all lesbians are valid

positivity blog for lesbians, esp. nonbinary, agender, and unaligned lesbians. DNI if: terf/truscum/exclus/gatekeeper. no debating or questioning the validity of our identities.

[hayraan-deactivated20190920]

he/him & they/them lesbians… this one’s for u:

💝💞💓💗💖💘💕💝💞💓💗💝💕💗💞💝💞💓💗💖💘💕💝💞💓💗💖💘💕💝💞💓💗💖💘💘💓💝💗💕💞💖💘💓💝💗💕💞💖💗

[validlesbians]

lesbians who have lots of sex are so very valid!!!

[validlesbians]

lesbians who have sex rarely/occasionally are super duper valid!!!

[validlesbians]

lesbians who have never had sex before are beyond valid!!!

[sporecore]

lesbians… r good…. trans lesbians… r good….. nb lesbians…. r good….. he/him lesbians….. r good…… all lesbians…. r good…. if u disagree….. bye bye bitch…… dead!…

[validlesbians]

lesbians who fit the definition of bi but prefer lesbian? valid!

lesbians who also call themselves bi? valid!

there is sometimes overlap between the two, as not all bi people are attracted to men!

[1217deactivated]

non binary lesbians exist. non binary lesbians are valid.

[validlesbians]

you’re a valid lesbian

especially if you’re trans

especially if you’re nonbinary

especially if you’re unaligned

especially if you’re agender

especially if you’re a lesbian of color

especially if you have mental illnesses

especially if you have disabilities

especially if you use he/him pronouns

you are 100% a valid lesbian

[nonsensecontentonly-deactivated]

especially if you’re asexual

especially if you’re aromantic

[validlesbians]

you’re a valid lesbian

especially if you’re trans

especially if you’re nonbinary

especially if you’re unaligned

especially if you’re agender

especially if you’re a lesbian of color

especially if you have mental illnesses

especially if you have disabilities

especially if you use he/him pronouns

you are 100% a valid lesbian

[writerandstudent]

I’m a bit confused about the last one. Is that for people who are transgender but aren’t being their full selves for safety reasons?

[validlesbians]

That is one reason! Check out this post and this post for some more info on lesbians who use he/him pronouns!

[validlesbians]

you don't need to have been with a woman to know if you're a lesbian. so, even if you haven't yet been with a woman, you're still a valid and lovely lesbian!!!

[softandsapphic]

whether you’re cis, trans, nb, butch, femme, neither; you’re a lesbian and you don’t have to conform to any sort of standard

[dibidibidiscourse]

he/him lesbians? absolutely handsome. stunning. exquisite.

nb he/him lesbians? completely amazing. incredible. flawless.

trans he/him lesbians? utterly remarkable. fabulous. breathtaking.

[awkward-lgbt]

Nonbinary gays and nonbinary lesbians and awesome

[whatsnew-lgbtq]

Trans lesbians: wonderful

Nonbinary lesbians: beautiful

Cisgender lesbians: gorgeous

Ace lesbians: grand

Aro lesbians: stunning

Skinny lesbians: amazing

Fat lesbians: lovely

White lesbians: terrific

Black lesbians: angelic

Latinx lesbians: divine

Asian lesbians: marvelous

All kinds of lesbians are perfect in every aspect.

[officialsheila]

i hope every nonbinary lesbian has an astounding day!

[validlesbians]

lesbians who reject the idea of compulsory heterosexuality are valid! we do not have to define our experiences with this language.

[femlm-deactivated20190529]

if trans women say they’re lesbians, they’re lesbians. no matter whether they use he/him pronouns, are butch/gnc, have a masculine name, don’t want to transition, don’t tuck or shave or wear bras, are nonbinary, they are women, they are lesbians. if you can accept these things in an afab lesbian but not in a trans lesbian you need to ask yourself why. afab gnc lesbians aren’t straight trans men yes? then trans gnc lesbians aren’t straight cis men “calling themselves lesbians because they like girls”. stop saying that shit.