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behold it is I tricky tony
not really this is going to be like my sideblog where I talk about like exorsexism and nonbinary issues and stuff specific to my nonbinary experience and such; the real trick was thinking this would be about tricky tony.
it's crazy how I can't like messages or posts on a sideblog; tony isn't allowed to like messages or comments it has to be my main blog.
maybe I should make one actual tricky tony post for the utdr fans that chance accross my blog
here you go utdr fans; you get an entire one actual post containing toby fox
Hi! (Sorry if this has been asked before, if so you can just reply privately with a link to it or something. Or just tell me to look for it)
I was wondering - can one be maverique in the sense that their single gender fits the definition for it, but is also other things? Like, I can describe mine with a bunch of different labels, but maverique being a specific gender...I think...IDK if that would reflect how other people feel about the label and its meaning
hi!
do you mean as in multigender or a single, more complex gender?
i mean either way my answer to asks like this is usually "you can do whatever you want forever", but i know sometimes people need more words to make it make sense, i guess.
essentially, maverique works like other genders. maveriques don't have to be fully, exclusively or always maverique.
it's always interesting watching discourse between topics understood to only regard "trans women and trans men" (or any of the several proxies people use for those words) as an abinary person bc like do they even know we exist? They probably don't take our existence and experiences seriously due to exorsexism and all, but even if they did the lack of a concept of abinary (and usually also nonbinary in general) people is never not obvious as hell.
Nonbinary people are so cool I wish our rights were taken seriously haha
Genuinely though it is so frustrating that nonbinary rights and exorsexism are not treated seriously at all, even from within the queer community. It sucks that there's not even an option for an X gender marker in so many countries, including in more progressive queer-friendly ones. It sucks that if enben want to get gender affirming care that we're advised to lie about our gender (or lack thereof) in favour of a more binary trans identity lest we jump through a million extra hoops on top of the million already in place for binary trans people to prove we're serious in order to get the care we want/need. It sucks that in most cases we're still forced into some kind of binary and I wish that the issues we deal with were acknowledged more.
So apparently if someone who restricts which people can reply to their posts reblogs one of my posts that same restriction will reply on their reblog (which makes sense as comments under reblogs send a notification to the person who reblogged) as such if you ever see this under any of my posts and are wanting to comment under my post
then you should go to the link of my original post in order to comment :3
we need less “trans women/men should be allowed in women’s/men’s spaces” and more “gender segregated spaces are inherently sexist and transphobic, and we should replace them with gender neutral spaces”
since the old version of this post was flagged for 'adult content'...
reblog this post if your account is a trans safe space or owned by a trans person!
along with that, reblog if your account is a trans non-binary spectrum safe space or owned by someone on the trans enby spectrum!
this is very much an impulsive thought I'm having in the middle of the night but I think one of the reasons why binary trans people perpetuate exorsexism is due to both the way binary genders are validated in society and some of the transphobia that they face. From the position of the binary trans person their gender is validated socially in large part from adherence to gender norms: a woman dresses in womanly ways, preforms womanly actions, and expresses womanly behaviors, and a man does the same but in a manly fashion; this is magnified in binary trans people as they are held to a much higher standard for validation due to transphobia. At the same time as this they face criticism from transphobes who maliciously "question" the validity of their gender (e.g. the whole "what is a woman" thing) leading many to feel to an extent insecure about their gender (which I think is a particularly terrible side effect of the malicious "questioning").
So with this in mind what I think happens with an exorsexist binary trans person is they see nonbinary people as both a threat to the validation of their gender (i.e. the nonbinary individual may dress in "manly" or "womanly" clothing; preform "womanly" or "manly" actions; act in "manly" or "womanly" ways all whilst rejecting binary gender) and a source of insecurity (i.e. if a nonbinary person can do all the things a binary trans person can do whilst remaining nonbinary then I think that this leads the binary trans person to uncomfortably re-consider (for lack of a better term) what makes them a woman/man; particularly when the nonbinary person engages in acts of transition typically associated with binary gender).
Now I am not a binary gendered person so like I could be way off but at the very least this makes sense to me.
I think this also in part explains the specific exorsexism they perpetuate; which is to say they create a set of androgynous "gender norms" that they hold nonbinary people to and deem nonbinary people who fall out of them as "invalid", and they question/doubt the legitimacy of nonbinary genders that fall too far from womanhood and manhood (at the same time as treating the nonbinary genders close enough to manhood and womanhood as "basically women/men" or "men/women in denial"). They also create a set of stereotypical "nonbinary actions/behaviors" which they expect us to exemplify. It's all a reflection of the same standards and oppression they are subject to.
this is very much an impulsive thought I'm having in the middle of the night but I think one of the reasons why binary trans people perpetuate exorsexism is due to both the way binary genders are validated in society and some of the transphobia that they face. From the position of the binary trans person their gender is validated socially in large part from adherence to gender norms: a woman dresses in womanly ways, preforms womanly actions, and expresses womanly behaviors, and a man does the same but in a manly fashion; this is magnified in binary trans people as they are held to a much higher standard for validation due to transphobia. At the same time as this they face criticism from transphobes who maliciously "question" the validity of their gender (e.g. the whole "what is a woman" thing) leading many to feel to an extent insecure about their gender (which I think is a particularly terrible side effect of the malicious "questioning").
So with this in mind what I think happens with an exorsexist binary trans person is they see nonbinary people as both a threat to the validation of their gender (i.e. the nonbinary individual may dress in "manly" or "womanly" clothing; preform "womanly" or "manly" actions; act in "manly" or "womanly" ways all whilst rejecting binary gender) and a source of insecurity (i.e. if a nonbinary person can do all the things a binary trans person can do whilst remaining nonbinary then I think that this leads the binary trans person to uncomfortably re-consider (for lack of a better term) what makes them a woman/man; particularly when the nonbinary person engages in acts of transition typically associated with binary gender).
Now I am not a binary gendered person so like I could be way off but at the very least this makes sense to me.
usually I see demigender people be like partially one gender partially agender, but when I call myself demigender (specifically demimaverique) it's like partially one gender partially another. And I wouldn't call myself multigender really either bc the maverine and the xenic parts come together to form one gender instead of existing as two separate things.
Non-binary people can't use they/them because they're only one person. Non-binary people can't use it/its because it's dehumanizing. Non-binary people can't use neopronouns because they're too confusing. Non-binary people can't use he/him and/or she/her because that's not gender neutral. Non-binary people can't use no pronouns because that's too hard to use.
No matter what pronouns a non-binary person uses somebody will get mad at them.
I'm not multigender because I think it's "radical" or special. I don't call myself a fagdyke because I think it's fun to say slurs. This is my gender, and it's just as real and personal to me as yours is to you. I am so tired of seeing posts which throw around the spectre of the boygirl fagdyke as someone to be mocked and belittled and not taken seriously, this idea that we are just here to have fun and "look like gremlins," the constant implications that we are choosing this lifestyle because it is fun and easy rather than that this is just a fact of our life which causes people (like you!) not to take us seriously. It's just blatantly transphobic. I'm sorry that you need to take shots at someone else to feel good about yourself, but it is disgusting behaviour.
Is that person transmasc or are they just on T? Is that person transfem or are they just on E? Is that person transfem or were they just assigned male at birth? Is that person transmasc or were they just assigned female at birth?
Is that person actually transmasc or transfem or are you just gendering hormones and body parts? Is that person actually transfem or transmasc or are you just equating agab with gender alignment?
Is that person actually transfem or transmasc or are you forgetting that unaligned and alternatively aligned enben exist?
Stop dehumanizing nonbinary people by calling us Thems.
Stop making posts about Men, about Women, and then Theys. We deserve to be called what our gender is, even if some do go by they/them.
Stop assuming we all go by they. I'm an It with neopronouns. Some folks use He and She. Some of us hate They being used for us.
transfem is not a synonym for a trans person who was amab
transmasc is not a synonym for a trans person who was afab
insisting they are is exorsexist and intersexist
