWuWeTrust #LiveGooneyDieSaint #Nike #Jordan #Sneakers #JustDoIt #Fashion #Zimbabwe #Shoes #Miami #Sneakerhead #sneakerporn #sneakerfreaker #Bwood #BWoodKnows #DwayneRaid #RaidBabyRaid #Family #nikeshoes #jordans #instagram #instagood #kicks #kickstagram #ig #yacht #birthday #love (at Miami Beach, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/CmE34pzujum/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[thesinsofsai]

SO THANKFUL FOR ALL THE WUDAY LOVE‼️THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU‼️‼️ WE STILL OUTSIDE‼️ A LUTA CONTINUA‼️‼️‼️‼️ @tino_muchi YOU UP NEXT MY CAPTAIN‼️‼️‼️🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼 ‼️‼️ #ZIMBABWE #MIAMI #WEOUTSIDE #SOBE #SOUTHBEACH (at Miami Beach, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cld_PlYu4lr/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[thesinsofsai]

LIFE IS FOR THE LIVING!! And for those wondering… YES! WE ARE STILL ACTIVELY WINNING🏆🏆‼️‼️ 11.23 a 🦍 was born‼️‼️ I am so thankful for the year that I have had. Made a lot of progress and accomplishments and strides in the right direction.. Which will forever be FORWARD! CELEBRATIONS HAVE OFFICIALLY STARTED‼️‼️ LONG LIVE KING LOKO ZULU‼️ LONG LIVE GORDO FREDERICO‼️ AND FREE THE MEMBERS‼️‼️ #BANGLIFE #TheRiseOfTheApexPredators (at Miami, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/ClT5lWIOReP/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[thesinsofsai]

Heavily locked in🤞🏾but from time to time I’ll drop in🤷🏾‍♂️ Mr. Money With The Vibe😎 BIG #BANGLIFE #WeEitherWinOrWeDie #TheRiseOfTheApexPredators #Sneakers #Kicks #Nike #Nikehead #IG #kickstagram #kicksonfire #kicksoftheday #lifestyle #Fitness #Fashion #sneakeraddict #Shoes #wkuwt #InWuWeTrust #Vapormax #Miami #NY (at Trench Town) https://www.instagram.com/p/ClIFYcTtah2/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[awgexo]

[thesinsofsai]

😍😍😍 Oil in my head Everythin' I touch is blessed All I see is blessings And, no man can stop this Send them away Evil eyes don't watch me 'Cause all I see is blessings And, no man can stop this #DonMeals #Poke #Avocado #Foodie #GoodFood #Miami #SouthBeach #Cuisine #Salmon #Tuna 🥑 🍣 #Lunch #lunchbox #lunchideas https://www.instagram.com/p/Ck9usVJNZaj/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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[allblackerrthingus]

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[sumeiru]

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[dramnz]

[24kblk]

adrienne raquel, rain dance. houston, texas. 2020

[surra-de-bunda]

Missy Elliott & Erykah Badu at The Lilith Fair (1998).