._. @love-too - Tumblr Blog

Guys, once again, if you're a real person having a real blog, please change the default profile picture so that people don't accidentally block you

#I've seen so many of you with anonymous profile picture interacting #Which is great #but I've also been blocking as much of what I thought were spam/porn bots because of it #i literally get dozens of new followers a day and they're mostly bots #but the few that are not #please change your picture!!!#this has been a psa #thank youuu <333

textk4kira

I love you aro men, i love you aro transmascs, i love you aro sapphics, i love you aro enbies, i love you heterosexual aros, i love you cishet aros, i love you aro fems, i love you butch aros, i love you gray-aros, i love you demi-aros, i love you aros who have treated as predators by the rest of the queer community, i love you aroallos, i love you aromantic people 💗

spaceboi-brainrot

fully-embracing-my-autopsy

I feel like fated lovers is romance horror

aromantic-journal

"everyone should get more aromantic" can appeal to tumblr's sensibilities but I genuinely think everyone should also get more asexual. I don't mean everyone stop having sex, what I mean is

Sex is not essential. You can live without it. Full stop.

Not having sex isn't shameful or a sign of failure. It also doesn't make anyone boring.

You are not entitled to having sex with anybody and nobody is entitled to having sex with you.

Sex is not what makes someone an adult.

Nobody's worth is defined by how much sex they have or don't have.

Sex is not equally important to everyone.

You can have fulfilling and happy relationships without sex.

You should only have sex on your own terms, not because you feel like you owe it to someone, or because you feel like you'd be incomplete without it.

Know your boundaries around sex and be firm about them. Know how to respect other people's boundaries.

The previous point also applies when it comes to discussing sex. If someone doesn't wanna talk about it or hear about it you have to back down.

Anything can be sexual but not everything has to be sexual.

oneswordstyle

Im like if a fuckboy was raised catholic and touch averse

wifegideonnav

“bits to use in everyday conversations”

animentality

stsebastiens

ayesha is the realest motherfucker who ever liveddddd

aro-culture-is

Alloplatonic aro culture is being so in love with my best friend. Not in a romantic way ofc but that is the love of my life and no one will ever understand me like they do

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stephexmachina

when i was a kid i was so mad all the time bc i thought someday i'd have to be somebody's wife i didn't know it was optional. is everybody reminding the young girls in their lives that it's optional.

stephexmachina

AND SO IS BEING SOMEBODY'S MOTHER‼️

stonegoddex

what if we admitted to each other that it's not always really romance that we want. What if we admitted that what we're really craving is intimacy and society taught us romance is the only way to get it.

flowerbleedme

you can have sex with music or abstract concepts but we still haven't found a way to have sex with people

astronomical-bagel

god it’s so sad living in an allocentric world. There are so many relationships that are so complex and nuanced that are all put under the label of ‘romantic’ and immediately all the intrigue is taken from it. Like don’t you realize that these relations are actually ENHANCED by the fact that they are not romantic or sexual?

astronomical-bagel

NOOO DONT PUT THE CHARACTERS IN A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP YOURE TAKING OFF THE SEASONING!!!!

astronomical-bagel