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art, movies, books, and video games. bisexual, biracial, non-binary

[varghaxa]

Today, April 30th 2021, is my last day on this blog

This is reminder 4 of 4

I’ve made a new Tumblr, but I won’t be giving the url out publicly because there are a few different groups of unrelated people that I don’t want to be able to track me to my new space.

If you’d like to continue to follow my blog, please feel free to send me an ask or a DM requesting my new url! Though please also keep in mind that I might turn you down at my discretion

Don’t worry if you happen to see this after April 30th. I’ll still be using the sideblogs attached to this account fairly regularly, so you can ask for my new url at any time! It just might take me a while to get back to you <3

[varghaxa]

I am not back on this blog, just wanted to make a small statement

I’m steadily flushing out my likes, and I’ve encountered a bizarro glitch where Tumblr just... won’t.... let me unlike a post?? Like as soon as I click the heart at the bottom of the post it will immediately turn red again

I don’t know what’s causing it, but I’m pretty sure people get notified when that glitch happens -- which makes it look like I’m liking the post over and over again. Which is embarrassing

So if you see me randomly liking a post of yours from years ago, that’s why

[varghaxa]

And... that’s it.

Part of me is pretty sad to be leaving this blog behind. As I’ve said, I’ve had it for nearly 9 years. But stepping away from this space is the best decision for me and my mental health -- I’ve already been feeling so much better while setting up and spending time on my new blog

I deliberately chose April 30th as my cutoff date because this is day that I’m moving to a new city in a new state! I can’t even begin to describe how excited I am to finally be getting out of Texas haha

Today is a fresh start for me, both online and irl, and I’m looking forward to what’s next :)

[varghaxa]

Today, April 30th 2021, is my last day on this blog

This is reminder 3 of 4

I’ve made a new Tumblr, but I won’t be giving the url out publicly because  there are a few different groups of unrelated people that I don’t want  to be able to track me to my new space.

If you’d like to continue to follow my blog, please feel free to send me an ask or a DM requesting my new url! Though please also keep in mind that I might turn you down at my discretion

Don’t worry if you happen to see this after April 30th. I’ll still be using the sideblogs attached to this account fairly regularly, so you can ask for my new url at any time! It just might take me a while to get back to you <3

[varghaxa]

Today, April 30th 2021, is my last day on this blog

This is reminder 2 of 4

I’ve made a new Tumblr, but I won’t be giving the url out publicly because there are a few different groups of unrelated people that I don’t want to be able to track me to my new space.

If you’d like to continue to follow my blog, please feel free to send me an ask or a DM requesting my new url! Though please also keep in mind that I might turn you down at my discretion

Don’t worry if you happen to see this after April 30th. I’ll still be using the sideblogs attached to this account fairly regularly, so you can ask for my new url at any time! It just might take me a while to get back to you <3

[varghaxa]

Today, April 30th 2021, is my last day on this blog

This is reminder 1 of 4

I’ve made a new Tumblr, but I won’t be giving the url out publicly because there are a few different groups of unrelated people that I don’t want to be able to track me to my new space.

If you’d like to continue to follow my blog, please feel free to send me an ask or a DM requesting my new url! Though please also keep in mind that I might turn you down at my discretion

Don’t worry if you happen to see this after April 30th. I’ll still be using the sideblogs attached to this account fairly regularly, so you can ask for my new url at any time! It just might take me a while to get back to you <3

[fanzines]

An awesome 'What's More Punk Than The Public Library' t-shirt, which you can buy here. Made by the Mount Pleasant Library Friends.

[ladygriinniingsoul]

[yyshcul]

hot girl shit B) (only hot people can understand this)

[plainwallpaper]

oh FUCK YEAH

[asyipyip]

I can’t get over this lmaooo

[noblepeasant]

[catgirlhell]

ok, after actually looking up the term and doing some goddamn research (my goodness somebody on the internet actually decided to look something up before forming an opinion, dear god what a day), i can pretty safely say that everyone hitting this post with the “that’s just a friendship!” bit is wrong! and i can explain why! i myself didn’t get this initially! but after looking into it, i realized that it’s mainly due to the framework i was thinking in! Yeah, there’s actually merit to what these people are saying, this is stuff that’s been considered and these are indeed terms that exist! they were also coined by ace people specifically to describe their relationships! So what gives? What does Queerplatonic Relationship mean? well i certainly fucking didnt get it at first, but it stems from attempting to define a kind of relationship that there arent really words for in the standard english lexicon! the poster above me is a TERF, and wherever i see myself agreeing with a terf i also see that there’s possibly some flaw in my logic or understanding of the thing. Basically (mind you this is only some very cursory and basic research, just type the term into google lol), QPR’s are a way of defining a relationship that has many of the same obligations and aspects of a traditional romantic relationship, without any of the explicitly romantic parts that come with having a spouse or romantic partner.

the idea of living in the same place, or jointly bringing up children, and performing many other tasks as a kind of unit that society would often mislabel as something done by two romantic partners in a union of some kind (i use that term to loosely define an exclusive relationship, not actual binding marriage, though this can include such). the idea of the QPR isn’t just “friends”, it’s very specifically “individuals in a platonic relationship that perform a number of the social aspects of a traditional romantic partnership”.

like, be real for a second. if someone described their relationship with someone to you and said “Yeah we own a house together, we have a kid that we adopted and take care of, we decided to get a dog last week and we file taxes as two members of the same household.”, you wouldn’t look at that person and assume that they arent romantic/sexual partners of some kind, because... well, traditionally, that’s shit that married people do. getting hit with the additional “Yup! And we’re not romantically or sexually involved at all! She has a boyfriend that she visits on the weekends and I’ve never had a romantic relationship in my life.” would throw you for a goddamn loop! What would you even call that relationship? and that’s where the term comes from: an attempt to define a very specific kind of relationship that certainly can and has existed, but isn’t commonly recognized or talked about!

so i think everyone shitting on these folks owes them an apology, i know i personally do for making assumptions that clearly weren’t true!

[cannabisbutch]

Actually QPR was coined by aromantic people but asexual people do also use it!

[shadowkat678]

Finally I have a reason to reblog this after cringing every time it's come across my dash.

[toastyglow]

yknow, in the vein of that one comic where superman gets pissed at the shazam wizard for his bullshit, someone should’ve called out tony stark for yoinking peter parker, a teenager, to fight some avengers in an airport

idk, probably someone did a little bit and I’m forgetting it, but like,,,, idk could’ve been a whole thing :U

[rowark]

[volgotha]

ATTENTION TUMBLRS;

TO GET RID OF THIS:

DO THIS;

AND HIT REPLACE ALL

and enjoy editing your themes again! :3

[blazingjackdaw]

I agree with Fenris 🤢

@onionjuggler

[anxietyproblem]

[ankle-beez]

feeling very strongly about this concept art of Katie from Mitchells vs the Machines

The strong posing, the slight unhingedness of it all... really brings home that chaotic gay film student energy and I love it dearly

[youichi-kuramochi]

Why? Why would you say that?

S02E21 vs. S03E03