Jess @velmafangirl - Tumblr Blog

Re-parenting yourself is like: I will hold you because no one ever did. I will show you tenderness because all you ever knew was hardship. I will protect you when everyone else left you to fend for yourself. I know it’s not fair what happened to you. But I am here for you now.

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CHAPPELL ROAN The Subway (2025) dir. Amber Grace Johnson

If you didn't want me, YOU SHOULD HAVE JUST SAID!

Instead of FUCKING WITH MY HEART.

AND MESSING WITH MY HEAD!

And saying some no's are better left unsaid

It's like I'm PAYING all this RENT I can't AFFORD for TWO,

And now baby, the rent is DUE.

And I don't know ANYTHING about YOU

#cmat #spotify #lyrics #music #lesbian #wlw #feelings #mental health

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velmafangirl

You tainted my teens, and that's a shame

I still can't watch Spirited Away

Or open my hand

Some people take whatever they want

It's like I'm paying all this rent I can't afford for two

And now, baby, the rent is due and I don't know anything about you.

reasoncourt

Rent by CMAT needs to be in a museum somewhere it is truly that good

alghulnyssa

folklore/evermore songs as vintage posters part two [part one]

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impossiblysporadiccreation

For any kids:

You are not supposed to be afraid of your parents

You never deserve to be hit (not even lightly, not even if you killed someone)

No one has the right to touch you without permission, not even your family members, including your parents

Your parents can love you and still hurt you, that does not make the hurt okay

Adults you trust can still be wrong

It's not normal for everything to always be overwhelming

If you are having a problem with any of these things, do your best to talk to a licensed therapist (if they are licensed therapists they legally cannot tell your parents your personal information)

You deserve happiness

You deserve privacy

You deserve to feel good

You are not alone in your struggles

Your struggles are valid, no matter how small they are

You deserve love and kindness

You deserve to be surrounded by people who love you and care for you

Edit: lots of people are commenting saying that therapists can and do tell parents information about what their child says in therapy, the legality of this depends on your age and what type of information it is. Here is what the American Psychological Association says about it

Discussing confidentially with your therapist beforehand is a good idea so you know how your specific therapist feels, but it's horrible that that's something you have to do. You still deserve privacy as a child.

If you are in a situation where you can't tell your therapist something, please get the information out of yourself somehow. I recommend saying it out loud if you can even if it's just to yourself.

Failing that, write whatever it is down and get rid of the paper so it's unreadable if you have to, it's better than keeping everything inside.

starlet-sky

Waiting for someone who’s chaos matches mine, and who’s presence is as peaceful as my solitude.

richkidcityfriends

who needs therapy when you can just make spotify playlists for every emotion you’ve ever felt

I've been waiting for the sun to rise where you are so I can tell you, you're a superstar

I've been waiting for our worlds to be in line so I can let you know that baby you're the rest of my life

#Spotify

voidgyn

Anyone else who generally has low empathy experience higher amounts for very specific things? Like, i normally don’t really care much about anything, but i experience a lot of empathy for people who go through things that directly resemble certain past traumas I’ve had even though there are many things that could be considered much worse that don’t affect me at all.