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^•ﻌ•^ฅ♡ Please feel free to spam me with boops at any time! 🐾
🌈 Hey there, I'm Vex. White, cisgendered lesbian in her late thirties. Intersectional feminist, fangirl, gamer, and highly sensitive introvert. Partnered to a wonderful woman (Rebel) for over a decade.
I've been part of online fandom since 1999 and frequently find myself nostalgic for the days of Web 1.0. I have a lot of ships. Most of them are m/m. You can find my fic on AO3 under VexVerlain.
YKINMKATO, ship and let ship, but also, racism in fandom is a thing. No, I don't have the answers. But fandom has saved my life more than once, and it enrages me that others have been harmed in the places I was helped.
FYI: I am not always a ray of sunshine. I have intimate knowledge (through my own lived experience and/or that of my loved ones) of complex trauma, invisible illness, chronic pain, serious traumatic brain injury, and a plethora of other distressing things. I also have a lot of thoughts re: what we owe to each other as human beings, which informs my politics. For the most part, when I'm on Tumblr, I'm here for the fangirling—but reality can creep in, so please consider this your warning.
I don't do DNI lists. People with beliefs that devastate me are welcome to follow, but may be blocked if their direct interactions with me are uncivil. We are all curators of our own online experience.
🛑 JULY 2025 STATUS: Unwell and unamused.






















