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posts not on our main, either because they are heavy, angry, or dont match our blog theme

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our main is @buggle-404 go over there if you want to know about us. we are normally very nice. this is our side blog

we put things that don't match our blog theme here. there are also a few coining posts. reblogs about politics and negative sides of being queer/plural/chronically ill.

❌ big fuck off list: LGBT-phobic, TERFs/radfems, anti-mogai, anti-alterhuman/otherkin/therian, against non-CDD plurality, pro-headmate abuse. this list will likely be added to. instant-block if you follow.

THIS BLOG IS NOT SAFE FOR WORK. WE POST ABOUT SEX AND VIOLENCE. MUCH MORE THAN ON OUR MAIN.

also if you block this block it automatically blocks our main. so if you are only intending to block this blog and not our main, you'll have to manually go and unblock it, sorry

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

"But if we don't interfere they might hurt themselves-" Actively denying people basic bodily autonomy isn't actually harm reduction though that's just a different kind of harm. And losing your right to bodily autonomy is often even MORE traumatizing than the potential self harm would be. There's nothing healing about getting locked up and drugged without your consent

[k-wame]

[creature-wizard]

[Description: A divorce lawyer answering the question "do you believe in soulmates?"

He answers: I believe that whoever created the concept of soulmates should be taken into the town square and beaten to death. Or you should tell me who they are so I can send them a check for a couple of hundred thousand dollars, because they have done more to facilitate the demise of happy marriages than I could ever aspire to doing.

The concept of a soulmate to me is absolutely bizarre. To suggest that out of eight billion other people in the world, that there's just this one person, and they happen by the way to live within like the same town as you, where they went to the same university as you - what were the odds of that? And that's the only person you could ever have a happy, fulfilling relationship with. That's insane, folks. It's insane. And by the way, it's toxic. Because here's the thing: when you get married, society essentially tells you, this person, they're supposed to be your best friend, best lover, best roommate, best travel companion, best co-parent - that's a hell of a resume, guy. Like, it'd be shocking to find someone who fits all three of those things.

So what happens when you have this concept of a soulmate? And my partner, you know, they're the best co-parent, they're the best roommate, the best travel companion, but you know, they're not the best lover I ever had. Well, they mustn't be your soulmate then. That means that there's somebody out there in the eight billion people, that they would be the perfect one. And that's what the horizon that just forever recedes and keeps people constantly craving the next thing that might check all of the boxes. It's dangerous.

Look, we break in relationship, we heal in relationship. You're marrying a human being. They're just as flawed as you. They have great moments, they have awful moments, they have heroic moments, they have villainous moments. This idea that somebody out there is going to be this perfect angelic presence in your life, it is a fiction, and it is the siren song that's gonna send you right into the rocks of my office. /End Description]

[btc-official-deactivated2024071]

“do we think maybe a vegetable would cause less despair” still living in my head rent free

[btc-official-deactivated2024071]

[borrowmyshovel]

on my hands and knees begging people to stop treating transphobia as this strictly gendered thing where transfems only get the Predatory Monster version and transmascs only get the Brainwashed Victim version. Putting aside the erasure of experiences beyond the transfem-transmasc binary, it doesn't really apply even to those who fall within it.

Tranfems get treated like confused victims when convenient. Young trans girls are brainwashed by their liberal parents / forcefully feminised by the state because they touched a pink toy truck once. Straight trans women are gay men desperate to escape homophobia. Black transfems are victims of a jewish plot to destroy black masculinity.

Transmascs are treated as predators all the time. Transmasc youtubers are causing kids to mutilate themselves. Gay trans men are perverted women trying to convert real gay men into liking pussy. Straight trans men are lesbians committing rape by deception on pure, hetero women. Lesbian trans men are a danger to real lesbians. You really want this bearded man in the same bathroom as your little girl, just because he was assigned female at birth?

It's both. It's always been both. And the more we insist there's a pink transphobia for the girls and a blue transphobia for the boys, the more we let this shit go unchallenged, and the more it spreads, even within our own spaces. Stop ignoring it, for fucks sake.

[worst-egirl]

weirdly enough i think it's easier to accept non sexual nudity if you're a bit of a a pervert. like people think "boobs are too sexy, people can't be normal about them", and it seems like a compelling argument, boobs are sexy. but when you realise that other things are sexy as well, things like stomachs, thighs, feet, back muscles, and you can normal about them in a non sexual context, so there's no reason anyone can't be normal about any other part of the body.

[slashermask]

does anyone know when the internet just became one massive snark/lolcow forum and also how to make it stop

[slashermask]

its not like this is a brand new evil its always existed but it used to be contained. and importantly the 'power' it had was contained to a few people who were, while freaks, known to be loserish because they dedicated all their time to cyberstalking and harassing people online who were usually disabled or a minority.

and now thats just like. most of the internet. you cant even say 'this is a twitter problem' 'this is a tiktok problem' this is tumblr. this is your moms facebook. this is instagram reels. its everything. and when does it stop. does someone need to die for people to realize what theyre doing

[hemipenal-system]

no no trust me THIS system of categorizing people into one of two categories with no nuance will work perfectly

[hemipenal-system]

"but have you considered that MY system of categorizing people into one of two categories with no nuance isn't what this post is about"

[phantomrose96]

You can be talking to someone and she'll be like, "Oh I made a silly mistake. Women don't deserve voting rights teehee." And you'll be like, "What." And she'll be like, "Oh I'm sorry! That must sound so bad out of context. No it's this Tiktok meme where, if you're a girl and you do something dumb, you say 'Women don't deserve voting rights teehee.'"

And you'll be like, "That sounds bad." And she'll be like, "No no. It's totally not that bad. It's just a meme. Men say it too. Like if a man does something silly he'll be like, 'I am like those women who do not deserve to vote.'" And you'll be like, "Does that make it better?" And she'll be like, "Well there was one guy who tried to make 'Men shouldn't vote' a popular meme. But it never caught on and also he got yelled at a lot."

And then you drop it there because like, you're harshing the vibe.

[meowthiroth]

rate the fit

[anasabdin]

Graceful Defeat

[npd-culture-is-blog]

NPD culture is hating psych2go.

[star-mom-selkie]

[rotnik]

[chaos--themralds]

[inchwormcircus]

surprise surprise being told constantly from birth that you’re existing wrong can be traumatic

[dollbandcry]

how do people hatewatch things, i can barely find the time to read and watch all the things i actively want to, how the fuck are you putting time aside to watch an entire season of dogshit telly thats just gonna make you mad

[rotten-devil]

See no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil.

[pariambod]

Feasting