Xe/They, NB 23 Mostly just chilling occasionally scrolling through Tumblr minors pls don't engage 🏳️⚧️ Trans people are valid, if you disagree got out 🏳️⚧️ pfp done by: https://x.com/LittRawr
I cannot believe degendering pregnancy is a controversial topic. idk how it is in the west, but when I went to a doctor, told her that I'm pregnant and I needed to do blood tests and many other things she laughed at me and said smth like: "you a 180cm grownass man pregnant??? honey, pregnancy is for those who are women. if you're a mentally ill trans then you can visit a psychologist instead", and I told her that I'm intersex but she was like "not pregnant, *h slurs* are sterile and can't get pregnant, especially if they're a man like you are." I saw 6 different doctors and I was mocked by all of them, until my partner somehow made one of them listen, and she saw that I really was pregnant and being intersex didn't make me "sterile." if pregnancy was degendered and was replaced with neutral language I'd have easier time accessing healthcare. and now that I did, the doctors are still confused and they're like "yeahhh, they never taught us how to treat defects like you so let us treat you like we would treat *normal pregnancy.*" first of all why are you calling a human being a defect, and secondly, do you treat EVERY pregnant woman you see the same way? there are different kinds of pregnancies. not every pregnancy is the same. different people have different complications and needs. why do you treat intersex pregnancy as something impossible that cannot be helped and monitored. especially for pregnant intersex men (or phenotypical "man", idk how to say it). the medical system makes you feel horrible for being intersex and pregnant intersex man. they'll either deny your healthcare or they'll abuse you and force you into womanhood even when you never lived it.
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I'm his partner. I'm also intersex. and my face looks "too feminine", so let me tell you, the medical system doesn't take any of us seriously. while he was being abused for being a pregnant man and they called him a "mentally ill trans", I was getting laughed at for having long hair and for "not looking manly enough." we had doctors telling us to abort the fetus because we would fail being parents. they said that the child needs traditional mother and father, not "mentally ill defected anomaly parents who will make the child ashamed of being born." doctors did everything to make us feel awful about ourselves, however we know how bad intersexism, transphobia and queerphobic in general is in our country and we decided to ignore them. we're getting a lot of hate from people, mainly medical system and they're trying to "fix" us so that the child can have traditional mother and father. Gatsi would become a mother and woman, and I'd be a father and a man. people find it too hard to be normal about male pregnancy, and it's even worse if you're intersex because they'll tell you to abort your baby to your face because "you're a defect who will birth a defected child like you." (and there's additional transphobia because they immediately assume you that you're a "mentally ill trans", and while we both identify as agender it's still sickening how they treat him)
Need someone to genuinely try to breed me like i literally need them to whisper in my ear about how they arent going to pull out no matter how much i resist
thinking about being knotted again. i mean when am I not at this point? god. i just wanna be properly stuck on it... it feels so fucking good when it's in but I have to be so wet it just slides out... okay admittedly the copious cum lube I have to use to get it in me and also make sure I know my werewolf is breeding me is uh cough anyway part of the reason it pops out. I need a harness of some kind to hold it in me... sigh.
I'm not a man. I'm not a woman. I think... I'm just me. And that's the most terrifying thing I've ever experienced.
This has been… a wild and very emotionally challenging Pride Month for me. To cut directly to the chase, I'm transitioning into being nonbinary, and believe you me, that's both freeing and quietly terrifying. Watching almost thirty years of assumed personal identity fall away beneath you is, honestly, one of the scariest things I've ever experienced.
I've been openly a bisexual man for years, so I'm not not queer - but at the beginning of the month, a high-profile writer I've long looked-up to came out as trans. Obviously, I was super excited for them, but to my own surprise, I also felt a lot of envy. This wasn't the first time I'd experienced this, but I decided I should, in good faith, seriously inspect my feelings about my gender.
What followed was about a solid month of serious introspection, challenging my assumptions of gender about myself - it was easy to come up with justifications for my envy, but it was harder to believe them. I've never had an issue with being masculine, but I found that I wasn't as comfortable with the label "man" as I once was - and I wasn't sure what that meant for me.
Talking to many of my queer friends was helpful - and enlightening, knowing not only that I wasn't alone but that many of my anxieties were shared. Since then, I've told many (if not quite all) of my friends and my family - and almost everyone has been incredibly supportive.
The last time I publicly came out, when I announced I was bisexual, I waited for five years because I was worried about what friends and family would say. This time, I don't want to wait that long. I'm an enby, and I'm so nervous about that, but I want to learn. I don't know if this is an end destination for me or not; hell, I'm only just now realizing that gender is so much more infinitely complicated than I thought it was. But for as scary as it is, I also feel like it's the right thing for me, however it shakes out.
Oooh boy, I get this. While I may have realized that I was nb at a younger age (around 21-22) it felt like a lot. It's definitely a lot of change, especially as an enby that had to wrestle with how I never minded being masculine. It's a whole process, even now as I have been slowly trying out with some more feminine and androgynous aspects.
Hope your journey in finding yourself is a decently smooth one and that those you trust are able to help you through this. And hey, even if being an enby is just a step in the process into becoming something else, that's okay. Life is a journey with lots of different paths, and I am sure no matter how you'll end up I know you'll be a good person.
Hope this helps you feel a little better at least, and if you need someone to chat to, feel free to message me.
authors frequently disagree about how intelligent dragons are from work to work. a narratively interesting and also sexy way to weaponize this is to have a dragon who is supposed to be as smart as a dog and a beloved pet but is clearly sapient and wants to fuck her “owner”
you and your girlfriend should both be secretly fucking your dragon and hiding it from the other one because you both think the other will get upset with you
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