[vampire-nyx]

Sorry I went completely MIA I’ve been big on Twitter lately

[velvetvexations]

Hey, so if anyone in Illinois, up to three hours from Chicago, could put me up for at least a week I would really, really appreciate it. My friends' lease don't allow guests to stay for more than two weeks at a time and they've already put me up in a hotel twice. I'm a trans woman in a really desperate situation here.

[jacaelyx]

denying intersectional masculinity and the oppression of marginalised men for their maleness and marginalisation is racist and transphobic i am so serious right now

[moon--kit]

Abel doodles #3

[ellifuckingway]

unfortunately this idiot (positive) has been stuck in my head

[hummelimhimmel]

I kinda love this silly boy

[petitprincess1]

Figured I might as well post the leaked Fall Ou- I mean, Abel's part. Patrick Stump, I fucking adore your voice!

[evil-tman]

Call me transmisogynistic but I don't think "The transgender craze seducing our daughters" is about trans women

[evil-tman]

@crunchbuttsteak I'm delighted you asked! Since you can't be bothered to read, I'll help you a little:

1- Going to college (p.13)

2- Transmasculine influencers (p.15)

3- Chase Ross, a trans man (p.19)

4- The internet and FOMO (p.27)

5- DeviantArt (p.29-30) *worth noting that "Lauren" is also a trans man

6- Therapy (p.31)

7- Therapy, again (p.37)

8- A trans man, again (p.38)

These are all within the first 40 pages. The book has around 400. You can go read it if you think it'll prove your point, but I already know I could find the author blaming trans men a dozen more times. Nice try though!

[ftmtftm]

Here is the link to Chase Ross' video about being taken advantage of by Abigail Shrier [ X ].

Here's Ty Turner's video about the book [ X ].

Jammiedodger has talked about the impacts of the book [ here ] and [ here ].

The idea of "rapid onset gender dysphoria" is literally intentionally targeted against young nonbinary people who were afab and trans boys and the blame is often placed on social media and trans male influencers like Chase Ross, Ty Turner, and Jamie Raines. "ROGD" is considered a "social contagion" that is spread by trans men who are convincing "young girls" to "ruin" their bodies with hormones and surgeries.

This is in fact, one of the many cases where trans men are intentionally painted as predators and maybe we should listen to trans men speak about it.

[nvpengyou]

“are u okay?” no i need more money

[lunah-goodbye]

growing up reading fantasy books was such a bust cause your whole life you’re left wanting more from life and like there’s something missing and you’re just waiting for that missing part to begin but it’s never gonna come

[lunah-goodbye]

[redstonedust]

guy who is stuck in a timeloop but is too socially anxious to bring it up to anybody or change their routine just in case it turns out they're mistaken. like yeah you're pretty sure that it's been november 3rd for two weeks now but idk maybe that's the depression talking. it's fine.

[incognitopolls]

For this poll, assume the following:

You are home and not busy.

You are at your baseline energy level, i.e. it's a normal day and you're not extra tired or stressed from any atypical prior events.

The person in question is a good friend or close family member whose company you enjoy.

No plans have been made with this person.

If a friend or family member showed up at your door unannounced, asking to hang out/do something together, would you be happy about it?

Yes!

I'd feel conflicted

No, I would not like this

I'm not sure/other

Voting ended onNov 17, 2025

This isn't about a specific scenario, more of a general outlook difference. Anon's partner sometimes goes to certain friends' houses unannounced, and while anon's partner knows their friends well enough to know that this is acceptable, anon is always baffled by this because anon would not appreciate an unannounced visit no matter how much they like the person.

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We ask your questions anonymously so you don’t have to! Submissions are open on the 1st and 15th of the month.

[incognitopolls]

This is asking about food in general, not just "finger food"– think about foods that most people would likely eat with utensils.

Is it mentally easier for you to eat food with your hands instead of utensils?

Yes, always/most of the time; I'm neurodivergent

Yes, always; most of the time; I'm neurotypical

Only when I'm tired/drained; I'm neurodivergent

Only when I'm tired/drained; I'm neurotypical

No, utensils pretty much always come naturally to me; I'm neurodivergent

No, utensils pretty much always come naturally to me; I'm neurotypical

Other answer

Voting ended onNov 23, 2025

We ask your questions anonymously so you don’t have to! Submissions are open on the 1st and 15th of the month.

[shamebats]

There's this whole story unfolding on TikTok right now about this account that got popular — a woman in the US who calls up churches & pretends to have a starving newborn that hasn't eaten since last evening & asks them if they could help her out with a can of formula. Unsurprisingly, none of the ridiculous megachurches actually ever say yes, and the churches & other religious institutions that did say yes are getting lots of support from people.

But I just saw a video of a TT user explaining that they decided to do their own little social experiment — by walking up to drug dealers on the street, telling them there's a young woman with a baby who needs help with formula, and literally all of them immediately reached into their pockets. In this story, the OP did have a real neighbor with a baby who ended up getting some much needed baby supplies. Thanks to the charity of local drug dealers.

A lot of Americans are learning that their rich white Christian churches are less willing to help their communities than black churches, mosques, buddhist temples & apparently also crack dealers.

[streetkit]

put me on a leash take me for a walk (NONSEXUAL, I'M A LITTLE ANIMAL)

[streetkit]

unless you like to FUCK little animals...

[muttknot]

this is the worst vocal stim of my life and im not even joking. the urge to go “unless you like to FUCK little animals” is in my head rent free

[streetkit]

you hate my beautiful visage???? 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳

[bonesbeetle]

i take the visage for a walk

[streetkit]

MY POST GOT MARKED AS MATURE LOL

PRESUMABLY FROM THE VISAGE, NOT THE CONTENT

[streetkit]

staff thought it was too fucking scary

[reallyreallyreallytrying]

“average person eats 3 spiders a year” factoid actualy just statistical error. average person eats 0 spiders per year. Spiders Georg, who lives in cave & eats over 10,000 each day, is an outlier adn should not have been counted

[laerugo]

#tapping the reblog button with utmost care because i’m handling a historical artifact (via @malarkiness)

[mortimermcmirestinks]

holy shit OP is not only still active but is still making absolutely banger posts in this exact style 11 years later

[rue-nightly]

A 2025 update

[ghostboyravenight-deactivated20]

It would be cool if this website actually started recognising when it falls into another blatant TERF movement. Every single queer discourse we’ve had have all been TERF psy-ops infiltrating the community, and some chronically online queer people fall for it every single time without fail.

No, there isn’t a valid discussion to have about whether bisexual lesbians are valid, this conversation was started by TERFs. No, there isn’t a need to question whether asexuals are queer enough for the community, this conversation was started by TERFs. No, lesboys and mspec lesbians are not invading lesbian spaces, this conversation was started by TERFs. No, there isn’t a debate to be had about whether trans men have male privilege, this conversation was started by TERFs.

Discourse will be a lot easier to resolve if the second you find yourself entering a discussion that tries to invalidate a queer identity, question their oppression, or cause infighting in the community you remind yourself that “this was a conversation started by TERFs” and step the fuck away from it.

No, there isn’t going to be a single valid discussion within discourse about queer identities, there is never going to be a queer person that you’re allowed to punch down on, and no one in this community is taking anything away from you. If you find yourself believing that you’ve finally entered a discussion against certain queer people that will help the queer community, I’m sorry to say that you’re actually back in the fucking building again, and you’re sitting at the table with TERFs. I recommend removing yourself as soon as possible before they start turning on you, too.