My mama was a funny, sweet little lady unless you pushed her. I had many nicknames mostly nice but one of them in particular was pretty harsh coming from her. You see, I had a smart mouth. Occasionally, I would say things in a tone that was totally inappropriate, but I was a ridiculous kid. Mama would look at me with lazer focus, she would lower her voice and say, "Smart Ass Kid." The interesting part was, she was supposed to be scolding me. Quite honestly, I took it as a compliment. See? Ridiculous. Flash forward a few decades later, and I'm living with her as her caregiver. She was just overwhelmed by technology in a good way, like in an exciting way. I used to love to hear her talk about the smartphones, using the Google, the Amazon, and the Uber. And one day she asked me a question about something and I responded that I didn't know. Without missing a beat, with the most sarcastic tone, she says, "Why don't you ask your phone?" To which I responded by squinting, looking at her squarely in the eyes and said, "Smart Ass Mama." There was a pause then we both started laughing, to the point where we couldn't breathe. Ridiculous. It was so funny, just so interesting how our roles had reversed. We went from her saying, "I'm the mama, you're the daughter" when my sass was out of hand. Now, I'm the daughter, she's the mama getting scolded exactly the same way. I really grew to appreciate how our relationship evolved over the years, how I went from being a smart ass kid, to a rebellious teenager, to my young adult years that I even shake my head since I was still being...ridiculous. Continued in comments... (at Oakland, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/COqdfnFBqO4/?igshid=1inv2tmaebig8