To Lead A Lie Or Watch Your Daughter Die

It’s her or me, who’s it gonna be?

[venuscancer2003]

Welcome to my blog!🪼

Here I mainly post about anything that comes to mind, whether it be personal rambles or fandom related

The main fandoms I'm in include, but are not limited to ↓

Twisted wonderland, Witch Hat Atelier*, Lazarus, Sentenced to be a Hero*, Hikaru ga Shinda Natsu/The Summer Hikaru Died, Ersatz, Ti Guan Ci Fu/Heaven's Official Blessing, Link Click, Alien Stage, Vanitas no Carte/The Case Study of Vanitas, Pandora Hearts, Bungo Stray Dogs, Chainsaw man*, Yuukoku no Moriarty/Moriarty the Patriot, Sherlock & Co, Windbreaker, 91 Days, Blue Lock, Sk8, Zhā fǎnpài zìjiù xìtǒng/Scum Villain Self Saving System, Dr. Stone, Kimetsu no Yaiba/Demon Slayer, Jujutsu Kaisen*, A Series of Unfortunate Events/All the Wrong Questions, The Hunger Games, Jibaku Shonen Hanako-kun/Toilet Bound Hanako Kun, Dear My Living Dead, Jackpot Crash course, Dead Plate, Little Nightmares, The Sounds of Nightmares, Saihate Station, Stardew Valley, A Date with Death, Our Life, Undertale/Deltarune, The Amazing Digital Circus, Murder Drones

Italics are media I'm currently hyperfixated on; Strikethrough means I barely interact anymore; Links are to my side-blogs dedicated to that fandom; Red is anime/manga/donghua; Orange is indie animation; Green is book; Blue is podcast; Pink is video game; "*" is anime only

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I go by he/him but they/them is fine too

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DNI (general): Homo/transphobes, Anti-Semitics, Misogynists/misandrists, Racists, Ableist; DNI (fandom); HuaLian haters, ShiGuang haters (Liu Xiao x Xia Fei shippers IWC), Qiao Ling haters, Alien Stage "rarepair" shippers (MiziHyuna IWC), SherLiam haters, JohnLock haters, YoshiKaru haters, Angelo x Corteo shippers, BachIsagi + KaiNess + KuniGiri + ReoNagi + RyuSae haters (KaiSagi + RinSagi + AllSagi shippers IWC), for the love of GOD RinSae shippers, RyuSen shippers, Monix shippers, Makima defenders, Adam defenders, Karuto defenders (fans are fine though), Xerxes x Anyone shippers, Oz x Gilbert shippers

[venuscancer2003]

what do we think of

College AU! Jabber as a toxicology major / entomology minor

or am I just self projecting

[venuscancer2003]

Day 3 of turning my favorite characters transgender for pride month

Li Tianchi from link click!

First off, he and Tianxi are identical twins, are they not? And identical twins can’t be different gender at birth! Second off, he obviously passed as a girl when he disguised himself as his sister with no issue. Sure they might look similar, he had a wig and a mask, but the voice man…which brings me to my final reasoning besides #vibes. His English Va is transmasc! (However by this reasoning Liu Xiao is nonbinary since his English Va is so…yeah why not)

[shadowhunterandwizard]

Y’all I’m screaming

[venuscancer2003]

day 2 of turning my fave characters transgender for no reason except pride month--

Ju'unichiro Tanizaki from Bungo Stray Dogs! That's a binder right there folks, I don't make the rules.

[venuscancer2003]

I’ve never been one to leave fandoms just because they’re problematic if the media itself isn’t. Such as twisted wonderland, the fandom can be pretty messed up sometimes, but there are also really cool people! Same with the Gachiakuta fandom, and so on. There are many medias I’m into out there that are famous for their shitty fandom (cough cough TADC), but there are always enough tolerable people to keep the fandom from being completely insufferable.

But I think after alien stage season two is over, maybe even a month or so longer depending on how it ends/if the fandom has gotten worse or better, I’m leaving. I no longer want to associate myself with this fandom. The idiocy has gone too far.

Now who knows, maybe tomorrow I’ll look back on this post and be like “what the hell was I talking about? I’m so dramatic.” And delete it. But I’ve been stewing on this for a couple days, and I’m pretty sure about this decision. I have two friends irl who enjoy alien stage (maybe even three soon cough cough you know who you are) and I can talk to them about it to my hearts content because they aren’t homophobic, biphobic, stupid, media illiterate, ableist, misogynistic, etc. like most of the alien stage fandom has become these days. Of course, it’s not like I’ll be completely DNI-ing with the fandom— I’ll still be friends w my alnst moots, like some content, listen to the music, read the comics, etc. but I will no longer have it in my bio, nor will I repost/reblog/comment etc. I just want to distance myself from the fandom until it dies out, maybe in a couple of years the fake fans will have filtered themselves out.

It’s just so hard to find a sane alien stage fan these days and I’m sick and tired of it and honestly it’s disappointing. This wonderful series deserves better than this.

[venuscancer2003]

Windbreaker chapter 218 RUINED pride month

[venuscancer2003]

I just started watching given bc pride month and it’s been on my watchlist for months

It’s so cute so far! I’m honestly surprised it’s not more popular

I have work tomorrow so I’ll continue tomorrow evening (my morning free time will be spent with Witch Hat Atelier…)

[venuscancer2003]

Oh what the hell.

[unicornlover665]

Waiting for the next Wind Breaker chapter during the Suo arc got me acting like a dog that heard the treat bag crinkle.

The chapter drops. I consume it in five minutes. I spend the next three hours staring at walls and rotating Suo in my mind like a rotisserie chicken.

Then I look at the calendar and calculate the days til the next chapter.

I have endured hardships. I have survived difficult times. But nothing has tested my patience quite like having to wait in between releases during this arc.

[cafe-pothos]

There isn't even anything to analyse. I'm just. Sad.

[cafe-pothos]

Transmasc Kiryu is real. To ME.

[venuscancer2003]

bro i cant believe im not the only one who headcanons ts

[venuscancer2003]

My lgbt Wbk headcanons bc it’s pride month and I legally have the right to “shove the queerness down your throat”

Sakura— Pan. Uh no elaboration just pure vibes and self projection.

Nirei— bi , no preference . I thought long and hard about this one.

Suo— aroace, fight me.

Kiryuu— that man is a bisexual if I’ve ever seen one. Fem pref. Bonus points for Demi-boy/enby spec but that one might get me burned at the stake

Tsugeura— bi fem pref but oblivious. “Kissing the homies goodnight in a totally platonic way” except he’s not even suppressing it he just thinks that’s platonic

Umemiya— bisexual and in a loving relationship with Tsubaki ofc:3

Endo— gay or bi? I sure as hell can’t decide and neither can he

Takiishi— what if I said aro-spec hmm what then

[banana-milk-offical]

lets do a thing :3

rb with your name, orientations and gender, preferred pronouns, optionally some struggles or joy being LGBTQ has brought you, and some comfort/affirmations or whatever for the person before and after you!!!! why is this so detailed bruh. and tag peeps ig??

Hai! I'm Nyxon

I am transgender FTM, asexual, and omniromantic!

My preferred pronouns are he/they!

Being LGBTQ makes me happy. Despite being cloested, it makes me feel like what I am actually makes sense and I'm not just some weird ahh guy. I used to be a girl who was angry a lot of the time for no reason, which is ironic ngl

Whoever you are, you are valid.

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!

@writer-offical @mike-wheeler-offical @dying-pen-offical @itsuwari-no-kibo-offical @fay-offical @bees-in-a-beehive-offical @deductivelogico-offical @mossnrocksnmarshwater

[dying-pen-offical]

Greetings...I am Pen! ^^

I am [sexuality has not been unlocked], asexual, and nonbinary!

My preferred pronouns are They/Them. :)

I have a bunch of friends in the LGBTQ+ society...*stares*

Person before me: *deep breath* GET GENDER-AFFIRMED NYXON! HOW HE/HIM OF YOU! THEIR SO AWESOME GUYS LOOK HE/THEY HE/THEY HE/THEY BOY BOY BOY! AHHH THEY ARE SO ACCEPTED AND SCRUMPTIOUS WOWZA! EVERYONE LOVES THEM THEM THEM RIGHT???? (I am. So sorry if this is overboard. ^^' You can burn me at the stake if you want.)

Person after me: You're so cool and amazing and I think you deserve everything you put your little LGBTQ+ friendly heart to. :)

Happy pride month everyone! Have a very safe month because I am going to run over all the homophobe-shaped speed bumps as a treat! :3c

@sacabambaspis-offical @ashelf66 @confused-cookie-blog @toaster-waffle-offical @bacone-official @britishtea-again @unlabelled-offical @genderqueer-offical + anyone else who wants to join! Yay! This was fun! ^^

[genderqueer-offical]

hey, i'm genderqueer. (no real name yet... so nicknames are very welcome)

i am genderfluid, aegosexual, and abroromantic!

[id: i am genderfluid, aegosexual, and abroromantic!]

my preferred pronouns depend on the day or situation... but i use she/her and he/him separately, or sometimes interchangeably. currently i think i'm going by he/him right now...

being queer is a very mixed experience for me. romantically, i absolutely love that i am able to feel attraction towards the beauty of every gender (albeit, sometimes at different times), however, for sexual and gender orientations, it can make me quite frustrated. because i'm afab, my gender dysphoria can be insane when i'd rather be male, which makes it irritatingly hard to be alone with my thoughts. secondly, the only reason i'm aegosexual (asexual) is due to the fact that i am not amab. when i'm feeling more male, i have a tendency to fantasize (not going to say it explicitly, but you know what i mean) and have it immediately tamped down because i don't have an amab body. it can get really fucking annoying.

person before me: hey pen, thanks for tagging me! you seem really cool and i'm very grateful that you're running over all the negativity :) have a safe and happy pride month!

person after me: though i haven't read your post, all of you experiences are valid. if you aren't already, you are going to be okay, things are going to work out, and everything you've done will very soon pay off. thank you so much for reblogging this post and sharing part of your life with us! have an absolutely gorgeous day, and an even better pride month <3

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moots vv (...and more in the reblogs)

@roxie-cozyspace @snail-offical @small-bottle-of-expired-milk @neptuenery @days-without-ai-ads-offical @do-not-u-dare @a-machine-that-yearns-for-love @costco-offical @null-the-void-monarch-offical @chickfila-offical @sapphic-offical @7-eleven-offical @raventhecrispy-offical @bacone-official @gold-offical @coffee--spill @macandcheese-offical @parentscomputer-official @itsuwari-no-kibo-offical @somebeaver-offical @hekate-offical @pipis-official @teapotsoffcialyup @3scap3fr0mr3al1ty @gruz-mothers-official @choir-offical @unshipper-offical @charlie-kirk-official @fox-offical @ham-sandwich-consumer-offical @pegz-and-rexy-offical @eraser-offical @overlord-offical @chill-lesbian2013 @international-electromatics @radioactive-bread-offical @singapore-offical @cleaning-spray-offical @gayness-offical @walmart-job-certificate-offical @star-offical @sophisticated-offical @thecatboyknight-offical @penny-offical @james-offical @deductivelogico-offical @imightbeafaerie-official-offical @recycle-official @toaster-waffle-offical @krow-offical @oppossum-offical @biwaterpup-official @evilest-offical @the-one-and-only-piper-offical

[do-not-u-dare]

hiiii I’m ember

i have a bunch of microlabels and some contradicting ones but we’ll shorten it to genderfluid aroace

preferred pronouns: vy/vyx/vyxen/vyxens/vyxenself

additional: passively queerphobic parents suck but what sucks even more is a school that regularly ridicules the queer community. i have one singular irl friend who I suspect is queer but don’t have the guts to ask and also did I mention all my other friends hate them so it’s hard interacting sometimes. i really dislike how I look also so yeahhh. also country I live in doesn’t Support idk how to explain it it’s just pretty hostile

to genderqueer-offical: awh that sucks. hope it gets better for you and you can become more comfortable in your body <3 /p

[laciffo-natas]

Hi! I am Natas (maybe I'll tell y'all my real name someday,,)

I too have many microlabels and xenogenders, but you can shorten it to transmasc femboygirl and arospec gay ^^

My preferred pronouns are xe/xei, ci/cir and he/him

I've struggled for a long time with accepting myself and others. It's a very recent development that I've been able to accept that I can be both a femboy and transmasc, and even more recent that I've been able to accept the feminine side of my gender altogether. I used to be a transmedicalist and getting over that and realizing trans is an identity was really difficult for me.

On the positive side, I really do love being queer. I love to collect flags and make my stuff pretty, I love to decorate myself in feminine clothes and I like seeing people confused when the pretty girl over there uses he/him :>

And for the people reading this, just remember that I love you and you are valid. Whether your identity is contradictory, aspec, non-binary, xenine, multispec, trans, gay, or something else, you don't have to explain yourself to anyone. You are deserving of love and acceptance.

[trans-boy-thing-offical]

Haiii I'm Anth!

I've basically given up on labelling my sexuality but the closest I've come is abrosexual, omnisexual(maybe pan?), aspec, demiromantic. For gender ill just put transmasc nonbinary.

For pronouns, I've been caring less and less but my preference is he/they/it (in no particular order)

Though it absolutely is a struggle, I very much love being part of the queer community. I used to not understand it or even get frustrated when people insisted on using neopronouns or xenogenders or anything that fell beyond my immediate understanding, but through time I have learned that so long as what a person is doing is not hurting other people, it truly does not matter. With this mindset I've been able to understand myself and embrace numerous microlabels (so many I can't remember without writing them down when I find one I like) and I'm happier with my identity than I have ever been.

Now, to the person reading this: you are valid. You are loved. You are cared for. You matter more than you could possibly understand. There is no shame in who you are. You deserve the world 💛

@no-one-offical @bleedingpencils @aschermorgan @chickfila-offical @homosexuality-offical +open tagsss

[aschermorgan]

hi!! I’m Ascher/Ashe, I’m pan romantic and aspec, I’m a trans man, and my pronouns are he/him+they/them <3

I think my biggest struggle being in the queer community is that I live in the southern US, and have not v supportive parents, so I can’t really come out comfortably, which has taken a big toll on my mental health, especially in the last year or so.

to the person above and below me in the chain: I love you, you deserve all the happiness in the world, and I wish you a happy pride <33

@tired-shipper @groundbeefster @nuthin-gold-can-stay @sweetlittlelizbian @mesers-prongs @weirdogenkin +open tags <33

[weirdogenkin]

Hello! I’m Dusky, I’m pansexual, asexual, and nonbinary! My pronouns are they/them and he/him OCCASIONALLY ASK.

I think a joy of being LGBTQ is being able to help others discover themselves just by existing. I was able to help my partner understand herself as genderfluid (before we were dating) and it just felt so rewarding to be able to say “yeah, i literally just existed and people started questioning and understanding themselves better.” It’s a whole “ luigi wins by doing absolutely nothing” story.

To anyone above and below, I hope you learn to love yourself, and help others too. 💜

No pressure tags: @sleepy-the-loz-enthusiast, @dapperenby13, @venuscancer2003, @ariannathedepressed + any who want to join

[venuscancer2003]

I'm Venus, not quite sure if I'm okay putting my irl name online yet, I'm pansexual and some kind of masc nonbinary (i've spent the past year looking for labels and I think I've finally given up), I go by he/they with a strong preference for he, I think the joy of being in the El Gee Bee Tea is meeting others like you because it's a form of bonding like no other. Sure I'm pretty close with my ally friends, but my queer friends understand me on a level not many other people can, and I'm forever grateful for them. anyone above and below i want you to have a wonderful day, week, month, and year!! always look forward to the bright days ahead of you, I promise they're there<3

@raifahsdoppelganger @squidjellyo

[una-hive5]

[venuscancer2003]

cant believe someone animated chapter 219 leaks

[spiritsealed]

[cafe-pothos]

Depressed Sakura tomorrow???? Possibly?????

[stoatsworld]

heated rivalry this ... heated rivalry that ... DO NOT FORGET WHERE WE CAME FROM, DO NOT FORGET THE ANCIENT TEXTS