me and the boys

Icon by high-nyoon // https://uhohcabbyo316.carrd.co // names and pronouns https://pronouny.xyz/u/cabbage // Art blog: cabbages-art , selfship blog: pocketsizedlove

[uhohcabbyo316]

bye bye to this acc for reals now , it was fun :) 

[uhohcabbyo316]

made a new tumblr acc, mutuals can dm me here/on discord for the @ 

[uhohcabbyo316]

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[moveslikekeithrichards]

this isnt about like actual nazis & shit but can we normalize seeing something problematic & contacting the op about it. not every fuckup is a deliberate act of malice. sometimes people really dont realize theyre doing/drawing/saying something shitty. all the time i see people making callouts & “warning” everyone about people over one unfortunate drawing or a single poor word choice & its like. yeah its shitty and yeah being ignorant isnt an excuse but it isnt that hard to be like “hey this thing was kinda fucked up” before turning it into a public ordeal. & also like its hard to know you fucked up if nobody points it out

like im not trying to make excuses for people, we all need to put in the effort to learn and grow and do better, but some of yall are just so thirsty for drama & it straight up is not productive At All. like that shit is so performative & doesnt accomplish anything useful 

[the-memedaddy]

me_irl

[shrublike]

sometimes in life you just gotta drop everything you were doing to draw Eijiro with a massive croc on his head, and that’s ok

Keep reading

[prozac80mg]

If you don’t experience delusions and you think it is even close to being your business to decide for delusional people whether or not to recognise their delusions as valid… die

[prozac80mg]

Who cares if someone on tumblr thinks they’re literally a fictional character. Who the fuck is that hurting? It’s so obvious that your care about people with psychotic symptoms is performative like you’ll reblog those posts that are like “support psychotic people!1!!” And then turn around and mock someone for thinking they’re an undertale character or some shit. Die

[midnight-spectrum-again]

If you call asexual people broken than the only thing that will be broken is your spine

[panicathesocialevent]

If you think aromantic people are missing something the only thing missing will be your esophagus

[midnight-spectrum-again]

Excellent addition!!!!

[ptsdconfessions]

Therapist Red Flags

Therapy is important and can be really helpful, but not all therapists are good at their job. Here’s a few things to look out for when you’re seeing a therapist:

Not listening to what you tell them

Ignoring confidentiality (except in emergencies)

Making you feel judged or ashamed

Ignoring or trivialising your needs

Consistently being late

Making fun of your needs / accomplishments

Being judgemental or critical of you

Not taking your feedback on sessions into account

Condescending facial expressions or body language

Ignoring what you want to do / accomplish in therapy

Talking too much about themselves

Making you feel like problems are all your fault

Being insensitive to your culture or religion

They’re making you feel bad about yourself

Using the phone or getting distracted during your sessions

Attempting to make romantic / sexual advances on you

Making you feel stupid or invalid for what you say or how you feel

Forgetting important details about you / your life

Pushing you too hard before you’re ready

You wondering if their behaviour is a red flag. If you’re looking it up then chances are you already feel uncomfortable in therapy. You should never be forced into seeing a therapist who makes you feel uneasy. There’s no shame in leaving and finding a different therapist.

[worm4brainzz-deactivated2026052]

overstepping physical or emotional boundaries

forcing you to do and/or say something that makes you uncomfortable

[uhohcabbyo316]

me: (posts charity)

everyone:

chair

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[ovur]

Hello shut ins, she theys, kpop stans, artists, infamous kinnies, anime dating sim players, egirls, and bisexuals

[caleblucas-blog]

Reblog to let your followers know you are a safe person to come out to.

[babyxdyke]

Reblog the shit out of this.

[maraudevrs]

Reblog !!

[cherishablematerial-deactivated]

!!!!!!!!!!++

[imbasicallyshakespear-deactivat]

*violently smashes reblog button*

[grape-nonny]

*JUMPS ON REBLOG BUTTON*

[mountain-dew-tickledpink]

PLEASE IF YOU NEED TO TALK TO SOMEONE ABOUT STUFF LIKE THIS MY LESBIAN-ASS IS HERE FOR YOU—

[veryblushyswitch]

[isopodbug]

Absolutely!

[pjobroadwayslut14]

:)

[mikie-the-kiddo]

Reblog!! :D

[k1bst3r]

[askstuff-forstella-andfriends-d]

Absolutely!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[somerandompokemon]

All are welcome

[thehugwizard]

Here we go!!!!!!!

[captainstormpilot42]

🌈

[jay-bee-me]

🏳️‍🌈

[mossdyke]

[movingforanewblog]

DEFINITELY. IM BI SO LIKE I SEE NO PROBLEMS ❤️🧡💛💚💙❤️

[pastel-rights]

As someone who identifies as bi who leans much more towards women, how can I not reblog this?

[snikkerrs]

as a trans man, i’m completely welcoming!!!

[petite-cosette]

Asenimo

[thebootydiaries]

me for 1 week after someone tells me i smell good

[luxatoid-deactivated20200723]

chipped

[abreathofatmosphere]

Man, this is such a perfect analogy. “Chipped”… Just damaged enough for it to show at times, but not nearly broken enough to warrant fixing. And so often does the chipped cup turn itself to show its undamaged side.

[arc-hammer]

someone put it in words

[urlocalfrogmammy]

i love this. this is a beautiful way of setting out how a lot of people feel

[yo-its-matt]

TODAY, IN RETAIL

next time you can just keep it at “no thanks”

[phonyrams]

grr was seing something ab this earlier but its totally valid to draw a transmasc character with a chest as long as ur not fetishizing it and its not like.. all the time. like bro i will draw a transmasc character with a chest as a coping mechanism. also if ur not transmasc its kinda sus but like,, when its all the time its no longer “woke and cool” its “you just see transmascs as this dont you”