Decenter afabs

Joke bio on my joke blog. Won't give out any info about me fuck you actually

[transandrobitch]

There's so so so many great trans women out there. Problem is this is fucking tumblr.

Fuck you if you think all trans women are evil or males and fuck you if you think I'm saying all trans women are bad and evil

[analogue-dragon]

If a group "doesn't contribute anything to history/art/science/ect." Then that is an obvious sign that they are being erased, not that they're useles. A subsect of a larger oppressed group dealing with invisibility is not a good thing. Invisibility isn't helpful, it's erasure.

And his name was doctor Alan Hart.

Important notes from the notes:

• Also James Berry

• People shouldn't have to be useful to matter

[therapatical]

gotta be careful because TRFs can graphically describe how they want transmascs to be raped and their intestines hung from the rafters, but if any of us respond back with 0.1% of the same energy, we'll get banned. funny how that works

[transand]

a vicious cycle

[useless-stray]

gotta hate being affected by a unique intersection of transphobia and misogyny which is not allowed to be called transmisogyny but also isn’t allowed to be given any other name or else i’m evil

[han-the-human]

Imagine for a moment that we were having a discussion about trans womens struggles.

Someone says something like:

"Trans women are often viewed by society as being predatory men and this stereotype is incredibly harmful to trans women"

This is reasonable and true, it is backed by the material realities and experiences of trans women.

But what if someone responded with:

"Remove the word "trans" from this sentence and it sounds incredibly stupid! Women (cis women) aren't viewed by society as predators! Any trans woman who says she's been viewed as a predator for being a woman must not understand how the world works!"

We can agree that this is a ridiculous argument that ignores the reality of being a trans women in favor of projecting a cis-hetero-patriarchal view of gender onto trans women, while invalidating those who don't fit that framework.

Now take this and apply it to trans men.

[chronic-dysfunction]

a reminder 😒 that while i absolutely believe some trans fems are being unfairly removed from tumblr just for being fem.....

but far too many of them are actually doing shit like this, with blogs dedicated to hatred....in trans masc tags of all things, then complaining its cuz their fem. No. its not. and we arent letting you hide behind being trans as a shield while acting like garbage people to others.

[vexatiousvic]

Blocklist

@/rancequest

a) nobody is saying the first part in that way

b) nobody is saying the second part, ever

c) "kill all men" when talking about "trans inclusive"

Can you stop. Stop saying that. A trans man just committed suicide. And I bet people like this are celebrating. It's what they want and I'm so fucking exhausted

[chronic-dysfunction]

im sorry but um 😒 did your stupid ass just forget we were BORN WITH VAGINAS or something?

"your sexual assault rates dont compare-" wanna know why? 😃 cuz we are put under the statistics of WOMEN. Not trans men. CIS. WOMEN.

or do you just think trans men pop outta the vagina looking like men? like theres no way you are this fucking stupid. "until you get v carded" 😒 when i looked like a woman for 23 goddamm years before getting ahold of testosterone i assure you ive been "v carded" way more than you. i think the one who needs to sit way the hell down is you.

literally putting this low rez bullshit in the transandrophobia tag, girl you deserve the shit you get. some serious fucking audacity. seriously get a personality thats deeper than victim crybully.

[cadaverer]

transmisogyny isn't 'girl transphobia' but also transmascs can't use that term ever. transfems are hypervisible but also transmascs are the 'default' trans. transmascs are lazy whining children but they're also running every lgbtq+ society on earth. society is systematically transphobic but also sees trans men as men and gives them male privilege. people afab can fall back on their agab for privilege but people amab never can.

[kathartic-kat]

There was something that a trans masc friend told me that truly hit me so deep in my gut that I can't ever forget. This was before I interacted much with the online trans community or even other trans people much at all (outside of close uni friends).

It was that his whole life being seen as a women, he was never taken seriously, ignored, called whiny and dramatic. And now as a trans men, he gets the exact same treatment but from within the community as much as without. And he's expected to just put up with it because if he gets angry and fights back, he's immediately portrayed as the angry man who takes the angry hormone (testosterone). But up until that point, he's a whiny, insecure little bitch every time he dares to ever speak up about his experiences and problems.

[thoughts-of-an-dumbass]

seeing a post about a transmasc saying he feels spoken over and shut down by other queer people screenshotted and reposted by a transfem with the caption telling him to shut up really makes me want to hurt people. but yeah, trans men “really are the men of the community,” right?

[maxisamagician]

being ftm is crazy bc im going from “men want to murder me” to “men want to murder me” so it’s a lose/lose situation

[thepinkpestilence]

advising to read "whipping girl" by julia serano to understand trans men is like telling people to watch steven spielbergs "jaws" 1975 if they want to learn about sharks. both creators admitted that their works influence on that part is terrible.

[checkyourasianbias]

are we deadass

[transandrobitch]

[transmascfeminism]

Bioessentialism: “Women are better suited to child rearing because their neurochemical/endocrinological makeup makes them more nurturing” “Men are more logical and rational so they are often better at STEM subjects” “Women have a rich and nuanced internal emotional landscape, while men feel very few feelings by comparison and much less strongly”

NOT bioessentialism: “Spending the first 15 to 30 years of your life in a body classed as female exposes you to coercion, violence, belittlement, restriction of freedom, medical abuse, and relatively limited education and employment options compared to those who spend those formative years as part of the male class” “People seen as a girls have been proven to be silenced and belittled when making contributions in school or other public settings, leading them to being less assertive in a way that continues to disadvantage them later in life, sometimes even if they transition” “The vast majority of violence and rape in the world is done by cis men, so it makes sense for cis women to feel less safe around cis men than other cis women” “People born in bodies belonging to what’s commonly referred to as the ‘female sex’ will often have poor health outcomes related to their anatomy being less studied, whether it’s their reproductive organs or even other ‘non-sexed’ parts of their anatomy, since most studies in medicine, transport, health & safety are done on bodies of the so-called ‘male-sex’ exclusively”

[checkyourasianbias]

matcha originated in China about 1200 years ago, açaí has been consumed by Indigenous communities in the Amazon for centuries, and Dubai chocolate was invented by combining chocolate with knafeh, an 1100 year old SWANA snack.

western (usually white but seemingly not in this case) people love to call nonwhite foods suddenly becoming popular in western mainstream culture "industry plants" as if they haven't always existed.

this is orientalism.