inert gas

dyke-like misanthrope discovers fanfic and joins tumblr; comes out from under rock after 39 years. gender agnostic. music+book snob. angry vegan. internet weary.

[sapphling]

the old "polyamory is ONLY for people who have their shit together" sentiment in relation to like attention to your partner/emotional maturity/working through jealousy etc. is really funny because actually everyone should be doing that but monogs love to offload necessary emotional/personal work by just treating their partner like a dog instead. yes i know i said something about treating someone like a dog yes i know that made you horny yes yes blacked out and reblogged all very good dear thank you

[sapphling]

like the difference is more that if irrational jealousy is making me insane i have to principally work through it as an internal process and ground myself while also secondarily talking it out with my partner to seek reassurance and see if we can work out a better way for both our emotional needs to be met and if a monogamous person's irrational jealousy is making them insane they take their partner's phone away and then make a 20 part TikTok storytime about how they were the victim of emotional cheating

[meefling]

You Aren’t Boring I Just Suck At Conversations I’m Sorry: a novel by me

[phantomcat94]

I’m Not Ignoring You I Just Don’t Know What To Say: a sequel by me

[anartisticanomaly]

I Feel Like I have Nothing Interesting To Say So I Don’t Say Anything At All And I’m Really Sorry Don’t Stop Talking To Me: the trilogy.

[unofficial-autism-post]

Unofficial Autism Post

[maudit]

[json-derulo]

Whenever they gave us one of those "read through ALL the instructions before you begin!" trick assignments in school where the steps lead you on an increasingly ridiculous goose chase until the final one tells you to just put your name on the paper and turn it in without doing anything else, I was always like, "Okay, but what's the point? Surely the REAL world won't be anything like this." And then I grew up and discovered that not only is the real world often exactly like that, some people won't even read the first line of the instructions even if they make perfect sense. And these people are called "co-workers"

[thesoldiersminute]

Love Lies Bleeding 2024 | Rose Glass

[syngularitysyn]

Still feeling fucking fantastic

[atlantidea]

BUT I'M A CHEERLEADER (1999)

[evviejo]

CAITLYN KIRAMMAN in ARCANE 2x01 Heavy Is the Crown

[alien-theory]

Alien Covenant (behind the scenes)

[gaycatdad]

She should be at the club

[hussyknee]

The most basic, intractable fact about mental illnesses is that you simply cannot willpower your way out of them. The only exceptions to this rule are the ones I have, which continue to disable me due to lack of determination and other grave personal flaws

[ranni-thewitch]

divert all power to the funk engine

[stealingpotatoes]

i feel like i don’t post enough/any of my mel doods so here’s some of my recent faves

(links // tip jar!)

[lantuille]

not angry anymore :DDD Happy Pride everyone :33

[notkahel]

just like a prayer

[dailycaitvi]

If you haven’t, could you post the clip when Caitlyn gives Vi shimmer to save her life. Thanks byeeee

[morkowkx]