Venomous_Tia

20+ ;; She/They ;; 🇩🇰 ;; Durgetash brainrot ;; #carrim for my favoritest little oc/sona

[achesspiece]

in chess the queens can kill each other which is toxic yuri and the kings can never get within a square of each other which is doomed yaoi

[clickbeetle]

shoutout to whoever stole my amazon package containing nothing but a single pair of shoelaces.

[clickbeetle]

[taikerart]

crossover with Warhammer 40k 💀

sanctioned psyker & tech-priest (they are both chaos cultists)

[sharrrrknight]

Yknow the lil fanfic trope where a character, usually non-human, purrs like a cat. In this case it would obviously be Rocky but what if it was Grace instead hear me out-

[itwasabeautifulwebbing]

modern AU enver gortash absolutely owns stock in apple and openAI and palantir and tesla, but there are zero smart devices in his home. his security system is closed-circuit and he uses a refurbished NOKIA brick phone. he builds and maintains his own private servers. he drives a stick shift rolls-royce.

[redtuple]

Take a load off, chosen of Bane, its hot out there

[followfish]

Wise guys

[shapelytimber]

I cannot be trusted with a silly villain duo (gay)

The horrible doomed yaoi got me who's surprised-

how do you expect me not to love the terrible horrible freaks with so much insane history. They want to conquer the world together, one wants to share a reign as kings while the other is planning a romantic murder suicide. They’re both part of an evil magical girl trio, third one being an old man holding the candle angsting after his dead wife. One of them is a glam rock politician aging ungracefully, the other is the non binary red eyed white dragon. They did heists together ? They exchanged kinky secret coded notes. Oops the one with religious guilt over their affair got lobotomized and forgot it all ! The other thinks they're dead for months of course. And upon reunion realize they are a completely new person inhabiting the husk of his former lover. Is it tragic ? Or an opportunity to exercise his favorite activity : manwhoring manipulation ! A bit of both :)) I love it sm durgetash you'll always be famous to me

[catasters]

[monchursouls]

Smacka smacka smacka

[letterful]

[wolfythewitch]

all all all

[alleesaur]

the red herring

[penumbralwoods]

every time someone realizes they dont have to pick between being a boy or a girl an angel gets its wings btw. and also extremely loud cheering can be heard in the distance from me specifically

[penumbralwoods]

btw if you've ever wondered why i make posts like this and get really obnoxious about nonbinary positivity. this is why

and for all of yall that are still figuring it out or aren't getting the support you deserve:

[importantcatpics]

[rabbitkinglune777]

we bleed the same - we live the same

[rabbitkinglune777]

the joy and pain of the black experience is something only other black folks can understand in different ways, but ultimately we are united in our joy and grief no matter what. I tried not to cry drawing this piece because of the antiblackness I've been exposed to recently, I needed to get this art out.

[rabbitkinglune777]

and like, I did NOT wanna pull any punches with this. this is the two coins of the black experience from my own perspective. it's something I want to put forth bluntly. I'm not gonna hold the hand of non black ppl when it comes to depicting our grief but also our joy simultaneously.

[grungekitty-77]

Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.

It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.

Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.

Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.

Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)

Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!

You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!

If you want it in a simple phrase:

You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.

[grungekitty-77]

Fun fact, that was literally what inspired me to make this post!

[dovahbeat]

Adding my 2 cents worth that I learned from my time in DBT.

Guilt and shame are NOT the same emotion!

Theyre very similar, but theres a key difference. Guilt comes from an internal source and shame external.

What do I mean? Well, when you feel guilt, its because you've betrayed your own morals. Youve done something you view as bad, and you feel guilty for defying your own moral code.

Shame, however, is external and comes from our individual societies, and has nothing to do with moral codes (in the way guilt does). Shame comes from how OTHERS perceive you. You go to school, and wet yourself, you feel shame because the other kids point and laugh, they think less of you now. You may know it was an accident, and accidents happen, and thats okay! But because other people now think less of you for it, you feel bad.

Not taking away the points of OP, i still agree, just think it might be useful to distinguish between the two emotions because they are not the same.

[thinkingabout-girls]

the funniest moment in dungeon meshi is when marcille is having her nightmare and brings up her dead bird while also talking about her dead dad, saying “papa and pipi” and laios automatically assumes pipi is marcilles third nonbinary parent on top of her mom and dad

[ouppygirlcity]