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humandisconnected

autistic4autistic slightly codependent relationship

#sitting with my leg slightly touching his because I like the contact #<3

seacheesez

Ragabug

thewchr

Sometimes I forget bugsnax wasn't a fever dream and then I'm happy again

"Archimedes?"

many such cases

many such cases

damn girl how much cock are you hiding down there

softwheeliegirl

You're gonna take the princess out and make all her decisions for her, not because you're in charge but because because the princess does not deal in such superficial squabble, and because she is very busy performing critical royal duties like rubbing her eyes and yawning cutely and eating far too much for one person

syrenki

your daughter is a pleasure to have on the dashboard

bismuth-soup

Reblog if prev is a pleasure to have on the dashbord

doberbutts

So here is my problem with the "by virtue of being a man, you have to make your peace with the fact that some people will be uncomfortable with you, and thus you have to make yourself a safe person"

I've heard the same thing about being black. A lot of people have taken my very presence as hostility. I have had people escalate situations just because I am present as a black person in front of them. Before, and after transition.

You know what the problem with bending over backwards to make other people comfortable with your presence even though you haven't actually done anything to them besides breathe the same air?

It's never enough. You can be One Of The Good Ones for ages and at some point you will fail your Good One inspection and people will turn on you at the drop of a hat. People who you thought you had a good rapport with. People you thought were your friends.

I have *experienced* this, both online and in person.

The onus is on everyone to be safe people to be around. Singling someone out and blaming them for daring to share a demographic with someone else who has caused harm isn't cute when people do it to me because I'm black, and it's also not cute when they do it because I'm a man.

People are uncomfortable about my blackness all the time. I didn't magically stop experiencing racism when I started taking testosterone. So it's absolutely wild to me that people think "well, you know, with what you look like, some people won't want you around" is going to fly when I was explicitly taught *not* to tolerate that shit by every single one of my black relatives.

Someone doesn't like that I'm occupying a space? Well I'm not hurting them, so that's a them problem and not a me problem. That's how I've learned how to exist as black in white-majority spaces. Why do you think you can change the demographic and get me to agree with you?

doberbutts

Similarly scrolling past a post that was effectively "trans mascs should sit down and shut up and let other people do the talking" and I WISH that I was exaggerating but the post did literally use the phrasing "you need to sit down and shut up" and here's the thing.

Every single one of the women in my family whether they consider themselves feminists or not taught me to never tolerate someone telling me to sit down and shut up and let someone else talk over me. That my voice is my power, and that I should never let someone take that power from me.

Why do you think I'm going to tolerate it now?

doberbutts

Hey I just wanted to say this isn't a derail at all because it is my entire point. This mindset hurts trans people of all genders, racialized people of all genders, and all sexual minorities. Trans man 🤝 trans woman solidarity, I know y'all are affected by this nonsense too. You don't have to be afraid of derailing a post that inherently includes you.

humandisconnected

Whos this goober

thewchr

First time I've seen your art and thought it was a reblog those colors and the shading are perfect

dragon-in-a-fez

incredible things going on in this bathroom

naomiisdying

Made this as sfw as possible

Still, the dialog is so funny I couldn't resist

Edit: ok to give context to this adaptation. Spamton gets caught using makeup, which he's very embarrassed to reveal. Tenna is tenna like always, poor with words

Other edit: the repost hashtags yall are writting makes my day of how absolute creative and funny they are. Please keep em coming