Puppy.Rads

How did you find me, if you see this be prepared for some weird shit , online diary and porn

[dilfsonic]

“Never wanted to dance with nobody but you!”

[effemimaniac]

I'm so horny I could fuck a person I was attracted to #TRUE

[pocket-deer-belly]

one weird thing about the boys is that it fucking loves portraying the antagonists as freaky kinksters whereas all the heroes are like. really tame. about sex. and the things they like. fuck you wheres my main character scat fetishist

[pocket-deer-belly]

in the first season there's a bar where superheroes do hookups with their superpowers and it's portrayed as like, this bit of (slightly harmless) sexual depravity (moreso a hypocrisy between public and private personas) but the main characters are never shown to get sexy even to that fairly tame degree unless an antagonist is doing it to them

[pocket-deer-belly]

it portrays kink entirely as like some deeply psychosexual extension of the characters' true values and like yeah a person's sexual behavior can obviously be informed by the rest of them as a person but like. why is it here only the case when a person is a scary capitalist? why doesn't starlights' history of performing at pageants and being under the foot of her mom give her weird sexual feelings, you know?

[kaiserin-erzsebet]

People will correctly identify that heteronormativity is a problem in old historiography and then immediately turn around and insist that two people must be having sex based on transgressive social intimacy. Then say something like "because sex is a human need for fulfillment."

Ah if only there was more than one kind of normativity to keep in mind....

[kaiserin-erzsebet]

This isn't exclusive to same sex attraction or love either. Anyone who digs into Empress Elisabeth's writings enough will find pretty clear statements about being apathetic (or disinclination) to physical intimacy and fulfillment from totally separate parts of her life.

We can't assume that people's highest fulfillment comes from having sex with the people they love. I wish we could have more nuance about this.

[innerchildabortionclinic]

interesting kink assortment on the dash

[spicylilfruittart]

Pussy so wet you can hear it squish when you squeeze your thighs together.

[the-haiku-bot]

Pussy so wet you

can hear it squish when you squeeze

your thighs together.

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

[folly-of-alexandria]

Today a random clip of a F1nn5ter Q&A stream found its way into my feed.

Someone asked F1nn why it was that on her larger branded social media accounts she still listed herself as a femboy in some places while in more intracommunity spaces she more readily and comfortably identified as transfem.

Now, depending on who you ask that kind of question to you'll probably get a meandering answer on the complexities of how one defines their own identity. But instead F1nn gave a very quick and simple answer.

She gets less death threats or other general threats of violence from people when she calls herself a femboy vs calling herself transfem. It wasn't any deeper than that, and some people in her audience understood that, while others were confused that femboys were more palatable to cis people than transfems.

[folly-of-alexandria]

Another Clip of F1nn made its way across my feed today, she she mentioned a little bit more on the difference on being known as a Transfem streamer vs her old Femboy days.

"As soon as I came out as trans, it felt like everyone was an asshole and I had to adapt to it again...I don't know, people just don't like it if you're not [just] some funny guy."

[fleshengine]

It was kind of incredible and sickening to witness how the wider internet shifted its opinion on F1nn when she came out. I went from seeing clips of her everywhere, to seeing clips of her talking about coming out, to not seeing anything. Soon after all I'm seeing about F1nn is that she's problematic, stupid drama being spread around for no reason. Even other transfems flipped on her, criticizing everything she does, saying she's bad for the community because she's a sex worker and other bullshit. She set up a thing to try and help people in the UK get hormones and somehow got hate from trans people about it. (I haven't looked into it that much, I could not care less what's happening on those islands.)

I've talked about it before but F1nn5ter is a pretty textbook example of how trans women are hated more than "femboys" and how even other trans women can be transmisogynistic to those they deem valid targets.

[sorrythathappened]

sometimes i wonder if femboy culture (itself largely recycled from transfem culture) is a psyop to convince repressed trans women to not actualize themselves and instead embrace their patriarchal role as a non-person who can be used as a sexual object and discarded freely.

of course men can be feminine (and lots of them should try doing that more honestly) but the way people try so hard to erase every instance of trans women existing in favor of "just being a femboy" to the point of violence combined with the recycling... suggests a whole second thing is going on

[krakenneko]

let's be real that Is the true nature of "femboy" "culture", because the purpose of a system is what it does.

[innerchildabortionclinic]

what is the phenomenon of men on twitter finding a cute adult woman and going "imagine if this was a prepubescent boy bringing you your towel in ancient rome"

[innerchildabortionclinic]

manosphere insists it's embarrassing to admit you find women attractive as a man -> everyone confesses to being a gay pedophile

and other such political transformations

[too-sweet-meat]

I feel like I’m going through another downward spiral because of shit going on . It feels like I’m losing control of myself and my autonomy. I can’t even tell if it’s all in my head or real anymore. It’s like more and more that acting on my own moral code is becoming dangerous acts against the state and I just have to deal with that.

[omtai]

Man I miss free the nipple. Its getting warmer and we don’t even have free the nipple anymore

[gramarye]

feminism has backslid so hard in recent years people don't even know what free the nipple means anymore

[briwhosaysni]

To clarify for those who don't know, "free the nipple" isn't about going braless, it's about going topless

No shirt, no bra, completely bare torso, just like cis men are allowed to

It's about desexualizing breasts and "female presenting nipples" and not being criminalized for our bodies if we want to go topless because it's a million damn degrees out. This was a popular growing movement that was still widely known a decade ago!

And the fact that not wearing a bra is so discouraged and stigmatized that people think the movement was about being able to go braless under your shirt in public rather than about being able to not wear a shirt at all says a lot about how far we've backslid in the past decade

[nonexistent-triangle]

the irredeemable pervert is generally well regarded among their friends for their insightful thoughts and all around pleasant demeanour

[taelenne-deactivated20130920]

how do u know the porn you’re watching is totally consensual

that these women weren’t forced into this work

that these women are of age

that these women were treated properly on set

that these women are okay with it being released in the format it has been released(onto which website/etc)

you fucking don’t

[polarbong-deactivated20230616]

IF YOU’RE WATCHING HIGH-PRODUCTION PORN FROM MAINSTREAM COMPANIES, YOU CAN NOW BE CERTAIN OF ALL OF THESE THINGS. The major companies require an STD test every fourteen days, and some even require WEEKLY tests. They go to great lengths to make sure the performers feel comfortable on set and their actions are consensual, before and after filming.

They go to very, VEEEEEEEERY, perhaps annoyingly great lengths to verify age. If I lose ONE of my government-issued ID’s, I’m totally fucked fr work with these people. We also have to sign a LOT of paperwork, on video, while LISTENING to someone tell us “this will be published on the internet. is that okay?” to which we answer YES. More into amateur porn? That’s okay! You can still take measures to ensure that you’re buying safe, consensual porn! By buying it DIRECTLY from female performers on websites like MyGirlFund. Then, you don’t even have to give money to one of the big porn companies, which many of us understandably have some qualms with. It goes straight to her! I realize there are problems in sex work. NONE OF THEM GET SOLVED BY CONVINCING PEOPLE TO STOP PAYING US. YOU ARE STARVING SEX WORKERS WHEN YOU DO THAT. But hey, when have radfems ever given a fuck about the women they actively harm with their misguided efforts?

[what-even-is-thiss]

Apparently correctly spelling Hairy Porber in my posts criticizing it draws TERFs to my posts. I guess they have no hobbies or something and are just looking for people to harass.

[what-even-is-thiss]

I’ve found that there’s a surprising number of people who seem to search out specific words or phrases on tumblr to look for people to harass. Which is just like. Wouldn’t you rather be doing something fun?

[hamsterscooter]

a few days ago i was told that my mom outright said she loved my siblings more than me when i was a kid. and when i confronted her about child abuse she got two cats and named them the names i wanted to name my future kids (at the time) because she thought she'd never see her grandkids or something, while also saying what happened to me was "false memories"

i want everyone with weird cruelty coming from their parents and everyone who feels like they're making up for lost formative years to know they aren't alone and there's a lot of us out there figuring it out too alongside you. you've always deserved love, i pinky promise

[too-sweet-meat]

Is it possible to be so silly with my gender expression that I end up in the future just being a person. Is there a way to break down the lines between masculine and feminine; and women and men so completely that they become meaningless.

[ayagdos]

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[moonfox-mumbles]

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[pt: DO NOT TAKE THIS SURVEY]

The Same Dark Money Behind Project 2025 Is Bankrolling A Northwestern Study Recruiting Trans Kids

Project 2025 outright calls on conservatives to fund and manufacture more “studies” on the “negative” effects of trans-affirming care.

[reishi-wants-noodles]

guess we need to be circulating this psa again. This Is A Fucking Trap. Do Not Participate.