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childhood friend just liked one of my posts. Do they know this is my sideblog

ao3commentoftheday

would you?

sweet-dignity-pegususgirl

ao3commentoftheday

image ID: another edit of the same anti-piracy ad as above. This one reads, "bitch I might"

tics-anonymous

@wolfkid05

autisticandroids

every post i see that's like "if you're scared of being like [bad person] that's means you're better than them and won't be like them" and it's like. lmao. my dad used to have crying sessions where he would confess his fear of being like his mother and causing me to grow up to hate him. usually after he did something fucking awful, to redirect the attention to his own pain. the girl who sexually assaulted me had panic attacks sometimes about the idea of maybe being a rapist, making it impossible to set sexual boundaries with her without her freaking out. whether you're afraid of being some kind of bad person has basically no bearing on whether you are that way

autisticandroids

LITERALLY ANXIETY ISN'T AN INHERENTLY MORAL SOURCE OF SELF-CRITICISM. BEING AFRAID THAT YOU ARE BAD DOES NOT MAKE YOU GOOD IT JUST MAKES YOU ANXIOUS!!!

autisticandroids

#as a person with anxiety I find anxiety is often counterproductive to self-reflection#because you’re too busy spiraling over Bad Thing You Did to actually do anything about it#you need to break that tunnel vision in order to actually make the change#i don’t like to sit with my anxieties for that reason#sitting there feeling guilty over what I did doesn’t do any good#it just made me and anyone I hurt feel worse#striving for actual change and making amends is the best way forward#but you have to break the doom spiral in order to be clearheaded enough to do that#sa tw

literally you get it.

sunshinesolaic-deactivated20240

I don’t remember what I said the last time I saw this post. I really hope it was nothing bad because I’ve grown since I last saw this. Last time I saw this, this post sent me into a spiral. I was still deep in my idea that my suffering and obsessions were necessary in order to prove that I was a good person. I thought that they were evidence that I wasn’t evil because I despised those thoughts.

Since then, I’ve done more introspection and therapy. I’ve worked to recognize that it’s not the thoughts that make me a good person, nor my reactions to them. It’s my actions alone.

There are no thought crimes, nor are there thought virtues. In the end, it’s what you do that brings change to the world.

Okay great point about how you’re a horrible person and untalented and selfish and what not but have you considered that I love you

spiritunwilling

Hmm. Experiencing the averse affects of consuming large amounts of cocaine right about now

spiritunwilling

*CAFFEINE

#OSHEISHDHSH

intj-confessions

Every writing advice thing ever: Don’t get bogged down in details on your first draft. Just write! ☺️

Me: How I begin this scene hinges on whether cheese sandwiches were served with mayo in the 50’s.

colourfullmess

have not seen anything more relatable today >.<

wufflesvetinari

let me link the world’s most useful twitter thread.

some excerpts:

there’s nothing to stop you from using the <get there> method for research details. in fact, i know many many writers who use it for just that.

ysabellious

thought about the frog show again at 4am

aidashakur

Once you become a certain age, it is your responsibility to unlearn behaviors that hinder your growth as a person.

maggiemayy

Man I cannot stress this enough. The “this is how I am, take it or leave it” attitude is an act of immaturity. We all have toxic traits that we need to work on and as an adult it’s our responsibility to recognize the damage that they can do to the ones we love. We all need to put in more effort in becoming better individuals.

xans-and-vans

big facts

lunarmourning

Jedidiah AA Martin with clicking vocal tics that make him sound like a clock send post

#YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES #YOU GET WHAT I’M SAYING. YES

aita-blorbos

AITA for raising several girls from the dead?

I recently (don't ask how) raised 7 girls from the dead and am now training them to become idols. Most of them seem to think I'm asshole, but I did all this to save my city from becoming culturally irrelevant, so I think I'm in the right here. Also they all kind of wanted to be idols anyways (pre death, if it matters) so it's not like I'm really forcing them per say...

AITA?

YTA

NTA

JAH

NAH

ESH

INFO

Voting ended onOct 30, 2023

#I forgot what this anime is called #but this is the GET IN THE VANNNNNN GOGOGOGOGOGO guy

Quick reminder that love is one of the best defenses against hatred

#Care for other people.#it’s one of the things you always have the power to do.

arienai

While I'm talking about writing I do want to rec two INCREDIBLE writing apps that have helped me immensely as a writer with ADHD

Stimuwrite is a little program that you can customize with all sorts of really rewarding instant tactile feedback, for example sound effects every time you hit a key, emoji notifications and balloons when you hit your custom goal (which can be as low as you want for low energy days), and neat animated backgrounds.

4thewords turns writing into an RPG and you can kill monsters via word count in order to complete quests and progress through what I personally find to be an interesting and fun storyline. It comes with all the RPG trappings like loot, gear, even custom housing (win more stuff for your house by writing).

I cannot stress ENOUGH how amazing both of these have been in terms of my writing productivity as someone with pretty severe executive dysfunction issues. Usually I use Stimuwrite for the instant feedback and then copy and paste those over into 4thewords for the gamification.

Both are small indie projects, Stimuwrite is pay-what-you-can-afford and 4thewords is $4/month but they are very good about helping people who genuinely can't afford it.

and AS THE CHERRY ON TOP, Stimuwrite's programmer is a trans woman, and while I'm not sure about the 4thewords team in specific, the game is FILLED with really great rep, they are literally having a lesbian wedding global event going on right now as I type this. So like. I like giving money to them more than giving money to a lot of other projects lol.

Anyway no neither of these projects have told me to write about them or anything I just want to spread the love. Go check them out!!

Stimuwrite

4thwords