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Sucessful (my terms), Black, Mother, Business Woman, Full Service Sex Worker.

[naturalhairqueens]

Yes! Wow! Look at that Fro growth! DAMN!

[susiethemoderator]

What does she put in her hair ghatdamn

[stankyleg-deactivated2918973]

Link ze hair tutorial!

[tiastoy]

I have SO many questions!

[inritum]

reblog and make a wish! this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

[ghostdog07]

OH MY FUCKING GOD, IT’S BACK ON MY DASH.

THIS SHIT WORKS OKAY, I AM DEAD SERIOUS.

The last time I saw this on my dash, I didn’t think it would happen, so jokingly I wished I could go to a fun. concert.

AND GUESS WHAT, I WENT TO A FUCKING FUN. CONCERT.

THIS SHIT WORKS, TRY IT.

[deathklaue]

YOOOOOOO

I SAW THIS ON MY DASH THE OTHER DAY AND THOUGHT “ITS WORTH A TRY” SO I WISHED I COULD GET A 3DS

LITERALLY LIKE 4 DAYS LATER MY DAD SENT ME A PICTURE OF THE 3DS XL HE BOUGHT FOR ME WHILE I WAS AT SCHOOL

IM STILL FREAKING OUT ABOUT THIS

[doryishness]

holy fuck, I didn’t expect this to work, I was like psh, whatever it’s just a quick reblog, but I wished my Dad would actually respond back to me AND HE FUCKING DID A FEW DAYS LATER, I GOT A FUCKING TEXT FROM MY DAD TODAY WHO HASN’T SPOKEN OR RESPONDED TO ME IN MONTHS HOLY FUCK WHAT IS THIS MAGIC IT WORKS. 

[victoriaringsinyourears]

I WANTED TO SEE MY BOYFRIEND AND I DIDN’T THINK I’D GET DAYS OFF BUT THIS WEEKEND I’M HEADING UP THERE??? THIS IS CRAZY SHIT 

[lenshade]

SO LIKE I JOKINGLY WISHED FOR MY OWN LEN KAGAMINE AND THEN LIKE A WEEK LATER I GOT A LEN NENDOROID??? H ELP

[themixedbagofwhat]

WTF OKAY SO THIS SHOT ACTUALLY WORKS BECAUSE WHEN I WISHED, I HAD WISHED MY CRUSH WOULD LIKE ME BACK AND GUESS WHAT? I HAVE A BOYFRIEND NOW. WHAT THE HELLLLL?????

[wodkat]

ok I’ve said this before but IM DOING IT AGAIN THE FIRST TIME I SAW THIS, MY WISH DID COME TRUE SO I REBLOGED AGAIN AND SAID IT IN THE TAGS BUT THEN I WISHED FOR SMTH ELSE AND IT LITERALLY LITERALLY HAPPENED LIKE A COUPLE DAYS LATER WHAT THE HELL SO NOW IM WRITING THIS HERE FOR YOU BC I DONT BELIEVE IN THIS CRAP BUT STILL IT’S AN AWFULLY BIG COINCIDENCE

[acstiel]

THE BOY I FELL I LOVE WITH LEFT TO TRAVEL THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD AND HAS BEEN GONE NOW FOR 3 MONTHS. WE HAVENT SPOKEN SINCE BECAUSE I DIDNT WANT TO MAKE HIM FEEL TRAPPED TO ME AND NOT ENJOY HIS TIME SO I WAITED FOR HIM TO CONTACT ME FIRST. I SAW THIS ON A PARTICULARLY LOW DAY WHEN I WAS MISSING HIM SO MUCH I CRIED FROM THE PAIN, GUYS I REALLY LOVE HIM, SO I THOUGHT MEH WHAT THE FUCK, AND WISHED HE WOULD JUST LET ME KNOW HE WAS OKAY.

GUYS.

HE FUCKING CALLED ME 20 MINUTES LATER

20 FUCKNG. MINUTES. LATER.

GOOD THINGS DO HAPPEN. AND ITS IN THIS POST.

[juststrokemyglabella]

I wish for someone to leave something in my ask.

[adweeb-deactivated20160228]

OKAY SO I ASKED FOR A HEDGEHOG AND NOW GUESS WHO HAS A PET HEDGEHOG

[silver-couture-deactivated20260]

this is my favourite thing

[proqressions-deactivated2014021]

OKAY SO MY WISHES ALWAYS COME TRUE BC OF THIS HOLY SHIT

[urdreamgirll-deactivated2016061]

This really worked I wished for an iPhone 6 and I got a fucking iPhone 6

[4-02am]

HOLY SHIT IT ACTUALLY WORKED

[exotichoe]

@fuck-yo-feelingsss OMGG FATIMA MY WISH IS GONNA COME TRUE 😂😂

[bliss-folly]

BLISSFOLLY

[silver-couture-deactivated20260]

THIS WORKS, IVE USED IT SO MANY TIMES AND ONLY REALISE IT WORKS NOW THAT I LOOK BACK AND SEE HOW THINGS WORKED OUT OMF

[exxoticsugar-xo-deactivated2025]

Yo. This actually works lol

Reblog forever.

[ellielivesinluxury-deactivated2]

Wishing for 💰💰💰💰

[suretyler]

[whysperforsugar]

Not yet….

[thearctichoe]

fssw things i wish i knew when i started:

(these are all from my personal experience. i’m indie, mid-range, work incall out of my home, and am in a country where sex work is not illegal. ymmv.)

decide on an image you want to have. this is on every list for a reason. it’s easier to keep up a persona if it’s always basically the same, and you can adjust your image to attract the type of man you want as a client. i’m a natural blonde and lazy when it comes to my looks, so i went for what’s easiest to me: a fun, down-to-earth, easy-going student girl next door.

adjust everything to fit that image, from clothing to services to pictures to general behavior. my ad isn’t overtly sexual and my photos aren’t what a client would think of as “slutty”, but i mention that i’m bisexual (spoiler, i’m actually lesbian) to have something special to attract a client’s attention. during a booking, i don’t wear heavy makeup, and i dress in relatively casual clothing on top of my lingerie. i obviously try to behave as if i enjoy what we do, but never overdo it in a way that would shake my innocent-but-into-it persona. if a client asks, i don’t do this often, just for some extra gift money every once in a while. clients will notice if something doesn’t seem like it “fits” your persona, and that includes looking like you’re bored or too “professional”/etc.

demand money up front, and learn to never compromise on terms/safety. if you give in a little bit, douchebags will take advantage of that and press for more. “i’m sorry, but i don’t haggle about our safety / how much my time is worth / what i’m comfortable with. :)” tends to work just fine. be firm, but not rude unless warranted. you don’t want hobbyist gossip to be another thing to deal with.

if you work incall, hide everything with your real name on it, whether it’s first or last. don’t just close the bathroom cabinet door, hide prescription bottles in another room/closet/etc. make sure all mail is hidden or thrown away. got a trophy/medal/notebook/sticker with a name on it? HIDE IT. i don’t even keep my mom’s jewelry box out, bc it’s got her first name on it, and i don’t want a client to have to think about any names not matching the one i’ve given him. clients know it’s not real, but i don’t need to remind them.

again for incalls: get separate bedspreads and towels for use with clients (and sheets, if you take the bedspread off during bookings). no unpleasant mental associations during your free time, and you won’t mind possibly having to throw them away if things get too gross.

get gyno-approved intimate wash and cream to use between clients. don’t use regular soap! baby wipes are a godsend for boob sweat etc. 

write & save copies of your ad and standard response to inquiries that you can just copy and paste whenever needed. save them on your phone as well for easy on-the-go replying.

take notes on clients. name/nicknames, email, phone number, dick size (for choosing the right condom next time), what they wanted to do, if they used up the entire time they booked, if they tipped, if they wanted to shower (to know to have a towel ready next time), what you told them about “yourself” (to keep your lies straight next time)… anything you can think of. the fact that you “remember” all these things about a client will make them think they’re special, and want to come back.

(i use evernote for all my hoeing notes! i’ve got separate folders for ads/responses, clients/flakes/blacklist, and a basic calendar spreadsheet so i don’t need to mark sw into my rl planner.)

if you want a repeat customer, you need to appear interested in what he has to say, and into whatever you do with him. you’re selling a luxury service, and the service is acting. don’t let your sw persona slip even with regular clients.

[inritum]

reblog and make a wish! this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

[ghostdog07]

OH MY FUCKING GOD, IT’S BACK ON MY DASH.

THIS SHIT WORKS OKAY, I AM DEAD SERIOUS.

The last time I saw this on my dash, I didn’t think it would happen, so jokingly I wished I could go to a fun. concert.

AND GUESS WHAT, I WENT TO A FUCKING FUN. CONCERT.

THIS SHIT WORKS, TRY IT.

[deathklaue]

YOOOOOOO

I SAW THIS ON MY DASH THE OTHER DAY AND THOUGHT “ITS WORTH A TRY” SO I WISHED I COULD GET A 3DS

LITERALLY LIKE 4 DAYS LATER MY DAD SENT ME A PICTURE OF THE 3DS XL HE BOUGHT FOR ME WHILE I WAS AT SCHOOL

IM STILL FREAKING OUT ABOUT THIS

[doryishness]

holy fuck, I didn’t expect this to work, I was like psh, whatever it’s just a quick reblog, but I wished my Dad would actually respond back to me AND HE FUCKING DID A FEW DAYS LATER, I GOT A FUCKING TEXT FROM MY DAD TODAY WHO HASN’T SPOKEN OR RESPONDED TO ME IN MONTHS HOLY FUCK WHAT IS THIS MAGIC IT WORKS. 

[victoriaringsinyourears]

I WANTED TO SEE MY BOYFRIEND AND I DIDN’T THINK I’D GET DAYS OFF BUT THIS WEEKEND I’M HEADING UP THERE??? THIS IS CRAZY SHIT 

[lenshade]

SO LIKE I JOKINGLY WISHED FOR MY OWN LEN KAGAMINE AND THEN LIKE A WEEK LATER I GOT A LEN NENDOROID??? H ELP

[themixedbagofwhat]

WTF OKAY SO THIS SHOT ACTUALLY WORKS BECAUSE WHEN I WISHED, I HAD WISHED MY CRUSH WOULD LIKE ME BACK AND GUESS WHAT? I HAVE A BOYFRIEND NOW. WHAT THE HELLLLL?????

[wodkat]

ok I’ve said this before but IM DOING IT AGAIN THE FIRST TIME I SAW THIS, MY WISH DID COME TRUE SO I REBLOGED AGAIN AND SAID IT IN THE TAGS BUT THEN I WISHED FOR SMTH ELSE AND IT LITERALLY LITERALLY HAPPENED LIKE A COUPLE DAYS LATER WHAT THE HELL SO NOW IM WRITING THIS HERE FOR YOU BC I DONT BELIEVE IN THIS CRAP BUT STILL IT’S AN AWFULLY BIG COINCIDENCE

[acstiel]

THE BOY I FELL I LOVE WITH LEFT TO TRAVEL THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD AND HAS BEEN GONE NOW FOR 3 MONTHS. WE HAVENT SPOKEN SINCE BECAUSE I DIDNT WANT TO MAKE HIM FEEL TRAPPED TO ME AND NOT ENJOY HIS TIME SO I WAITED FOR HIM TO CONTACT ME FIRST. I SAW THIS ON A PARTICULARLY LOW DAY WHEN I WAS MISSING HIM SO MUCH I CRIED FROM THE PAIN, GUYS I REALLY LOVE HIM, SO I THOUGHT MEH WHAT THE FUCK, AND WISHED HE WOULD JUST LET ME KNOW HE WAS OKAY.

GUYS.

HE FUCKING CALLED ME 20 MINUTES LATER

20 FUCKNG. MINUTES. LATER.

GOOD THINGS DO HAPPEN. AND ITS IN THIS POST.

[juststrokemyglabella]

I wish for someone to leave something in my ask.

[adweeb-deactivated20160228]

OKAY SO I ASKED FOR A HEDGEHOG AND NOW GUESS WHO HAS A PET HEDGEHOG

[vermillionkill-deactivated20230]

worth a shot huh

[pyhry]

:)

[denim-queen]

WHy not?

[portlandvalentine]

NYC sex workers

There’s a cop using the name Thomas Carvan who booked a duo with two providers I know, had sex with (aka raped) them both, then arrested them. He had a reference named Lucy Luxe who vouched for him. He found them on Backpage. NYC workers beware! 

[portlandvalentine]

This is why you should stop listening to and spreading bad advice like “If he’s a cop he can’t touch you/let you touch him/take his clothes off/take his dick out/etc”. Cops have been doing this forever. Cops will do whatever they want and probably not face any consequences.

[tiastoy]

Check out @Becauseofthem's Tweet:

[diosanegra-deactivated20191210]

Attention sex workers! This guy has basically spelled out how to trick passing escort screening. Please be on the lookout for these tricks. Stay safe xoxo

[baby-polyglot]

Tips

[diaryofchylatte]

BOOOOOST

[wocmakeup2]

Beautybybless

[nothing2smile]

LMAO

[maaarine]

The Huffington Post: “60 Stunning Photos Of Women Protesting Around The World”

[marielxhearts]

Go girls go

[huffpost]

<3

[falconpunchyourmom]

Iconic

[micdotcom]

Powerful photos show just how big women’s marches were around the world

Hundreds of thousands of marchers gathered to make their voices heard at the Women’s March in Washington, D.C., on Saturday — but they weren’t the only ones marching.

Sister marches, hundreds more of them, were held in cities around the globe. See more photo from the ground

[xosunflowerdoll-deactivated2020]

When you believe in the overarching message but also aren’t about to let them sanitize who the fuck you are.

[afrosabi]

On God, Goddess, and all the Spirits

The Baiden Mitten is the BEST $50 I’ve ever spend in MY LIFE.

[tiastoy]

You were talking about this before and I ordered it! Thank you!!!!! Its getting rid of my KP and like refining and polishing my skin. 10/10 would recommended! !

[thefashioncomplex]

Lupita Nyong'o wearing Elie Saab at the premiere of Queen of Katwe in Hollywood on September 20, 2016

[raemonroeshow]

The Real Cost of Provider Tours

So often I hear men complain that “No good women tour XYZ city.” That makes me roll my eyes because I have to imagine that these same men have never sat down and tried to figure out how much it actually costs to go on a tour as a provider.

Break it down to one - two - or even three cities over the course of a 7 night tour and you’re looking at an incredibly expensive, laborious, and stressful endeavor. Touring providers have their shit together - we have to. 

If you’re a connoisseur of touring providers to your local city, my hat is off to you. While I do think you should establish a great rapport with a local in your area, it’s always nice to have regular lovers in the cities that I travel to.

If you’re a provider thinking about touring I’m going to break down some costs for you so you can really see what it takes to be a “touring provider” and why cancellations, NCNS and flaky clients can literally make or break a tour for us. 

So we’re going to use my current tour as an example and I’m going to do some speculation as to a few of my costs coming up for the weekend based on my previous trip to Boston (two weeks ago).

Leg #1 

Philadelphia 

Airline Ticket + Baggage Fees + Breakfast & Lunch + Uber to Hotel

$577.10

Hotel Cost + Tips for Bellman + Tips for Maid

$670.50

Dining Out Monday, Tuesday, & Wednesday(am) + Misc. Snacks & Water

$207.00 (Granted this is a little higher because I literally ate my weight in Hotpot two nights in a row but I like food)

Cab to Train Station

$12.00

Leg #2

Baltimore

Train Ticket to Baltimore + Cab to Hotel 

$105.00

Hotel Costs + Tips for Bellman + Tips for Maid

$349.30

Dining Out Wednesday, Thursday, & Friday(am)

$69.00

Uber to BWI

$21.00

Leg #3

Flight from Baltimore to Boston

$250.00

Car Rental in Boston

$186.00

Hotel Costs + Tips for Bellman + Tips for Maid

$1,110.76

Dining out Friday(pm), Saturday, Sunday, Monday(am) + misc. snacks & water

$221.00

Gas for Rental Car

$30.00

Leg #4

Flight back to Jacksonville + Baggage Fees + Breakfast & Lunch

$407.97

ADVERTISING ON EROS & P411 $570.00

Hair & Nails before tour & Misc Wardrobe & supplies $250.00

TOTAL COST ESTIMATED(Food is only Variation): $4,850.63

THE BOTTOM LINE IS THIS

When you NCNS, Short Pay, and Cancel at the last minute you are seriously compromising a provider’s ability to have a successful tour, not to mention actually come away with it in the positive and make money. There is a reason for a cancellation policy because we are IN GOOD FAITH accepting your word that you will follow through with this agreement because we are putting out OUR REAL MONEY to come to these cities to spend time with you.

NCNS and last minute cancellations are unacceptable. When you cancel same day or even the day before you seriously put in jeopardy a provider’s ability to afford to continue to tour. I have been on countless tours where I have broken even. Like, I paid X amount of $ to go on the tour and it was like a sucked all that dick for free because while the trip got covered I didn’t make hardly anything to take home. 

Do provider’s a favor - don’t book if you’re not going to show up. Don’t book if you’re flaky. Don’t book if you think that it doesn’t hurt anyone when you “can’t make it because your car SUDDENLY AND WITHOUT WARNING broke down a mere hour before the appointment”. 

So next time you’re complaining about how much a provider charges for her time why don’t you go suck your own dick. 

[blackwoolncrown]

Reblog to wish good health and blessings upon the Antifa who punched Neo-Nazi Spencer

You know, because everyone deserves a good life.